Where Hating Your In-laws is Fun! http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/ Fri, 24 May 2013 12:14:05 -0500 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=24892 I have an amazing dh, kind hearted, forgiving,hard working, good looking and A++ in the bedroom. I could go on & on about that man I love him... We have a wonderful toddler, our son is bright, happy and smart. He can be a little stinker but a good boy. Now my inlaws on the other hand are terrible! They constantly question ds paternity. Even though he looks identical to dh, I have never 'stepped out' and ds had the same minor health problem as dh had as a baby... I really think they like treating me this way.. My dh was my first and I hope the last. We have our issues and our arguments but thats normal.. Mil has know me since I was 14! I started dating dh at 16 married at 18. I think they are angry because I also went to college while newly wed.. they are just rude they say this to dh and thank God he doesnt believe a word they say.. They dont care if it destroys our family... And every time I say fine go get a dna test done the say no... Yeah because then they would have to say sorry for doubting me... I Hate My Inlaws Fri, 24 May 2013 16:29:39 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=24891 My in-laws have been evil to me this past year. It all broke loose when my husband hit rock bottom last summer/fall from severe chemical dependency. He smacked a pacifier out of our son's mouth. I had had it. I told my inlaws about his erratic behavior. They called me a liar. I begged his brother to help. He just ignored me. I begged for his sister's from the brother because of them all, she might have helped. He would not give it to me. Then, my husband stole a ton of money from my family. I was like what the heck? I thought he was bipolar. I got his dad to come over final and went to the hospital. It was there I found out about the chemical dependency problem. He went to rehab, where my inlaws screamed at me for making up that he hit the pacifier out of my son's mouth and that I keeping my kids from them. Mind you, he was in rehab five weeks and they saw my children three times. I have not mentioned yet that I was seven months pregnant. Meanwhile, my jerk of a brotherinlaw was suppose to buy our first house. After a year of living there, I asked his wife about it. She says they will buy it in two to three years. So, I wrote a lease. They were not buying it. They were renting it. We did not make a dime profit. They were furious that I had a lease. When we hit bottom I found out that they were four months behind in the rent and my MIL hid all the documents from me. Then, when we hit bottom last fall, the were two months behind. This is affecting my credit. I was just trying to straighten out my finances and get the mortgage current. They unfriended me on Facebook. This is when I needed them the most. So, I called my FIL to ask from BIL's phone number. They would not answer the door when I went over. My family hired a lawyer to just protect me. The advice from the lawyer was get your mortgage current. So, I called to try to get BIL's number. My FIL starts screaming at me (while I am seven mos. pregnant) that all I want is his money. WTF? So, I skipped Thanksgiving at their house and had the baby five days later. My kind, loving family came down to help us. My husband has been in recovery for eight months now. He goes to his meetings everyday. We are all in therapy. He is trying. His brother moved out of the house in Dec., a few weeks after the baby was born. He left it a terrible mess with the mortgage a month behind that I had to pay. He was so petty he even took the light switch covers. Meanwhile, my inlaws took all the paperwork about the house and hid it. Luckily, it rented quickly. I thought things were getting better, but last weekend we had my son's baptism. They are not religious and don't believe in baptizing babies. They came to the service but then skipped the party at our house. My kids notices. What the heck is wrong with this family? They blame me for everything. I did not do felony drugs, steal, or lie. They have just hurt me so. I Hate My Inlaws Fri, 24 May 2013 16:18:40 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=24890 how do you tell your kids that their grandparents are just true blue mindless idiots? I Hate My Inlaws Fri, 24 May 2013 00:25:56 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=24889 I cannot understand her weird thinking... Every time we pass a cemetary.. She starts, I know so & so in there so & so's family has a plot.. (creepy) it never fails for her to point it out.. I get a feeling she likes talking about creepy things like decompisition(?) she does this all infront of my son which I try to stop.. I know my child will have to deal with this part of life but I want to start with heaven and good things so he has peace later in life... Not the hole your burried in.. She told my son animals dont go to heaven after his goldfish died (he's three ds was heartbroken)... After I just told him that yes they do and your fishy will be waiting with family & friends who have left before. She also tells me that I raise my son in the wrong religion (we r the same faith) my poor dh tries to tell her but she bullies and manipulates everything to her favor she has turned dh's whole family against him because we married and waited (4 years) to have a child. She needs to go to hell... I Hate My Inlaws Thu, 23 May 2013 23:46:51 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=24888 DH has often said that his parents treat him like he's about 12 years old. My mom mentioned the other day that they need to realize he's an adult. He will be 52 this year! We have 2 children. One is 25, the other is 19. Why do they insist on treating him like a child? His sister and brother are treated like adults. They still feel that it's their place to tell him (and me on occassion) what to do, how to do it, when to do it, where to do it. GRRRR!!! So tired of this crap I could puke. I Hate My Inlaws Thu, 23 May 2013 18:13:20 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=24887 DH considers saying this to his mother sometimes: "You know what mom, I kind of have a few things on my plate, so your need to be loved, worshiped, and adored is a little low on my list today." I Hate My Inlaws Thu, 23 May 2013 17:26:22 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=24886 I don't know why I took the gift buying on a my job for my husbands family but I hereby resign from my position of doormat. I buy and wrap the gifts for all of his family and they do not do anything for me. Christmas, baby gifts, wedding presents - that is all going to stop. I cannot believe that my husbands son actually wanted to give me a list of what he wanted me to buy for his new baby last Christmas. A LIST for gods sake. That was the last straw. No one in my husbands family has ever even said happy birthday to me. But dumb A-hole actually thought I would take a list from you? You are one sick, stupid moron. But I resign so you can get someone else to buy you things. Gravy train has left the station. I Hate My Inlaws Thu, 23 May 2013 16:16:53 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=24885 Mil some piece of work you are.I never seen so much lies and fake fake fake on FB.You act to the world your all so close to your sons and grandchildren.The reality is only one son and his bitch wife-kids is all you care about.You fight with everyone in your family and drive off your other sons' family as well.You never volunteer in your life for any cause and now your acting like Saint Mary,lmfao.Truth-you seek what others can do for you.Truth-you forget all your grandchildren's birthdays except for the golden ones.Truth-your not sick half the time you say you are,just a way of getting out of helping or paying for anything.Fake ass bitch! I Hate My Inlaws Thu, 23 May 2013 14:25:48 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=24884 My husband and I are separated but still living under the same roof until we officially file for divorce. He asked me for a divorce with our two kids still in diapers. This was a year and a half ago. Ever since, he's been living the life of a bachelor. He goes out several times a week to bars and restaurants. He's now got a drinking problem and he smokes marijuana daily now (not in our house); he goes out in the garage because if he brings it into our home, I will kick him out. He was leaving work early without telling me and getting drunk in some bar. There were times when I had to stay late for work and when I tried to call him to pick up the kids, he was either unreachable or I could tell he had been drinking. No matter how many times I told him he needed to be sober in case he needed to pick up the kids, he kept doing it. So he was removed from the pick-up list at our kids daycare. I have no other family in the area so it's just me. If my boss needs me to stay late, I have to say no. Talk about pressure! I have enough problems dealing with this jackass, irresponsible husband of mine. Onto my reason for writing... My husband called me yesterday at work to say he got a call from his brother (he and the evil GSIL are freshly divorced...she is thankfully now my EX-GSIL). The brother says he got tickets to a sporting event and he's taking his kids, the ex-GSIL, and the FIL/step-MIL. The brother invited my husband to also go. That right there is very exclusionary of me and they did this throughout our marriage. I have so many pent up feelings of resentment over the years of dealing with their nonsense that I probably wouldn't go anyway. Still, it's the principle. But the REAL ISSUE is that the brother wanted to stop by here with all 7 of them on their way to the sporting event...including EX-GSIL!!! So my husband called me at work to ask if they could come by Saturday morning at 9:30am so they could see our kids. He says they'll only stay an hour because they need to get to the game. Let me tell you, his dad, step-MIL, his brother and the bitch ex-GSIL, never bother with our kids the entire rest of the year. They just happen to be passing through our state on the way to their sporting event and it was convenient for them to stop by. His parents are very uninvolved grandparents to our kids but spend all kinds of time with the brother's kids. Through the years, ex-GSIL was always quietly very jealous of me and would engage in family politics to try and exclude me at every turn. She's the "mean-girl" type who will stand in a circle of women talking at family events and when I approach, try to exclude me from conversation in a way that makes it obvious to others that she doesn't like me. Through the years, she worked to turn my husband's parents against me with her LIES and manipulations. What helped her is all the free events she gets from her job. She'd take FIL and step-MIL and of course, since they are retired and on a fixed income, being able to have regular access to free tickets and other stuff was and still is a seduction for them. I swear to all of you that I've never done anything to this woman (ex-GSIL) for her to target me the way she has. She is a bully who needs to make someone else look bad so that she can look good. And after years of this, I was finally free of the obligation to see her when she and my husband's brother divorced. I was hoping that when those two divorced, that would mean the end of her attending family functions. Now she's going to a sporting event with my husband's parents?? Really?? And he wants me to have this bitch into my home?? SERIOUSLY?? He's got a LOT of nerve asking me that. And frankly, so does his brother!! His brother knows full well that his ex bitch of a wife and I do not get along. And yet he orchestrates a visit to our home with her in tow?? I don't think so!!! And since my husband asked me for a divorce and has not played nicely while we've been separated, I'd say my days of being obligated with the in-laws are over!!!! Of course, if I say no, "I'm" the one who looks like a bitch, right? Well I no longer give a damn! Let them think what they want. The kids now have appointments that morning anyway. All I know is, I'm no longer willing to help them all put on the "happy family" act. I've got newsflash for them: the jig is up! You're NOT the happy family you want everyone to think you are! You are DIVORCED!! I can only imagine how ex-GSIL will act when the brother meets someone new. With her insane jealousy, this ought to be interesting. I Hate My Inlaws Thu, 23 May 2013 09:56:05 -0500 http://www.ihatemyinlaws.com/story.php?id=24883 Well SS was supposed to call and come by to talk to his father , when he returned fr vacation of course! But as usual he is a no show nor has he called! Typical, say you miss your family that you chose to ostetsize and then say all the right things but no follow thru!!! Not surprised love is a action word and he has never loved anyone but hisself!!!! Sooo dear devil in law you will find this out too!!! But hey I am thankful he is your problem and not ours! See I would not destroy your wedding ever! You did me a favor, I just said I am not paying for anything else for him!!! And think you have us figured out! Honey the joke is on you!!!! I Hate My Inlaws Wed, 22 May 2013 21:20:30 -0500