Where Hating Your In-laws is Fun! http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/ 2012-02-07T06:57:10-05:00 FeedCreator 1.7.2 2012-02-07T03:46:29-05:00 2012-02-07T03:46:29-05:00 2012-02-07T03:46:29-05:00 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=20435 I Hate My Inlaws

I hope my brother-in-law leaves you and you have to endure the same pain I did when my husband told me he wanted a divorce. I struggle to think of many people more deserving of this than you. You're a conniving bitch who's only out for herself. You need to be yanked off your high horse and thrown to the ground. Even though my husband is divorcing me, he has the utmost respect for me as the mother of his children. Even though you will still retain the family name through your marriage to my husband's brother, my husband made it clear as recent as last night that "you" are NOT his family. He said the same about his dad's wife. My husband CANNOT STAND YOU. I personally think you played a MAJOR role in driving a deeper wedge between my husband and his brother. All because you couldn't handle what it would mean for YOU if they got closer. It meant that you'd have to spend more time around me. And with your insecurity and how utterly JEALOUS you are of me, you weren't having it. You and our step mother-in-law are the bad seeds in this family. You both complain endlessly. Your own husbands can't stand to be around you. You embarrass them every chance you get. I would love to see our father-in-law divorce that dumber than dirt, bitch of a wife of his. The witch deserves it. And SO DO YOU. You see, one thing I've learned about people like you is that once somebody finally stands up to you and puts you in your place, you'll crumble like a cowering WIMP. If only your husband would DARE stand up to you and tell you to GO FUCK YOURSELF the next time you give him an immasculating dirty look, you wouldn't know what to do or how to react. I think you'd crawl back to him with your tail between your legs and panic at the thought of him leaving you. I'd love to see you RACKED with that kind of anxiety. You fucking deserve it, you piece of SHIT lying, gossiping BITCH. The day the ink is dry on my divorce papers will be the day the gloves come off with you. If I hear you've said ONE fucking word about me to anyone in this family, I will go OUT OF MY WAY to humiliate you. I will also go OUT OF MY WAY to convince your husband why he should leave you. TRY ME.

2012-02-07T02:29:11-05:00 2012-02-07T02:29:11-05:00 2012-02-07T02:29:11-05:00 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=20434 I Hate My Inlaws

DH forces me to go with him and stay at his parents house 4 hours away from where we live. MIL smokes like a chimney and cigarette smoke is a migraine trigger for me. Told DH that I was going to stay away from them while she smokes, so he gets the great idea to ask her to stop smoking in the house while I'm there. MIL takes her cigarettes outside, gets sick, then blames ME. WTF. Quit subjecting everyone, even your own grandkids to your toxins because you're too lazy to smoke elsewhere.

2012-02-06T20:35:28-05:00 2012-02-06T20:35:28-05:00 2012-02-06T20:35:28-05:00 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=20433 I Hate My Inlaws

I am a fussy person. I like my routine and my life the way it is. I don't like houseguests or people in my space in general. Well wouldn't you know I've gone and married a man whose family expects to come and stay in our house whenever they want for as long as they want. And I married a man who can't say NO to them ever and just does whatever they want. How wonderful! Throw in that my husband also expects me to bend over backwards for these people too. Yes, they are part of my family now, but that doesn't mean I'm their slave. We don't even have enough sheets/blankets/bedrooms to house the people coming soon. They haven't even talked to me yet about staying with us, just my husband. And I'm not about to call and bring it up or they'll twist it around like I asked them to stay. I've told my husband to figure out logistics and I'm leaving the hospitality up to him to take care of. If they get here and they're uncomfortable or sheetless? Not my problem. Get a hotel next time. Also, they are fairly wealthy and fairly cheap and use every relative they know around the world as a place to stay when they want to visit a country. Go use and annoy and disrupt and bother someone else please!!

2012-02-06T20:20:38-05:00 2012-02-06T20:20:38-05:00 2012-02-06T20:20:38-05:00 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=20432 I Hate My Inlaws

Haha SIL. Seriously you just figured out that your family is lazy as hell and wont help with your wedding? I could have told you that after ours. My Dh and I have put our pregnancy plans on hold because you where supposed to get married in October. Now you text us and say you are having a destination wedding in February!!!!!! WTF and you say that the loser BIL and his common law HOE are in to go on the trip for your wedding. Of course they are, they pay for F*CK ALL! everyone else will have to pay for them to come. Then you say you can convince you sister to come even though she clearly doesnt want to. I bet you going to blame your BIL for that too. We wont be there I am sure we will be pregnant

2012-02-06T19:46:06-05:00 2012-02-06T19:46:06-05:00 2012-02-06T19:46:06-05:00 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=20431 I Hate My Inlaws

I have spent the last of 20 years in inlaw hell.I have been blamed for everything from being a bad mother for co-sleeping,to being a shopping addict,even though my name isnt on any of the cards and everything I have bought I have worked for and paid cash.Apparently wanting a clean house is a horrible thing.New furniture,well thats just unacceptable,excuse me,how dare I be tired of sitting on lawn chairs. I really love it when I find an expensive looking item at the thrift store,you can just see the judgement welling up on her manly face.Assumption is the name of their game.Their wonderful son could do no wrong yet he has spent his life trying to win approval that he will never get.He grew up going without proper food,clothing or shelter so his parents could have a fluffy retirement.It wont be long before I reveal to them that their bi-polar alcoholic son has drank us 45,000 into debt and tried to hide it from me.I'll break it to them after I leave and they try to blame it all on me and they will. I an soooo finished.They have a lovely home and a loft above their garage,they let it go to ruin,they dont take care of anything,yet they believe that they are better than everyone and have treated my family like dirt.We have always left the loft cleaner than the way we found it and not once have I ever recieved a thankyou.I could write a book about these nut jobs.The truth is going to come out and I would put money on it that mumsie is going to cover her ears and run out of the room crying like a child because that is exactly what she does when confronted with truth.Ya,isnt that normal.NOT!

2012-02-06T19:00:30-05:00 2012-02-06T19:00:30-05:00 2012-02-06T19:00:30-05:00 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=20430 I Hate My Inlaws

When I met my husband I fell madly in love. He's a good guy so I overlooked his messed up family and how the meddle in each others lives. His extended family lives together in our home town (grandma, aunts, uncles, brother, mother) and do nothing but gossip, live off of the government, read the national enquirer and eat cheetos and diet soda. They are racist, sexist, hateful people and are honestly a waste of human breath. They make me wonder if God created man in his own image, why he made them. When we got married I loved my husband so much I figured I could put up with them... or at least ignore them. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. They have nothing better to do than constantly harass us. They ask for money, they ask for rides to the casino, they ask to watch tv in our house because their cable got cut off, they stop by to use our computer because they can't pay their internet and then ask if I have any food they can eat. Then they drink beer on the front porch and stick around talking about stupid nonsense until my husband gives them a ride back home where they pass out. I can't talk to my husband about how I feel because he loves them unconditionally and always gets hurt when I say I don't like them coming around. So I have to keep it inside and it makes me want to cry and scream. I just had a fantasy about my inlaws all dying in a freak accident and being at the funeral. Perhaps a lightning strike, or a random tornado will wipe their house off the map. It would be the greatest day of my life, but I will have to fake some crocodile tears so my husband doesn't know how happy I am. I wish I didn't have thoughts about looking forward to their deaths... but the reality of having to spend the rest of my life dealing with these cretins is too much to bear. It makes me wonder if I should stay married. I love my husband, but why couldn't I have found a man who's family was decent... or who was an orphan????

2012-02-06T17:21:28-05:00 2012-02-06T17:21:28-05:00 2012-02-06T17:21:28-05:00 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=20429 I Hate My Inlaws

Forget having birthday parties and paying for people I can't stand stuff their face on my dollar and bring their clearance gifts. I would rather spend party money on my childs gift & taking them with their siblings to do something fun!

2012-02-06T17:02:00-05:00 2012-02-06T17:02:00-05:00 2012-02-06T17:02:00-05:00 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=20428 I Hate My Inlaws

I don't hate all of my in-laws but because of them, I am usually frustrated, sick, depressed and suffering from anxiety. When my husband and I were courting, he informed me that it was his responsibility to take care of his parents. He built his home adjoining to his parents which is also very close to all siblings' homes. Having met them before we got married, I thought that they were very nice people and I had this idea that we would be one big happy family, despite all warnings. The months spent planning our wedding were the worst because of their attempts and successes at meddling and controlling EVERYTHING. Did I mention that my husband and I paid evenly for our own wedding (well I secretly call it their wedding)? Even after those stressed and tear-filled months, I still hoped for a new beginning. A few months into our marriage, a younger relative began sneaking into our room and masturbating on my delicates. I was prepared to deal with it in a mature way by calling a small family meeting with the relative and his parents and discussing ways of dealing with the problem and was even willing to offer and pay for a bit of counselling for what I considered unhealthy behaviour. The entire family decided to get involved without our permission or knowledge and ended up trying to convince my husband that I made the whole thing up! When he didn't agree with them, they began 'victimising' us. They stopped talking to us for a while, they've gotten into arguments with my husband about the issue, they've indicated that we should move out even though my husband built his home and we pay all the bills for us and his parents including but not limited to lights, phone, water, groceries, home improvements etc. We have asked that the particular relative and his parents not come into our home and keep their distance when we have our chores to do outside. My MIL bluntly informed my husband that this would never happen as long as she is alive and so they can come into our home whenever they please. My MIL has sent them into our home whilst I was inside alone without my husband being home with me. My husband's parents wanted to rebuild their kitchen and dining room as theirs was in need of repair and they were partly using ours, so regardless of how we felt - they adjoined it directly to OUR HOME. My husband supports me, but the last time he tried to stand up to his family...they waited until he left for work and said some very hurtful things that left me devastated (they never say these thing to my face...they just ensure it is within my earshot – it’s a strategy they use). They have done this several times before. I have never disrespected them, have never been unkind or said anything unkind to them. I try to do things that I hope will please them...all in the interest of keeping peace in the home. They are sometimes very nice to me but when I am not within their sight, they have said the worst things about my husband and me. I consider myself an understanding person but I realise that my in-laws are without reason, they do not have a sense of fairness and they are very underhanded. They have no respect or regard for our feelings or our rights. My husband has decided that we will be moving out, but because his home was built on the family's property and adjoining to his parents, we cannot sell or claim any of it when we leave. As it is, we are seeking to save enough to purchase a new home. We have not told them, but they have found out somehow and have started crying for my husband spend our money to do things on the property (that is when they are not busy telling us that if we don't like the situation then we should leave).I have realised that the many people who have warned me against living with my in-laws were right. I only regret that I did not heed their warning.

2012-02-06T16:11:42-05:00 2012-02-06T16:11:42-05:00 2012-02-06T16:11:42-05:00 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=20427 I Hate My Inlaws

I made the break from the witch after finding out my suspicions were true. The evil MIL has been talking ugly about me to the entire extended family. I assumed such as they never speak to me at functions. This is why we never come around. After the horrible treatment I receive, these people wonder why we do not come to family functions. Are you idiots? My BIL was over and let the cat out of the bag, when the hubby & I were dating his bee-otch of a mother gave him an ultimatum. "Either end your relationship with her, or I will never talk to you again." WOW!! I can see why my hubby never told me this. How horrible of someone to say. I just wish the hag would have kept to that. The whole reason for her behavior? Because I had 2 kids when we were dating. She didn't want her precious child to be with someone that had kids. Come to find out she did the same to another son of hers. After 10 years of meddling, her oldest son ended his relationship with the love of his life. At the time my MIL told my hubby to end things with me, she had never even met me. Funny thing is when she met her husband she was a single mom of 3. I am so over her and her evil ways. Get a clue bee-otch if I haven't answered my phone in 4 months, I'm not going to. So glad someone told me you can program your cell so that certain contacts are sent directly to VM with out the phone ever ringing.

2012-02-06T15:55:45-05:00 2012-02-06T15:55:45-05:00 2012-02-06T15:55:45-05:00 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=20426 I Hate My Inlaws

Friends, I know times are tight. Many of us are having financial issues and it's hard to make ends meet. My husbands business slowed down last year so he suggested we move into his moms house to save money and have extra help with our baby so I can get a job. So we moved in with her and now my life is hell. I would rather be broke ass poor than deal with this woman everyday. She is constantly telling us how to do everything and acts like she is my sons mother, not me. She has no respect for the fact that we are grown adults and talks down to me all the time. She tells me what I should be eating and criticizes my cooking infrint of my husband. She tells me how to discipline my child and thinks she has a better idea for everything I do. I thought this would be a tolerable situation but it is pure hell on earth.. I would do anything to go back to our crappy little apartment but hubby thinks everything is great here with his mom. Ladies please take my advice... Don't let your husband talk you into moving in with your inlaws. No matter how broke you are it is better than living with them. Don't do it!