I Hate My Inlaws!

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I wish I could go back in time

Posted on Sun, Jun. 26, 2016 at 02:09 pm

I love the father of my children, but unfortunately I feel like a divorce is immanent b/c nothing can repair the hate I have for you, and all the bullsh×t you have tormented me threw.

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No more food from the heart for you!

Posted on Sun, Jun. 26, 2016 at 11:35 am

It's weird how all this crap is coming to my mind now after all these years NC with the ILs. I guess I had so much other stuff to process that this stuff didn't seem as priority at the time, but maybe my mind and spirit are purging every little last thing now as I continue to work my way toward healing from their abuse.

So this involves food again (I posted here recently about past memories of food) and how I so went out of my way at first to impress the ILs by cooking up fancy and new recipes. Honestly, maybe in a weird way, if it wasn't for trying to impress them I would never have become that great a cook since I certainly didn't have the interest when growing up.

I remember happily slaving away for these people whenever they visited, baking fancy cakes and pies from scratch, cooking roasts and delicious pastas. I even baked a chocolate bailey's cheesecake for one of the loser BILs on his birthday-- had I known what an awful brother and BIL he would eventually turn out to be I would never have even got him a cupcake.

These people inhaled all of my food, sometimes even saying it was 'good' but 'too fancy,' like kind of subtle put down as in 'nice try, but your efforts will never fully be appreciated by us.' The sad thing is, SMIL is a lousy cook, wife #1 that one BIL eventually married hardly cooks at all, and wife #2 is just a mediocre cook at best. Would it matter if these people had been nicer? Of course not! But it just irks me how after all the effort I put out for FIL and BILs particularly at first (and even SMIL) to make them feel welcome and cherished by my cooking, this is the response I got from them (and others) as years went by ...

Here are comments from A-hole BIL (the one I baked the birthday cake for)- "My FAVORITE cake of all time is my aunt's cake" (FYI: it's a Duncan heines cake she got out of a box and pours booze on).

another comment from the same a-hole- 'My FAVORITE food is the bruschetta SMIL makes" (FYI: the spread is literally from a jar and she just toasts the bread to accompany it).

Comment from SMIL's low class grandson (who was like 18 years old at the time so there was no excuse for bad manners) after I slaved away baking a lemon cheesecake for their dessert -- "S-okay ..."

I'm sure there were other slights, but I can't think of them right now. Was I expecting praise and worship for all my hard work and to be regarded as the best cook of all time? No. But when all of the hard work I did for people can be so casually dismissed and made inferior to the cooking of others who just get it out of a can, box or jar, it is a little degrading. Oh, and who did I find out this information from? SMIL of course! She was just so happy to boast that her jarred bruschetta outranked my homemade efforts. Jealous B!

It really brings the meaning home 'don't give your pearls to pigs.' I have vowed never to see these people again (for more reasons than this of course), but let's just say that if fate ever forced me to share a meal with them again I wouldn't lift as much as a finger to get them an ice cube.

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Trying to figure shit out

Posted on Sun, Jun. 26, 2016 at 05:12 am

DH... I often wonder why it's so hard for me to get along with you at times, why you just push my buttons...

Your family was awful, and the people they married took that awfulness to a whole other level. At first when I thought your father and brothers were somewhat decent people I couldn't get what they saw in narcissistic, arrogant and trouble-making POS like who they married, but as time went on it all made sense because they all showed their true colours, the spouses were just a reflection of them.

Your extended family (while slightly more decent than your immediate one) are all
Sketchy, somewhat prejudice, backword, self-absorbed and arrogant enablers. I just tolerate them.

So I had to do what was best for me and my children and cut the ILs off, and very much limit the contact with extended ILs. It's given me some time to heal (meaning become stronger in myself and see the abuse for what it was and even what it continues to be since some ILs have crawled out of their holes in past months and have minimized the situation, and/or tried to guilt me into taking them back into my life). But they're done! I've figured them all out and want nothing more to do with them.

But you still irk me. This is the next piece I have to figure out. I'll do almost anything to keep our family together, but I really think it's your attitude of 'my shit don't stink and all our problems are basically because of me' that really drives me nuts. It reminds me so much of the attitude if ILs... They were monsters who always had 'reasons and excuses' for it, always poor them, BUT if I ever made a single slight or misstep it was the end of the world!! I can't stand an attitude like that. It's just so incredibly pathetic. (To be continued)...

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HORRIBLE AS A MIL & AS A GRANDMOTHER !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted on Sun, Jun. 26, 2016 at 03:36 am

mil , you have caused dddrrrrraaaaammmmmaaaa as a grandmother !!!! you loser, you , you derraged neurotic manipulating narcisstic beotch!!!!!!! shame on you!!!! f@$k off & die!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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We Got Lives, SIL...

Posted on Sat, Jun. 25, 2016 at 10:07 am

My SIL texted me about her daughter's party that we were suppose to go today. My DH is off tomorrow and works six days a week. Tomorrow is going to be our day together off. For today, sorry we couldn't make it as I already had plans to go to the store and fix everything for the week. I work Monday thru Friday and Saturdays is my only time to do things for my family. I ignored the voice messages from SIL as she Loves to create drama. The truth is we got lives outside of you and DH and I do NOT want to be around the family. He doesnt care about you guys and is more focused on us, working and moving away from all of you.

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Favoritism

Posted on Sat, Jun. 25, 2016 at 08:13 am

GSIL has be given everything she owns by PILs. She spends her money foolishly knowing PILs will ALWAYS give her more. They don't give their son anything, not even for his birthday. GSIL got a new car last year for her 40th birthday. It seems to me, PILs enjoy watching their son's reaction, as if they enjoy that they hurt him. Recently, DH has now cut PILs and GSIL out of our lives. Now PILs will have to find someone else to mow their lawn, fix their cars, make home repairs, etc.. When PILs die, GSIL will fall, and we WON'T be there to catch her. You get what you give. In this case, nothing!

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Mouthrunning, overbearing MIL

Posted on Fri, Jun. 24, 2016 at 10:36 am

Violets are blue
Roses are red
I'm ready to wrap duct tape
Around your head

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In the name of religion

Posted on Fri, Jun. 24, 2016 at 08:35 am

I am not perfect. Yed, I have my faults. I met your son at a time when you did not even speak to him as he was not part of your cult. I was a teenager barely 16 when I suffered the first time rejection from your clan. I became pregnat & moved out to begin s life with your son. What happens then is cruel. You move in his ex girlfriend & her kid, you ban me from your family, you blackmail him to leave me. Even to the point of calling our home and putting his ex on phone. He did leave me and return to her in your home. I was still pregnant. He returned very appologetic & I forgave him as I saw what it did to him. I become pregnant with second son. I am offered a plane ticket for my son and I then offer a car to him to let me go. Nope. 23 yrs have gone by. Not one wedding, party, dinner nothing have I been invited. I left your son 5 years ago and you forgot your grandkids existed. He found females and you welcomed them into your home yet your grandchildren were not as they were mine. I even began attending your cult seeking acceptance for not me but your grandchilderen. Didint work. I ended up remarrying your son and you continued treating me like crap. Your entire family has. How can you judge or treat me like this when you allowed him to be abused by your husband as the other children were not. You gave him away at 13 yr old to your father. I housed him, clothed him, made him a man and father yet im the bad one? I know why it bothers you. Its because gave him unconditional love and acceptance. Something you could not do. So you are no one I want to even know. All those. Years i wanted to be part of your family. You should be proud of yourself as im sure Jesus is smiling at your actions in the name of religion. That is what reason you state im not accepted. F!&# you. Your gods twisted then like you

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The Hive Mind from Hell

Posted on Fri, Jun. 24, 2016 at 07:37 am

Sorry for the long message, I had years of abuse to get off my chest, upon reflection some of this sounds petty but when you combine it with the whole picture I just cannot stand the sight of them.

I have held my tongue for more than 20 years from when I first heard about your exploits as a group and as individuals and then came to directly experience your exploits and I have had enough of your spiritual sickness which leads you to such abuses of my wife, children and myself.

Spiritual sickness is quite a strong term and I do not use it lightly as I can think of no other reason why you would treat my wife, children and myself to such abuses. If spiritual sickness does not explain it then you can only be bad old eggs.

I have known you many years and in reality you have all been nothing but a cancerous poisonous canker on our family from the beginning. I have to acknowledge that you have at times shown some kindness but this is completely wiped out when you consider that “kindness” was conditional and also your abuses to my wife, children and I.
I have been moved to write this down as it appears that yet again you are writing history in your own sick perceptions and not in the reality of what actually happens, had you not tried to rewrite or ignore history I don’t think I would have written this. I know I am supposed to let things go and move on and God knows I have tried however I think expunging all your vitriol into writing will go some way to let things go and also stop you in your tracks of trying to diminish or ignore your abuses.

Let’s put it out there I made a big mistake and I made full amends to MY wife. After that the only thing I have done to you directly is hurt your pride and embarrass you. I contacted you to make amends and you rejected me out of hand.

I have genuinely made a searching and fearless look at my role and those of my wife in all of our interactions and I honestly cannot see why you behave in such a heinous manner. You have consistently and habitually abused my wife and I in so many different ways it became the new normal and a great deal of your day to day abuses have been forgotten. I am only even mentioning the abuses to my wife, children and I and will leave out the full gamut of how else you abuse each other and those around you.

Additionally my wife and I have never treated you any differently, disrespected you, diminished you, spoke behind your back to anyone or treated you with unkindness. Enough is enough and when you all came to my house to abuse my wife and I that was the straw that broke the camel’s back and I decided you were all spiritually sick and simply too twisted and dangerous to have any communication with and only for the sake of my wife and children do I say hello and goodbye to you.

Each and every one of you is a God Mother/Father to one of my children against my better judgement, you are not worthy of the title to provide my children with Christian support, guidance and love, my children deserve better than you.

Your Sister/Daughter is a shining beacon of light blazing through your dark cloud of sickness and is worth more than an infinite amount of each and every one of you. I am genuinely blessed to have met my soul mate who is the only gem in a sea of sh*te you call your family.

BIL
Facts:
You are invited to a children’s party which you deign to attend and you start going through the contents of our PVR, would you like to look at our underwear drawer as well.

You and us do not have that connection that you think you can just do that.

You continue not to visit your sister, nieces and nephews and yet visit other siblings on a regular basis.

My daughter was taking her Holy Communion and you did not bother yourself to attend one of the most important religious ceremonies of your God Daughter. You did not even bother to let your sister know that something genuinely came up and in the absence of that I can only put your lack of attendance down to spiritual sickness.

My newly born son and I went for a walk and upon seeing us in your van you purposefully with intent razzed past us in a cloud of exhaust gases, such action is dangerous and not good for young lungs.

Our newly born Son arrived home and you did not bother to visit your sister’s house and see your new nephew. You only saw him when your sister took him to your mummy’s house months later.

My wife was in your mummy’s home and you and your mummy abused my wife even further criticising our marriage. My wife was very upset by your words and actions. Who are you to comment upon our marriage you mid 40s mummy’s boy who in all the time I have known you has had one short term toxic relationship with an alcoholic you met in supposed recovery and one other relationship with a separated but married woman.

My wife was in your mummy’s home and you and your mummy started criticising my mother for not helping out more. Additionally you continued your verbal abuse and said that my mother should stay in a hotel when she comes to visit. Who are you to think you can talk about my relationship with my mother or my wife’s relationship with her mother in law.

You organised and participated in a lynch mob where you visited MY house and gave my wife and I verbal abuse.

You came to my house to deliver some sh*t from your business and you simply walked in made yourself a cup of coffee and started picking over the food in the refrigerator and on top of that you left a very heavily pregnant woman to climb into your van and pick over your sh*t and carry it in herself. All your other non relative customers get your shit picked up and delivered to their door and yet you let your own pregnant sister climb into a van and walk through dangerous poorly stored sh*t. You came into the house every week like you owned the place and we owed you a living, your attitude stinks.

You treated me with such coldness like I was some thief in the night and not your Brother In Law. I have done everything within my power to help and assist you in anything and everything you have asked and that is the way you treat another human being.

You came to my house to collect some firewood and purposefully left rubbish in my garden and stole my axe this is the actions of a small minded and petty individual.

You talk abusively about both your other sisters behind their backs to me expecting to draw me into your sickness.

You talk abusively about another brother in law behind his back to me expecting to draw me into your sickness and my only reply to you was “yes he was quiet wasn’t he”.

You talk corrosively behind our backs about my family and I to other family members and even non family members.

You attended a recovery program for alcohol abuse and when the program asked you to ask my wife and I how your abusing drinking has affected us we gave an honest answer in detail and you simply laughed at us.

My wife and I were at a festival in a particular town and you turned up so drunk you literally could not walk, you were staggering all over the place, into people’s tables with families around, then staggered into a whole load of kegs knocking them down and then to top it all off you decided to relieve yourself in public in front of parents and children just there to have a nice time and my wife and I steered you somewhere private to protect you.

We lived opposite you whilst you lived in your mummy’s house approx 30 feet apart. When my wife and I moved house you did not come to help out as you said you would and instead my wife and I moved house by ourselves whilst a borrowed van was parked outside your entry and you could see your sister and I struggling to lift heavy furniture all day. I will never forget how upset and tearful my wife was that day because you hid in your mummy’s house watching your own sister struggle. I will never forget dragging a mattress through a wet gutter because my wife couldn’t lift her end up enough all the while being observed by you and your entire family.

In every single labour I have helped you out I have never said it didn’t suit or it was inconvenient I have tolerated the selfish manner in which you think the world revolves around you. In every single labour I have helped from building things, picking things up for you, running errands for you, helping with your various businesses, helping your mother, collecting firewood together or collecting fuel together you have been the slowest laziest work shy individual I have ever met.

I was new to the area, was getting married to your sister, didn’t know anyone and you did not bother your arse to organise any kind of stag do.

I have never known a family to talk about each other in such a manner it is like communicating to a hive mind.

I have never seen a grown man act so emotionally immature around children and when any of my children protest too much at your bullish play you act like a complete child and get a big sulk on.

It is a strange thing to hear grown men being referred to as boys which is the name you and your brothers are called which aptly describes you as a mewling winging and complaining boy still attached to the apron strings of your mummy.

Due to familial and socially acceptable sexism in your home your sister did the vast majority of chores around your house, where were you?
You have a huge chip on your shoulder I am surprised you can walk in a straight line and

I have honestly never met a more arrogant, selfish, self centred and lazy man in all my life.

BIL
Facts:
You continue not to visit your sister, nieces and nephews and yet visit other siblings.

Our newly born Son arrived home and you did not bother to visit your sister’s house and see your new nephew. You only saw him when your sister took him to your mummy’s house months later.

You participated in a lynch mob where you visited MY house and gave my wife and I verbal abuse.

You treated me with such coldness like I was some thief in the night and not your Brother In Law. I have done everything within my power to help and assist you in anything and everything you have asked and that is the way you treat another human being.

We lived opposite you whilst you lived in your mummy’s house approx 30 feet apart. When my wife and I moved house you did not come to help out as you said you would and instead my wife and I moved house by ourselves whilst a borrowed van was parked outside your entry and you could see your sister and I struggling to lift heavy furniture all day. I will never forget how upset and tearful my wife was that day because you hid in your mummy’s house watching your own sister struggle. I will never forget dragging a mattress through a wet gutter because my wife couldn’t lift her end up enough all the while being observed by you and your entire family.

You had given me a number of blocks sometime ago and in the meantime I had purchased additional blocks and left them in one pile. You subsequently asked for the blocks back which I said yes but came and took every block including the ones that were not yours.

We were at a wedding reception and must have been drunk or something and started to square up to me and whisper cultural slurs inches from my face. You were only slightly embarrassed when your father asked me what was that all about and I told him the truth to which he thought your actions disgraceful.

You would consistently go into our garage and “borrow” anything you wanted sometimes without asking and more often than not forget to return them and on occasion when you did return them they were left worse for wear because you didn’t bother to clean the tools.

I lived in the same house with you temporarily and you came into my room drunk wanting to have a drink in the early hours of the morning you only calmed down when your mummy came and told you off for being too noisy.

Whilst living in the same house with you, you came home drunk again and threatened me with a Stanley knife mumbling cultural slurs.

I have never known a family to talk about each other in such a manner it is like communicating to a hive mind.

I was new to the area, was getting married to your sister, didn’t know anyone and you did not bother your arse to organise any kind of stag do.

Due to the age difference and familial and socially acceptable sexism in your home your sister did the vast majority of chores around your house, where were you?

It is a strange thing to hear grown men being referred to as boys which in the name you and your brothers are called which aptly describes you as a mewling winging and complaining boy still attached to the apron strings of your mummy.

BIL
Facts:
You supported and encouraged a lynch mob whereby your family came to visit MY house and gave my wife and I verbal abuse.

You spoke abusively about me behind my back and conspired with your mummy to organise a shared holiday home whereby I did not feel welcome and eventually did not go but I encouraged my wife and children to go like a big gorm.

You treated me with such coldness like I was some thief in the night and not your Brother In Law. I have done everything within my power to help and assist you in anything and everything you have asked and that is the way you treat another human being.

On multiple occasions you came back home from a long distance and did not bother to come to our house to visit your sister, nieces and nephew of which you are a God Father of one of them.

You continued to talk about my family and I behind our backs.

Whilst we lived opposite your mummy’s house you broke into our house and stole 300 from the house to fuel your drinking.
We lived opposite you whilst you lived in your mummy’s house approx 30 feet apart. When my wife and I moved house you did not come to help out as you said you would and instead my wife and I moved house by ourselves whilst a borrowed van was parked outside your entry and you could see your sister and I struggling to lift heavy furniture all day. I will never forget how upset and tearful my wife was that day because you hid in your mummy’s house watching your own sister struggle. I will never forget dragging a mattress through a wet gutter because my wife couldn’t lift her end up enough all the while being observed by you and your entire family.

I lived temporarily with you in your mummy’s house and you stole clothes from me and when you had finished with them hid them under your mattress.

I have never known a family to talk about each other in such a manner it is like communicating to a hive mind.

I was new to the area, was getting married to your sister, didn’t know anyone and you did not bother your arse to organise any kind of stag do, but just cobbled some half arsed effort together when your sister embarrassed you about it.

Due to the age difference and familial and socially acceptable sexism in your home your sister did the vast majority of chores around your house, where were you?

It is a strange thing to hear grown men being referred to as boys which in the name you and your brothers are called which aptly describes you as a mewling winging and complaining boy still attached to the apron strings of your mummy.

BIL
Facts:
You came to my daughters Holy Communion mass but skulked off at the end not bothering see your niece just to avoid speaking to me or my Mother.

Our newly born Son arrived home and you did not bother to visit your sister’s house and see your new nephew. You only saw him when your sister took him to your mummy’s house months later.

You continue not to visit your sister, nieces and nephews and yet visit other siblings.

You have stated that you don’t like me but you will say hello to me, well forget you.

You participated in a lynch mob where you visited MY house and gave my wife and I verbal abuse.

You spoke abusively about me behind my back and conspired with your mummy to organise a shared holiday home whereby I did not feel welcome and eventually did not go but I encouraged my wife and children to go like a big gorm.

You treated me with such coldness like I was some thief in the night and not your Brother In Law. I have done everything within my power to help and assist you in anything and everything you have asked and that is the way you treat another human being.

We lived opposite you whilst you lived in your mummy’s house approx 30 feet apart. When my wife and I moved house you did not come to help out as you said you would and instead my wife and I moved house by ourselves whilst a borrowed van was parked outside your entry and you could see your sister and I struggling to lift heavy furniture all day. I will never forget how upset and tearful my wife was that day because you hid in your mummy’s house watching your own sister struggle. I will never forget dragging a mattress through a wet gutter because my wife couldn’t lift her end up enough all the while being observed by you and your entire family.

I was new to the area, was getting married to your sister, didn’t know anyone and you did not bother your arse to organise any kind of stag do.

I have never known a family to talk about each other in such a manner it is like communicating to a hive mind.

It is a strange thing to hear grown men being referred to as boys which in the name you and your brothers are called which aptly describes you as a mewling winging and complaining boy still attached to the apron strings of your mummy.

Due to the age difference and familial and socially acceptable sexism in your home your sister did the vast majority of chores around your house, where were you?

You are a sneaky old woman and yet you are a mid 30s man, a sleeked worm to watch and be wary of or to quote your own father “a slippy tit” of a man.

SIL
Facts:
My wife and I decided to take our children to a fast food chain and at the joint we encounter you and your sister and both sets of children playing happy families, the fact that you didn’t have the decency to invite your other only sister and children out shows how sick you really are.

You organised and participated in a lynch mob where you visited MY house and gave my wife and I verbal abuse. Also you said things to me which were so offensive to be unreal.

You treated me with such coldness like I was some thief in the night and not your Brother In Law. I have done everything within my power to help and assist you in anything and everything you have asked and that is the way you treat another human being.

You continue not to visit your sister, nieces and nephews whilst driving past our house to visit your other sister.

You talk abusively about another brother in law behind his back to me expecting to draw me into your sickness and my only reply to you was “yes he was quiet wasn’t he”.

You spoke abusively about me behind my back and conspired with your mummy to organise a shared holiday home whereby I did not feel welcome and eventually did not go but I encouraged my wife and children to go like a big gorm.

We lived opposite your mummy’s house approx 30 feet apart. When my wife and I moved house you did not come to help out as you said you would and instead my wife and I moved house by ourselves whilst a borrowed van was parked outside your mummy’s entry and your sister and I struggled to lift heavy furniture all day. I will never forget how upset and tearful my wife was that day because you didn’t bother your arse to do what you said you would do and help. I will never forget dragging a mattress through a wet gutter because my wife couldn’t lift her end up enough all the while being observed by you and your entire family.

We went to visit your new house and you started off on some weird jealous statement that you are going to have this type of cooker and that kind of kitchen and a Jacuzzi and and and and ..... we were just pleased for you that you had moved house and was doing things up but your jealousy wouldn’t let you see our genuine nature that we were happy for you.

You were in our new house with new furniture and you decided to hook your leg up and put your dirty shoes on the arm of a sofa to tie your laces. Are you a child that does not know any better or do you have so little respect for your sister and I?

You were in our house having a few drinks and drank a little too much and your sister was pregnant and therefore not drinking and started into some mumbling rant at my wife that you were going to get her someday.

You came to visit our new build house and you could not even fake being happy for your sister but walked around in a jealous miasma diminishing everything and anything.

As our house was being built I lent you a set of keys to let a tradesperson in to do some work, as it turned out I became available and was in the new house when you waltzed into my house with a group of your friends and strangers to me to give them a tour. You didn’t even look embarrassed at your actions.

We lived in a town house and you would repeatedly come knocking at the window and door drunk at 2am wanting to party or pee I don’t know which.

You would come into our house and start running your finger along the edges of furniture to check for dirt this was not the action of an OCD person but the actions of sickness.

Initially I only knew you for a short while but thought I could discuss something with you in confidence and yet you promptly went discussing my stuff to your mother.

I have never known a family to talk about each other in such a manner it is like communicating to a hive mind.

I have never met a more jealous woman, you crave over your sister like some warped Golem in every aspect of her life and your sister is non judgmental, non materialistic and simply tries to see the good in people.

SIL
Facts:
You continue not to visit your sister, nieces and nephews and yet drive past our house to visit other siblings.

My Daughter and your God Daughter was having a Holy Communion and you conspired with your husband to organise a holiday at the same time even though the Holy Communion date is in the local calendar which you have had for 6 months. You did all of that to avoid your sister and I.

My wife and I decided to take our children to a fast food chain and at the joint we encounter you and your sister and both sets of children playing happy families, the fact that you drove past my wife’s house to do so and that you didn’t have the decency to invite your other only sister and children out shows how sick you really are.

You met my wife and started spewing forth conspiracy theories from your warped evil mind about me that were not only ridiculous but highly offensive. In your wild conjecture you made a statement that was untrue and simply evil, my girlfriend and now wife was around in my life at the time of your proposed supposition and knows everything there is to know about me.

You organised and participated in a lynch mob where you visited MY house and gave my wife and I verbal abuse. Also you said things to me which were so offensive to be unreal. Not only did you abuse my wife and I in a terrible manner you also slandered me and accused me of horrible groundless accusations. My wife and I were so upset and shaken by your words and actions that it took us months of reflection to process your abuse.

My wife and I were in a truly awful temporary situation and you did not provide her or me with any support whatsoever. In fact you made a bad situation even worse by your actions.

Your actions created a situation whereby you could not be in the same room as me. Your other sister at least made things easier for my wife and I and even supported us through our trials.

During our tribulations you did not bother to visit and support your sister in any way.

You spoke abusively about me behind my back and conspired with your mummy to organise a shared holiday home whereby I did not feel welcome and eventually did not go but I encouraged my wife and children to go like a big gorm.

My wife had just given birth to our child a couple of hours old and we rang you to ask could you go up to our house and help your mother put our children to bed as it can be a lot of work for an older person and it would only take 30 to 40 minutes and your reply was “No I am going for a run”. Let me reiterate YOUR SISTER has just GIVEN BIRTH and is exhausted, you have an ELDERLY MOTHER who may need additional assistance and YOU ARE GOING FOR A RUN. WTF. I can only pray that you do not have a sibling like you in your hour of need.

You continue to talk about my family and I abusively behind our backs.

We lived opposite you whilst you lived in your mummy’s house approx 30 feet apart. When my wife and I moved house you did not come to help out as you said you would and instead my wife and I moved house by ourselves whilst a borrowed van was parked outside your entry and you could see your sister and I struggling to lift heavy furniture all day. I will never forget how upset and tearful my wife was that day because you hid in your mummy’s house watching your own sister struggle. I will never forget dragging a mattress through a wet gutter because my wife couldn’t lift her end up enough all the while being observed by you and your entire family.

My wife was at a party arranged by your mother and as such I was not there and she was upset at the arrangements and during the party you launched into some verbal diarrhea and attacked my wife shouting for 30 minutes for not speaking enough to your baby child. You did this in front of my 2 year old child who must have wondered what that twisted disgusting face meant let alone the impact on your sister. You are too grotesque a personality to see the pain my wife your sister actually was in. Your sister was in too much shock and pain to put you back in your disgusting box.

Your job is with members of the public with a large responsibility in sensitive areas of their lives and you are quoted as saying “you’re not doing the job right unless you make them cry”. Can you tell me in what world you actually live in. You are the main reason other right thinking decent hard working individuals get a bad name because of your disgraceful disgusting attitudes.

You treated me with such coldness like I was some thief in the night and not your Brother In Law. I have done everything within my power to help and assist you in anything and everything you have asked and that is the way you treat another human being.

Your sister and I have provided you with no end of assistance and help in all aspects of your life since you were a child and now an adult, we loved you dearly as a sister and sister in law and you spit in our face with your words and actions. Due to the age difference between your sister and you she practically half raised you, you ungrateful cur.

I have never met a more arrogant, selfish, self centred woman in all my life. I honestly do believe the devil is working through you and you are unaware of the impact of your words and actions.

BIL Gormless
Facts:
I don’t know you really. You arrived much later on and married my sister in law. I would just see a guy in his mother in laws with nothing to say so would bury his head in his phone.

What I do know about you is someone came to
you to spread malicious unfounded and salacious gossip about me. Instead of ignoring the person or coming to me directly to talk or even letting me know who it was, you believed that horseshit wholesale and transmitted your disease to your wife (SIL Devil Inside) my Sister in law who then went on to abuse my wife and I in our own home. I cannot abide such spineless action.

BIL
Facts:
I don’t know you after years of contact and much trying on my part. When my wife and I went through some tribulations we never even heard a peep from you but you were never in much contact with us anyway.

The only thing that stands out is when you did come to our house with your wife you would stand in the garden and suck air through your teeth like some mechanic evaluating the price of a job and say “ffffffffffffff ... some house, ....some house”. It stands out because for the very few times you were here you would say it EVERY SINGLE TIME!

FIL
Facts:
You continued to talk about my family and I abusively behind our backs.

We lived opposite you whilst you lived in your house approx 30 feet apart. When my wife and I moved house you did not come to help out and instead my wife and I moved house by ourselves whilst a borrowed van was parked outside your entry and you could see your daughter and I struggling to lift heavy furniture all day. I will never forget how upset and tearful my wife was that day because you hid in your wife’s house watching your own daughter struggle. I will never forget dragging a mattress through a wet gutter because my wife couldn’t lift her end up enough all the while being observed by you and your entire family.
My wife and I were newly married and for the first YEAR and more you would come over EVERY NIGHT, if you were not preaching religion from your virtual soap box you were consistently complaining about your wife and every one of your children (with the exception of my wife).

You would just walk on in without knocking and expect us to be available to listen to your diatribe. I have no problem with having visitors but not every night and not so late.

I was new to the area and my wife said not to make any waves so I did not address the issue head on.

We were a newly married couple and your daughter was on constant tenterhooks in case you or one of your spawn would just walk right in. We started trying for a baby and couldn’t conceive, we even went through the start of the medical investigative process. We moved house (only a mile away) which was more difficult for you or your spawn to just simply waltz in. When we moved house we conceived a baby together within a very short time. They don’t have a tick box in the hospital forms for selfish in law tw*ts as the reason you cannot conceive but that is the impact and reality you and yours had on my wife.

One day I had just come back from work and you rang me up to ask a favour, you couldn’t peel potatoes for dinner as your hands were arthritic and it was too difficult. I would have done anything for you but I asked a simple question where are “the boys”? You said that they are in the house. So you wanted me to come over to your house and peel potatoes for your family dinner whilst there were FOUR GROWN MEN in the house who could do this. When I asked you about this you said they do not know how. On what planet are you from when you raise MEN who cannot or will not peel potatoes. I felt so sorry for you that you would rather ring me to come over and peel potatoes than ask your lazy “boys”. I volunteered to peel potatoes on the one condition that I teach every “boy” in the house to also peel potatoes.

MIL
Facts:
You continue to talk about my family and I abusively behind our backs.

I honestly will struggle to adequately express your nature but here goes;

There is a very severe break in your train of thought that you think you are right and the whole world is wrong. I honestly wonder that you must have suffered some early life trauma that would explain your words and actions. You are the root cause of nearly all issues within your family.

Your husband would harangue my wife and I every night to complain about you and your actions.

Your children are a mixture and combination of alcoholics, gambling addicts, thieves, gossips, detractors, sneaks, narcissists, hypocrites and downright low people and I have to say the apples did not fall far from the tree apart from my wife who seems to be a miracle by comparison to the rest of you.

Your disillusionment with life, your sickness always meant that one or more of your children or me at anytime was in some psycho bad books you kept in that warped mind. My wife and I would discuss your abuses in the privacy of our marriage and describe your action as to who was holding “the sh*tty stick” this time.

It seemed that you could only be happy if you made someone else in your family unhappy and on edge wondering what on earth they had done.

It says in the Bible that the right hand should not know what the left hand is doing in relation to giving alms. On the one hand there was a constant spilling over of your sickness into your family and the other hand was all about religion and supposed goodness.

You have at one time or another made each of your children, husband and in laws feel absolutely awful for some perceived transgression completely made up in your own mind in an endless merry-go-round of whose shit today.

Despite your abuses I have tried to love and respect you as my mother in law, I have done anything and everything in my power you have ever asked. I have moved tons and tons of earth for you, collected tons and tons of firewood for you, I have rebuilt buildings for you, I created a garden for you, fixed no end of house problems, painted for you, tiled bathrooms and kitchens, cleaned, ran errands, fitted house fixtures, fixed your constant computer problems to name just the tip of the iceberg. The countless tasks, jobs small and large no matter how inconvenient and you could not bother to treat me with respect, dignity or even humanity. And the only thing I wanted from you was a true honest relationship built on mutual love and respect which is outside of your comprehension.

When you die I know you will then have found some modicum peace but also I will be at peace that such a damaging dangerous person such as you cannot inflict harm on my family or me. I honestly believe that you will write one last poisonous letter to disseminate your evil onto my wife, children or me.

Your treatment of my wife is truly diabolical you have made her feel like shit for all of her life. There is a constant guilt theme perpetuated by you. I honestly think that if you truly were confronted by your words and actions you would still think you are in the right. You raised numerous boys who never grew up, who had no independence, who could not even peel potatoes and yet you mercilessly gave your chores to your daughter my wife. I don’t mean normal chores that all children should do but I mean LOOKING AFTER YOUNGER CHILDREN from ironing their school clothes to making sure the breakfast, lunch and dinner was also done, or cleaning the entire house from top to bottom whilst older and younger boys just sat there and watched. When my wife did escape your house you just passed on your shit to the next girl in line and finally the last girl was so desperate to get out she married the first guy who showed an interest.

You treated me with such coldness like I was some thief in the night and not your Son In Law. I have done everything within my power to help and assist you in anything and everything you have asked and that is the way you treat another human being.

You constantly bitch about your children trying to draw me into your sickness, You bitched about your two other son in laws for years and now they are flavour of the month/week/hour/minute.

Your daughter was in your home and you abused my wife even further criticising our marriage. My wife was very upset by your words and actions. Who are you to comment upon our marriage you toxic piece of excrement who married an alcoholic gambling addict and raised numerous alcoholic and gambling addicts.

My wife was in your home and you started criticising my mother for not helping out more. Additionally you continued your verbal abuse and said that my mother should stay in a hotel when she comes to visit. Who are you to think you can talk about my relationship with my mother or my wife’s relationship with her mother in law.

You organised and participated in a lynch mob where you visited MY house and gave my wife and I verbal abuse. My wife and I were so shocked and hurt at your actions and words it took us months of reflection to get over it.

I was so upset by your words and actions that I decided to go to my Mother’s house for a break for a couple of days and whilst I was away you came up to my house spewing more vile sh*t to my wife telling her to leave me. My wife unlike anyone you know actually loves me and does not want to leave me and in fact we are stronger than ever (despite you). You came up to my house like some snake in the grass.

You would ring our house asking for your daughter and if she was not in you would either verbally abuse me or hang up on me.

I rang you directly to try and curb your abuses, my goal was; for the sake of your child and grandchildren we should at least be polite to each other. During this conversation you started to verbally abuse me again. You also said to me that you have done nothing wrong against me. Are you so deluded to think this? I even highlighted that you were not listening to me and you still continued to abuse me and only stopped when I threatened to hang up. You belligerently agreed to be civil whist using the telephone. Interestingly since that day you hardly ever call on the telephone which means you cannot be civil and you were simply looking for a fight when telephoning our house beforehand. For the first time in my life I felt compelled to record the telephone conversation for future evidence given your psychotic despotic tendency.

As your abuses became more intense with my wife’s advice I decided to call and try and clear the air and you feigned sickness and would not meet me, you hid like a shadow in a group of shadows biding your time like some evil predator, you coward.

You spoke to my wife another time and started to slag me off and brought up the memory of your dead husband and stated that he never liked me anyway and had doubts about our marriage. When your daughter challenged you on this you tripped up and got caught in a lie and just moved on with a different conversation. Let’s get one thing straight my Father In Law was the best in a bad lot of you and my wife is more like him than you thank God. Additionally I might not have liked your husband coming over all the time but we did actually get on.

We lived opposite you approx 30 feet apart. When my wife and I moved house you did not come to help out as you said you would and instead my wife and I moved house by ourselves whilst a borrowed van was parked outside your entry and you could see your daughter and I struggling to lift heavy furniture all day. I will never forget how upset and tearful my wife was that day because you hid in your house watching your own daughter struggle. I will never forget dragging a mattress through a wet gutter because my wife couldn’t lift her end up enough all the while being observed by you and your entire family. Additionally you instructed all of your family that if anyone of them went over to help you would not speak to them again, how sick do you need to be to do that.

We had been in our new house for a few months and in your vile sickness you had stayed away and you only came to visit because a pre-planned all relatives (in-laws and outlaws) Christmas dinner was coming up. We still welcomed you into our home that day and Christmas day in spite of your abuses.

I have never known a family to talk about each other in such a manner it is like communicating to a hive mind.

Due to familial and socially acceptable sexism in your home your daughter did the vast majority of chores around your house, where were you?

You cannot let any one of your children have any independent life or even thought and when my wife tries to live her life and organise to go shopping for the day or go to an event you insinuate yourself upon her and get a big sulk on when not invited. To quote you “why can’t you go and play with your own friends?” You said that to your teenage daughter when she wanted to tag along to something with you her so called mother.

I escaped your toxic paradigm a couple of years ago and I have to say it has been a truly freeing experience to be rid of someone like you and yours. I promised my wife I would say hello and goodbye out of politeness but that is the limit.

You are the most controlling, selfish, narcissist, hypocritical, manipulating, abusive, childish, wicked, awful, disgraceful, wretch, a poor excuse of a human being/mother/mother in law/grandmother that I have ever met.

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The PERFECT Birthday Gift

Posted on Thu, Jun. 23, 2016 at 12:56 pm

Dear EX brother in law (and wife):

Thank you for inviting my child to your kid's birthday party, that's the least you can do for being jerks to both of us... I hope you like the gift I gave your spoiled brat, since it has a personal touch....

....I spit on it before wrapping it....oh! and I forgot a tiny detail.. I have a mild cold, so you get the virus along with it too.

Sincerely,
Your EX sister in law who still hates you and your entire family too.

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