I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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My monster in laws

Posted on Thu, Jun. 22, 2017 at 02:15 am

My mil and 2 sils are lonely hateful and intrusive. My husband has 2 children from a former marriage. We have two sons together.The mil and sils have made it very clear that my husbands 2 oldest children are the favorites. they actually told me that they hate our oldest son because he looks like me. They have encouraged the ex-wife to seek reconciliation. ( my husband and the former wife had 6 separation agreements prior to their divorce). They encourage the children to be direspectful to me. And have told them that their parents would be together if i had not married their father. My husband sometimes stands up to them by burying his head and sneaking around to keep on their good side. We have been married over 20 years but i am at the the end of my rope. I hate the sneaking, lying and the silent treatment i get. If i wrote everything it would be a novel.

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counting down every minute

Posted on Thu, Jun. 22, 2017 at 12:23 am

Dear MIL,
2 days 22 hours 20 minutes until I put you an airplane back to your so called home.

I will not miss the constant buzzing of your never ending complaining about how warm the house is, how cold the nights are, how big the mosquitoes are, how expensive the housing market is, how the man is keeping you down, how there is nothing to eat, how I cooked too much food, how you don't eat meat but can live off chocolate.

I will not miss your shockingly ignorant facts on every single subject that you have no business being involved in. From your last century theories on what my baby needs, to how I should give up my six figure job to become an uber driver, or how the sprinkler system is running for too long.

I will not miss how you are an armchair; financial advisor, real estate mogul, marriage therapist, bad husband detector, business expert, chef, dog trainer,politician, activist - even tho you and all of you and everyone in ears reach of your poison are on a one way bus to failure town - very much because of you.

If I may offer some friendly advice. Spend some time trying to figure out why your husband was driven to cheat and you, why your kids have every single issue on the book ranging from having a child way too young just just get out of the house, to weight issues, to self centered behavior of astronomical proportions.

No MIL, drinking home made ginger tea isn't going to solve your problems. You're not lacking in energy or stamina, you don't need fake boobs, or to loose weight ...If I may offer your some personal friendly advice, a little self reflection and some "you only live once" choices may get you further. That or hopping on that airplane sooner. much, much, sooner. please

2 days 22 hours 10 minutes until I put you an airplane back to your home.

I will not miss you, please don't come back.

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Please Stop

Posted on Wed, Jun. 21, 2017 at 08:43 pm

The moment I found out I was pregnant I felt joy....and then dread knowing that jealous SIL would be horrible to me. She came over to my house and saw something and now claims I stole it from her deceased mother. I'm sad. I didn't steal anything. I'm so tired of this BS. I just want everyone to be happy. I'm so offended, because I have worked so hard for everything I have and her jealousy is just a disease infecting life. I think this was the final straw.... I don't want to see her or have her in my home ever again.

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In-laws steeping over always wanna play victims

Posted on Wed, Jun. 21, 2017 at 05:41 pm

So two months ago I gave birth to my son (first time mom) My now fiancé and I have been together 2½ years and recently got engaged. The problem is his parents. His dad is too controlling and his mom is too pushy, they both want things their way and actually cry when we won't give in yo their demands. My fiance's dad just got out of jail a few months ago. I'll be honest I don't like him and don't want to be around him. When we see them they always asked personal questions and we are always the topic of conversation, they demand that we bring our newborn around their whole family and always want things their way. Well here is the reason why I don't want my baby around them his dad is a register sex offender I don't feel comfortable having my baby around him, I also feel the same way. I don't know this person at all he was in jail the whole time my fiancé and I been together. His parents want us to come over with our son but he's not allowed around children and they get mad saying we are trying to keep him away from them and their family. His mom is too pushy she got hurt I wouldn't come to a birthday party I wasn't invited to and told her husband, he called and yelled at my fiancé. We been staying with my mom and they think we have people over every week to see the baby but we don't, I don't like a lot of people around him he's still a newborn. I want to got visit my family next year in another country and they think is a bad idea it makes me so mad bc I don't have any family here but my mom and brothers. Like they always talking when no one wants their opinion them get hurt bc they don't hear what they want to hear. They know no boundaries and always called my son their baby like no. They have started so many arguments in between us my postpartum depression got worse. My fiancé have told them to back out but like I said they know no boundaries. They always demand things and i feellike they won't respect our decisions bc they always got something to say. My fiancé is on my side but they just really don't uunderstand is like they always telling us how a marriage should be and how to raise our kid. Hes dad even try to pick our son's name just bc he's is the Grandpa he thought he have the right to. I feel intoxicate by his family they wants us to spend all the holidays with them like I got no family to spend them with or something. Before i gave birth we have to leave our apt. because of mole and we'd been staying with my mom ever since they got mad and said why we didn't stay with them even though he's dad can't be around our son and I don't wanna be around them. I love my fiancé and I wanna marry him but not his Family.Every time we said no to something whether is his mom or dad they always play victim and take it off on my fiancé creating issues in between us. At this point I just don't care anymore I'll be mean if I have to but won't tolerate this anymore.PS this is the first grandkid on both sides and my fiancé is their only child.

   

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Father's day.

Posted on Wed, Jun. 21, 2017 at 02:15 pm

I walked in on SIL taking out a fat stack of bills from her purse, then whined to her retired mom to pay it for her. I quickly walked out because i would puke if i stay.

She can't even let her parents have a relaxing Father's day without mooching for money???

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Open letter to my family

Posted on Wed, Jun. 21, 2017 at 07:44 am

This is to my family, in laws included. Yes my mother died over 2 months ago. Yes I am deep in grief over this and it is going to take time for this to heal. And I cannot turn off my grief like a faucet.

Your total abandonment of me is so totally rude, ignorant and just plain mean. You could never bother to visit Mom when she was alive and now that she is dead, does that make it better for you. And to bitch at me because I choose not to have her remains buried right now is none of your business. Mom and I talked about this and this is what she wanted. I can wait another year when we can afford it. Why is this such a hard concept to grasp? Because you choose to be this way.

To my niece and nephew. By not coming by to visit only makes it harder on me. I do love you and the kids and I do enjoy seeing them. You did the same thing to your Grandmother by not bringing over her 4 great grandkids. When they are old enough, I will tell them stories about your Grandmother. She did love them and you. Selfish, spoiled is what you are. I realize that your Grandmother was extremely sick, but an 30 minute visit would not have killed you.

To my other relatives, since you cannot bother to call me, come by for a visit, then keep doing what you are doing. It just makes it easier on me to continue on with my life. It hurts terribly and I don't even tell my DH about it, but he sees it.

I have a long memory and I will never forget this and it will show in how I treat you.

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17 years and counting!

Posted on Tue, Jun. 20, 2017 at 11:43 pm

I don't even know where to begin, have you ever had a person tell you their serving chocolate pudding but it's really poop pie... well that's the whole stinking lot of them. 17 years of being yelled at, verbally assaulted lied about. Then when you try to address reality they pull out the old 'what do you mean, we love you?!! Bull ____ line making you question your own sanity. This last time was a doosey. No mistaken inner hostility there. Took all my belongings and sold them at yard sale, sheets, purses, furniture, heirlooms you name it then sil threatened to call police or her bully husband if I didn't leave yard sale with my stuff being sold. Clincher, my mil texted me that she made over $500 from my things. I told her to keep the money!!! I'm putting our recently purchased house up for sale, taking my daughter across state if I have to, and husband can decide to either grow a pair and come with us, or stay and be their poodle! Stick a fork in me, I'm done!!!

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Relief

Posted on Tue, Jun. 20, 2017 at 04:07 pm

I am divorcing my H and he told me that I am no longer welcome by his parents. Um, is it okay that this actually is a relief to me? I am not even hurt. They have been such douche bags to me for almost 30 years. I could write a book of all the ridiculous things I have experienced with this family. The only thinly I blame myself for is not getting out sooner! H is turning into them- a bunch of self-righteous know it all blamers. I spent years trying to win their favor and being jokingly called an outlaw, not an in law. Well screw them all! I am so relieved!

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Loser!!!

Posted on Tue, Jun. 20, 2017 at 08:40 am

Today my MIL texted to say she had stopped in unannounced to visit (again) while my husband was at work & she was sorry to have missed me. When she does this as I am forced to hear all about her latest drama & how hard done by she is when all of her problems are actually her own fault. I was actually home but fortunately was putting my son down for a nap & didn't hear her knocking. Half an hour after the text I am feeling chuffed at having avoided a tedious & wasted afternoon. I take the rubbish out. The bloody loser is in her car just outside my house using our wifi because she can't afford to put data on her phone & has no internet at the government subsidised flat she's been living in illegally for the past 2 years. My next 3 hours were spent listening to this losers mind numbing bs until hubby got home & took over. I wonder how many years of my life will end up wasted listening to this womens crap :/

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Condiments, anyone?

Posted on Mon, Jun. 19, 2017 at 10:15 pm

My inlaws came over for Fathers' Day Dinner. MIL brings a jar of "fruit-lax" for the table because she is constipated.

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