I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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I said my peace

Posted on Thu, Mar. 23, 2017 at 10:22 pm

I apologize to SIL the other day about how i treated her back in the day. I get a message stating how she is the victim and how she is hurting all these years, too many people hurt her, so she doesn't forgive me and blocked me on Facebook. This is the best thing to happen to me, because this psycho was begging me to add her as friend to her Facebook. I declined and said my peace to her. She holds grudges, all i know is that i am a happier person than she will ever be.

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The legacy they leave behind.

Posted on Thu, Mar. 23, 2017 at 08:16 pm

My fil died a few years ago. Mil never had a funeral for him even though he wanted a funeral and he wanted everyone to get a vial of his ashes (because he is so great everyone needs a piece of him)

I for one celebrate on a regular basis in my head that I no longer have to put up with him. Sometimes I wake up in the morning and think about never having to see him again and it puts a bounce in my step. He was mean and hateful and said some really horrible things to me over the years.

The only thing I remember about him is the relief I feel when I think of him being gone. He's been gone a while now and I still feel total joy that he no longer walks the earth.

Be careful what you do on earth because your legacy may be that people are glad you're not around.

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Posted on Thu, Mar. 23, 2017 at 07:56 pm

*RED, YOU La, La, skip to my loo FEH & let's not forget about young duck feet & butt whinny peewee pimples FEH!!!!!!!!!
TAKE YOUR MED's & go night, night! THE FAMILY OF FEHHHH!
OH, F@@K YOU!!!! F@@KING FEH's!!!!! F@@K OFF!!!! YOU FEH!!!!

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Posted on Thu, Mar. 23, 2017 at 06:39 am

Do I hate my MIL ????
Just Imagine If I had a bucket of water and my MIL was on fire. I WOULD DRINK THE WATER.

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Update on plan your own damb party

Posted on Wed, Mar. 22, 2017 at 10:49 pm

Dh called mil and explained with time conflicts, work schedule, living in another state, fil bday being in the middle of the week there is no way he can go to fil's party. He figured it was self explanitory that he won't be planning it with his brother. Mil listened, didn't ask questions and before they hung up told dh not to forget to call his brother so they can get started on planning fil's party. Im staying out of it. It's obviously a stand off and all Im doing is setting up my lawn chair, grabbing some popcorn and going to watch the fireworks fly.

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6 years and counting I do not get along with MIL

Posted on Wed, Mar. 22, 2017 at 09:35 am

My husband and I met 6 years ago while we were young his mum didn't really bother me until I moved in with them then the bridge started to shake. She's just too much for me to even handle I am a very laid back easy going person quiet and there's my MIL guns ablaze for with all her "knowledge" and she just can't stop talking! God it drives me mental. Even after all these years I must admit she has made an effort to try and talk to me even if it's just her usual talky chats. I just have 0% interest. I don't like her, I don't want to listen to her. She spent the last 6 years treating my husband- her son like her slave he would go there everyday and do so much around the house for her, fix everything for her run her errands, even taking days of unpaid leave to care for her sick DOG!!! we have our own house, our own kids our own pets what about me? I moved far away from my family to be with my husband so I don't share the same views on being so close to your family that it almost seems like he is the dad too, my MIL works away so he is not home often I understand this but that was their choice, because of the. Choice they made it certainly means they can afford to hire help but they choose not too I'm not just one of those lazy mums sitting around the house with the kids having a whinge I work too. Anyway thisput a strain on our relationship but it's since been resolved. I thought that having kids would bring me closer to my MIL because she is passionate about kids lives and breathes through them. But instead it's made things worse. We never talk anymore, we never acknowledge each other and I careless about her now than I ever did only because now she starts to give me opinions on how to raise my child that I don't agree with. I want a new MIL please!! I can't save my relationship with this witch!!!

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Descrption of you MIL

Posted on Wed, Mar. 22, 2017 at 06:44 am

A narcissist's weapon of choice is often verbal- slander, lies playing the victim in flipped tales of who was the victim and who was the abuser, gossip, rage , verbal abuse and intentional infliction of emotional pain. It is a systematic dismantling of another person's relationships, reputation emotional, physical and spiritual health,life and very soul. This is why narcissists are so often called "emotional vampires".

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Mother in law is a hag plain and simple

Posted on Wed, Mar. 22, 2017 at 02:35 am

My MIL is a repulsive self indulgent neglectful witch. I first got an idea of the extent of her neglect as a parent when my DH had his first birthday when we were together and she didn't call once. I thought it took the biscuit when they wouldn't come to our wedding because of 'money'' but then when she decided to verbally attack me over over it saying she will never forgive us for having our wedding when she couldn't make it. And even got her golden child shit of a brother in law to attack me over it. On the one year anniversary of my first daughters birth and death, she posted a photograph to Facebook of her dog and titled it 'my baby girls first birthday' yes her dog. (It wasn't even her dogs birthday, not even close, she baked a fucking cake for the goddamn thing, that unsurprisingly keeps it in a cage all the time and I have actually witnessed my FIL punch the poor thing) She makes everything about her, from my nana dying to us not having money to go visit them, she even told me I needed to forgot about my daughter. They have asked us for money, yet are completely reckless with their own, and they both my MIL and FIL shamelessly disrespect my husband, in favour of his siblings, yet the whole family have no qualms in running to him for everything. She forgets birthdays, special occasions, but will have the whole family up in arms if you fail to send a gift for the many ridiculous holidays she celebrates. She's overweight and lazy. Yet repeatedly talks about my diet and weight. She's forever trying to influence my parenting decisions and then gets aggressive when I don't follow her 'recommendations'. My DH told me when he was a child she threw him down the stairs, made him stand in a basin of very hot water, and regularly prevented him from going on school trips (even the free ones) she would take his birthday and Christmas money for 'safe keeping' and wouldn't spend money on decent medicines or shoes or basic things like that but would always find the cash for extravagant things for herself. My husband regularly says when we move house he's not telling them where we are going, and if I'm honest in an ideal world my children won't know who they are. Never in my life have I met such hateful and resentful people. Recently when they found out we didn't have the money to go visit them, she blew the whole thing out of proportion and insisted it was because I have a problem with the hurtful things she says to me (eerrrmmm well clearly I do that doesn't make me a bad person?) nothing is good enough for her and they just want to leech on everyone else's good fortune. Honestly I wish I had never met them. I tried hard with them for the sake of my kids but they can't be grateful or appreciate anything. They just would happily take take take from us until we were out on the street but would sit there on a pile of gold still begging for more.

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Posted on Tue, Mar. 21, 2017 at 01:36 pm

I don't even know where to start. My in laws are the worst people on earth. They pretend to be these one loving family to my dh face but behind his back they straight up mean and horrible people. My MIL still can't get over that her son has his own family now so she calls and texts him everyday. She feels entiteled to know what's going on in our daily lives for some reason. (like what we're doing? what we're eating/ with who? what restaurant? etc.wtf????) Almost like she has FOMO. Always guilt trips dh if he doesn't respond on time or God forbid stoods up for me if there is an argument. Not to mention my dh sister who's the biggest liar and manipulative bitch I have ever met also tries to manipulate my dh against me. They are a bunch of losers living in the same town with boring lives and zero interests other than my dh and mine's life. I used to feel sorry for them but now I just fucking hate them and whish they move to Tasmania or somewhere else far enough with no phone service!Oh and did I mention that they love to plan mine and dh's life??? Like where we should live, how much we should spend etc.?? My dh told them what he thinks after we had a huge fight about it but he still is too soft and to much of a mama's boy. So I took things in my own hands and told them straight up that they are overbearing and overly involved in ours lives and that they need to back off. That didn't go to well because they can't accept that. I don't need their constant presence in my life and what pisses them of even more is the fact that me and dh have a great relationship. Especially his sister can't stand it because she ruined her own marriage by fucking a guy that she reconnected with on facebook. (Told you she's a loser)
Now I don't talk to them at all but my dh of course is still in touch with them because it's his family. I just wish they didn't exisit! Now I understand why some women are into older guys but it's simply because they know they're in laws are most likely dead!!!

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