I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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One of these days, i may just snapped.

Posted on Mon, Nov. 24, 2014 at 05:48 am

Every time i met my mother-in-law, i have to resist the urge not to scream, "SHUT THE F UP!!!". She talk so damned much, mostly BS version about her being a hero/martyr/saint and complimenting herself.

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Spoiled grudge holding niece inlaw....

Posted on Mon, Nov. 24, 2014 at 05:14 am

I have written on here before, for an up date.
We haven't spoken to mil in 2 years, or narcissistic bil, borderline sil and their equally vile daughter. You may remember my story, they are the ones who totally scapegoated us because I married dh when nil was about 12 and I have the exact same name as her. Every time we saw them passive aggressive comments were made sometimes regarding the name situation calling me number two and what not. They didn't like when I started to give it back to them. When i got pregnant with our first child the baby was due around nil's birthday, by this time she was about 17, she said to me that i should make sure i don't have the baby on her birthday because it is bad enough that she has to share her name and that she shouldn't have to share her birthday also. She then proceeded to ask me what I was going to name the baby and I told her that I was planning to name the baby after myself even if it was a boy. Well that went down like a lead balloon. Then her and her equally as immature mother, proceeded to get nastier and nastier as time went on even befriending dh's ex on fb and not adding me. So we cut em off after we confronted them on their behaviour, and like children they did not take accountability for their words or actions.

I have a girlfriend who knows them through a class nil takes, and nil refers to me as her uncles wife and we hear she got knocked up and pretended not to know, and has ruined her life at the age of 21. Karma is a bitch. Now she has a baby boy and still lives with mummy and daddy in their derelict house in the bad part of their town. On top of that has clearly ruined the baby daddy's life through selfishness.

Life has been great without them, it is funny how the inlays act like they own your husband and see you as some kind of threat. I tried to be pleasant and civil to these people for a decade, whatever they are projecting is their stuff and has nothing to do with who I am as a person whatsoever. If it wasn't the name thing it would have been something else. They treated dh's first wife this way practically ruining his marriage and now they want to be her best friend as i am clearly the new target. If it wasn't me it would have been some other women. Dh is wise to them now and wants nothing to do with them. Wouldn't you want to foster a good relationship with your son/brothers/uncles love of his life? As long as he is happy shouldn't everybody else be?

If they had taken the time to get to know me they would know, that I am artistic, creative, friendly, fun loving, easy going, I have a college education, I was a competition dancer, I am a qualified ballet teacher, I was in T.V commercials as a child, I have traveled the world, I have worked my way up the corporate ladder and then to quit to become a mother and a damn good one at that, I can speak Japanese and at the age of 33 and two kids I can still do the splits. There is so much more, but now you all know more about me than my inlaws ever did in fifteen years. Even when any of this was mentioned it was dismissed. These people are sick in the head misery loving weirdo's,

that felt good.

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oh, pleeeease!

Posted on Sun, Nov. 23, 2014 at 06:16 pm

Thanks a lot for making up a story and telling us we cannot visit you on Thanksgiving. I guess the heating system not working last Saturday is a good excuse for the coming Thursday. How about you say you don't want to meet your son's *second* wife? You can stuff your turkey with your "Welcome to the Family"! He married me out of love, I take care of him, where have you been during his toughest times? I'm here to stay. Get over it.

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It's Time for Let It Snow

Posted on Sun, Nov. 23, 2014 at 12:42 pm

Oh the inlaw's house is frightful,
'Cause they're stingy, dumb and spiteful,
If the blizzard hits we don't have to go,
Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow!

Oh the gifts are cheap and stupid,
And the food is sick and putrid,
I really don't want to go,
Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow.

Oh their house is always cold,
'Cause they're too cheap to turn up the heat,
So we'll wear many layers of clothes,
Fake a big smile and act sweet.

Oh the snide remarks are flyin',
And my husband thinks I'm lyin',
I just don't want to go,
Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow.

Can't we just stay home tonight,
Oh I hate going out in a storm,
You can snuggle and hold me tight,
By our real fire and keep warm,

I don't want to hear them cryin',
Of how they'll soon be dyin',
I never ever want to go!
Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow!!!!

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God not Christmas

Posted on Sat, Nov. 22, 2014 at 10:08 pm

I was just TOLD by my husband, not asked, that the gang will be flying on in for Christmas. MIL, FIL, SIL, BIL and the autistic and out of control nephew. They are coming by plane from Florida.None of them have jobs. The nephew makes more monthly from social security than the other adults do combined. My husband paid for the tickets. My husband is paying for the rental car. And they are, of course staying with us. They will sprawl out in our basement for 12 days. Complain about their gifts. MIL is a spiteful wench, father in law is cuckold by his bipolar wife, SIL, has "like nooooo jawb". BIL has recently been paroled for the second time, armed bank robbery if you want to know. I'm sure you did! MIL informed my husband that there better be snow for the nephew becaise she promised him. If not she is going to be very mad at him. Really? Ahhh yes, my husband controls the weather. Next time you need weather conditions to go your way just call my husband.
They smoke like chimneys and LOOOOVVVE their prescription drugs. God HELP me please. They have no money, no future and no brains. My husband thinks this is just going to be the best little Christmas ever. I love Christmas, just not this year. It's gonna be a redneck, cig smoking, drug chugging ho down of a holiday. Bah Humbug!

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My poor husband's inlaws

Posted on Sat, Nov. 22, 2014 at 09:19 pm

I feel so sorry for my husband having married into the freak show that is my family! They treat him like dirt for no reason. The house should be condemned by the board of health because they never clean it. They are always fighting, complaining, moaning about anything and everything. They are all busted flat broke and always ready to mooch off whoever they can. Ugh. I can't stand visiting them and they are MY family.

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Husband acting strange

Posted on Sat, Nov. 22, 2014 at 08:30 pm

My DH is acting strange. It could only be one reason, (his sister has been calling). The only thing I can think of is his retarded, drunken brother. I have written about him before, work house being cut. So I take my DH to the bank and he took out money. Which is strange for him. We just bought a car and he is usually more tight with his money. My antenna is screaking about this. I am waiting for him to tell me that he wants to go see his brother( I am thinking tomorrow). I certainly hope he is not going to give him money. My BIK has 3 bad habits. He is an alcoholic, smokes cigs and smokes pot. I am not going to support a grown man who does those things. His mother tried many years ago to have my DH support him every month. I nipped that in the bud immediately. But when his sister calls, he jumps. And my DH is being sly about this. For his sake I hope he isn't. Because this time, I will divorce him. I have put up with these pigs for too many years and this will be the last straw. I am too old to be tolerating this nonsense. When I said to my DH, "Your mother told me that your brother is retarded, he looked at me like I had horns coming out of head. No he's not, he graduated from high school". Gee, so did I and I also have a degree but I am not a drunken retarded person. Why can't our significant others cut off the family when they marry you?

Signed your wife,
Who does love you, but you have been pushing me away and I am now tired of it, and it will be your fault when we get divorced, and you will not see it.

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Arrrrrrgggghhhh! How did this happen!

Posted on Sat, Nov. 22, 2014 at 03:18 pm

I was a single mum, I was happy, I had a good job. DH came along - we got engaged within 6 months, married 11 months after. ESIL was my bridesmaid, SIL2 came and moaned about the whole day, BIL never showed up. MIL and FIL plus their families spent the whole evening at the bar moaning that there wasn't a free bar!!!

Roll on 12 months. SIL is pregnant, I'm apparently "jealous". She starts an argument with me about a birthday card that her mother hadn't received because she was on holiday on her birthday. Both SIL's stop talking to me... 3 months later, DS birthday party with his school friends. SIL angry I didn't invite her kids. MIL, SIL and ESIL pissed off with me. Beyond caring. MIL starts sending messages to DH about how unfair it is ( DS goes to different school to ESIL kids) ..... We don't see them, ever. They always ask for lifts, they used to borrow money off DH, they never involve us in anything they do...

I have nothing in common with them. They are scum of the earth who have never had a job and think school is pointless - you don't need qualifications to be on benefits!

I went to a good school, university, I have a first class degree and I'm halfway through another degree, while working 40 hour week and putting my DS through A very expensive school. They accuse me of using my work as an excuse not to spend time with them... In actual fact I would rather eat my own excrement than spend time with them.
They have a fighting dog that they won't put away when we go over. Simple solution we don't go over... They live 1.5 miles away from our house... We have lived here over 2 years ... Surprise surprise they've never been over but complain we never go to theirs.

Apparently I run to my family all the time ... My family have done A LOT for me- paid for my wedding, help me with DS, and they idolise DS.

I won't change my surname. I've built a career on my surname - which also happens to be DS surname. I'm not changing it. I don't want to be associated socially with them either.

They drink. All the time. Bad day? Have a whisky. Good day? Have a whisky... Any other time... Have a whisky. Post on Facebook they are drinking whisky, or if not at home, that they need a whisky. I don't drink. Ever. I don't smoke. I don't do drugs. I am everything that is wrong with the world... Oh wait ....

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Food grudge

Posted on Sat, Nov. 22, 2014 at 05:05 am

MIL and SIL are extremely jealous that DH eats my cooking. They get angry at the sight of him eating anything I made.

FIL is not "allowed" to eat anything I make according to them.

What is wrong with these people?! Seriously..it is food. Get over your jealousy.

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You are NOT invited!

Posted on Sat, Nov. 22, 2014 at 05:00 am

The hubby and his "sister" haven't spoken regularly for more than 10 years and his father disowned us because we wouldn't give them money (a "bailout" is technically what asked for). Thus, we've become used to having holiday activities with my family or sometimes having a separate meal with his mother.

This year my parents will be out of town, so we had planned on having our meal alone in a restaurant. When she asked, he mentioned to his "mother" that we'd be celebrating alone. To which she simply says, "I'm sorry you have to have your Thanksgiving alone" -- bc she'll be dining with the "sister", the sisters husband and the "father".

So.....yesterday she calls DH out of the blue and extends to him the invitation to be at the "family" Thanksgiving dinner. After some thought, he decided he would ignore the ones who cause strife and make it a nice meal -- we accepted. Within hours the "mother" called DH to tell him that things just weren't working out like she'd planned and we would have to settle for her coming down here the next night and having dinner with us for an hour or so. (Mind you, we both have to work 10 hour days the day after TG). He asked "Why?" and she beat around the bush saying the plans weren't coming together, blah blah blah....he again says "Why?" and forces her to answer.

When the "mother" called the "sister" to tell her she'd invited DH and myself to the meal, the sister said "Absolutely NOT" told her that if we were going to be there she wouldn't come.

So -- the "mother" chose to appease the ones who created this mess and basically uninvited us to a "family" get together.

With family like this -- who needs enemies????

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