I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Mil Next time....

Posted on Wed, Jul. 23, 2014 at 08:38 am

You make passive aggressive comments to me, I will reflect the attention on your intentions.

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Newsflash

Posted on Wed, Jul. 23, 2014 at 05:59 am

If you had the ability to say things which always come true that would be called talent. Fortunately for us you are all talentless! In fact, most of what you say is never going to come true because it's based on the bullshit, lies and stories that you made up in your own heads about us!

You don't want to get along with us that's fine. Just know that it's your responsibility to change/accept what you don't like about it. If you aren't willing to do that then that misery will shine through you and take root in a other areas of your life.

If you are dumb enough to hate us then know that you are tying yourselves to us for as long as your hate lives. You are building an intimate one-sided relationship with us that we don't even know exist.

You hate does not impact us. It does make you a loser!

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Stupid ,Selfish, Greedy

Posted on Tue, Jul. 22, 2014 at 11:20 pm

So my hubby just comes home from a long seperation period.Due to him being in the service we planned our marriage prior to this time, i stressed i DO NOT want any of our family members involved theyll just posion the loving atmosphere with disguised ,hate self pity, jealousy and thats coming from both sides! So anyway i thought we would have some bonding time away from everyone thinking that he missed me but no, he spent most of his time with his family and friends.Now theres nothing wrong with that but i did felt neglected and unwanted they do not make me feel welcomed at all so i kept my distance he seems to notice this but he was either too afraid of what his family might say if he speaks up for me, or he just doesnt care.I try to talk to them all idivually and there just not happy people they hate the world and everyone in it , Too much negativity already so fastforwading to the wedding everything was rushed up the ass, his sisters were trying there best to be nice but you could they were not feeling this day,it was as if they were holding in all there anger for last part of the day not to memtion there slick and rude sarcastic comments after ever conversation annoying. So we have our wedding it was beautiful i was so very happy, everyone managed to keep their shit together during the ceremony. so after the ceremony we have a nice dinner and everything is cool except him and his mother scouling at the menu the whole time, but it was beautiful non the less,I was very grateful for the expirence, after our family parted ways, the remainders suggested staying with us at our hotel which i said not to do, and he just didnt have a say or care in the world he went with the flow.So after three long hours in a hot car with his friends and family no body talk it was dead hostility no one had anything pleasent to say plus his one of his family members was being a rude bitch making everyone feel even more messed up, so we get to the hotel room everyone was talking extremly loud already making a scene and the manager comes in telling us to leave he goes and hagles with the guy but we still got booted out so not only is everyone else dissapointed and pissed some of his closet friends ask to go home and he refuses he even didnt have the balls to tell them not to go in the first place and wants to keep them all hostage so to make up for it i suggest we go to the beach to cool down so we get there its late and we all have a great time everybody cleared out their minds and it was cool. Except after we go back home to drop everyone off one of his family members flipped out and threw everybodies belongings on the groud including his gifts and alot of my personal belongings i was fucking fed up at this point so i bitched this person out and he was behind me i thought he had my back but this person just dissmised the whole thing like it was an accident they were acting like a bitch and my husband just watches from the sidelines im fed up so i go back in the car, we drop of the rest of the ppl and pick up the last two we left with that irratable person turns out they flipped out on everyone and tore the room to bits upsetting the family members and this other person got blamed for this person fucked up behaviour and everyone turned on this person it was sad to say the least his own family members pick at themsleves they have no communication or love it was just awful this person also got kicked out a put on the streets for no reason what so ever, but anyway its around 6:00 am and im tired of driving around no food and had a fucked up night i want to go to bed away from my husband because his actions just disgust and disapointed me and he knows it, and i just want to relax far away from both families alike.We tried checking out at different hotels and constantly got reject i jut went home and he followed talking about how great his family made the evening and the night i blew up at him in the streets and didnt care. then he tries to calm me down and it pissed me off even more, we talk but i didnt care what he had to say at that point. three days past and we didnt have our honeymoon yet and our time together was limited and getting eatin up. We go to his insufferable mothers house get bitched at and i leave him to defend his own i want no part in his family any longer at this point, im in a sense just done i can go on and on about how miserable and insufferable these ppl can be. And he idk i love my husband but i just cant stand him defending his family over and against me, he tells me his not my enemy and that he protects me but i just dont care to listen to the bullshit coming out his mouth any longer.When its just me and him were perfect and he is in a good happy enviorment and our personalites rubs off on each other in the greatest way possible , but when hes surrounded by friends and family he acts like a fucking jackass and when they crack jokes on me really hurtful ones he just goes along with it and im just disgusted of how much of a tool he is , and the thing is hes family arent even in relationships anymore a majority of them have been divorced seperated and abandoned. and they do want to see him happy, because they want him just as miserable. Its pathetic that he doesnt see this abd just dissmisses it like im crazy he also has anger issues hes always quick to jump down my throat and put me down.But he never does this to outside people like his friends family and strangers! I feel alone and I dont know what to do i want marriage counsiling already but hes too embarrest to admit its needed. And another thing hes sister the one that flipped out on everyone did it out of jeaslousy is what he told me. we also ended up having oir honeymoon but only for a day it was pathetic he begged his other sisters to stay with us at the hotel and they even looked at him crazy i dont know what to make of this but i would like some helpful advise, please and thank you

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bipolarity at its best

Posted on Tue, Jul. 22, 2014 at 01:36 pm

So my Dh and i got into a small argument. I didnt want to continue arguing, so i went outside... Turned out, MIL had locked the door on me when I went to go outside for a bit. She then tried to tell DH to get rid of me once and for all. DH ignored her and told me to come back in. She then says behind DH back that I'm a bitch for yelling at his son! Well, today after DH and I talked and got along this morning, then she is being all sweet. Dh tells me to not talk to her ever, because he already heard that she doesn't consider him a son, since being with me. I can't wit till we move out soon.

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In-Laws

Posted on Tue, Jul. 22, 2014 at 10:55 am

I was always nice to you over the years to try for DH's sake. You were horrible at every chance you got. You made me hate holidays. I finally had enough and told you off. My kids and I are free. DH is done with you BIL and SIL. But the mentally abusive stronghold that you P'sIL have on him is strong. I'm over it. I won't compete with you and refuse to ask him to not want to have anything to do with you after all you've done to me (I wanthim to naturally feel that way). So, I'm done. But mark my words, you will NEVER get him back in your lives. I will destroy your bond like you've destroyed my life. It's on!

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I Shall Make You Wait For A Change.

Posted on Tue, Jul. 22, 2014 at 07:14 am

Now you know how it feels to be in a position where you feel as if you are having to tow the line as you are an outsider to the family, not nice is it. It usually is the case thought isn't it, when you turn the tables and dish out a little of what's been forced on you. It's finally sinking in that two can play that game and you can't complain when it was you and your imbecile of a husband who set the rules in the first place. You will have to wait, you will have to wonder about what's going on, and feel rejected. Enjoy the game you created...

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Poisonous MIL

Posted on Tue, Jul. 22, 2014 at 04:50 am

I hate my husband's mother especially. She never has a good word to say about anyone (even her own daughter!?!!!) yet she'll pretend to be a harmless old lady to peoples faces. She has psychologically abused my husband since his childhood, poisoning him and his siblings about their father. She has turned my husband against his own sister, bitching constantly about her. By far, the worst is when she told my husband someone else was his real dad (we did the dates and the maths don't add up- she insists she never cheated in her ex husband yet the maths tell a different story if she's telling the truth. She also told my son that their dad wanted her to abort his sister, I mean, what good is there in telling him this!?!!! I believe her when she said she had an abusive childhood and witnessed domestic violence from an early age, but she really shouldn't use her children as her counsellors. My husband is filled with anger and helplessness at the people who abused his mother but what can he do about it now? They're dead, and besides it's not his pain to inherit. I wish I could have it out with her but I don't want to hurt him. I also REALLY don't want her to do this to my daughter either!
She has serious boundary issues - she just thinks everyone is there to serve her and be talked at constantly. I've long lost pity for her because I now feel she abuses peoples pity, then just turns around and talks about people behind their backs. I've caught her a few times bitching about me to my husband over the phone. She's a total user. She'll think nothing of having someone drive her around, then she'll talk all over the sat nav and give out about you getting lost!?! She has never supportedy husband financially through college (me and my family did that, while her son in law's family paid for her daughters education). She had my husband paying her mortgage and working while he was still in school!!! She always has plenty of money to buy tacky ornaments for her house. I love my husband but I really don't want her to be part of our lives any more.

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It Must Be Tough Being a Martyr

Posted on Tue, Jul. 22, 2014 at 02:19 am

After our wedding ceremony, my husband and I chose to do a Chinese tea ceremony to honor my cultural heritage.

Then we did a Thai animal release to honor his cultural heritage.

Yet, when my relatives asked my mother-in-law if this was a Thai thing, she said, "No, I think it's *another* Chinese custom" -- as if my side were somehow monopolizing the whole wedding.

Uh... Just the week before, your son told you that he was doing an animal release, and YOU ASKED if you could help him look for the fish.

You've also done a fish release before; there's photographic evidence of this. So how exactly is it Chinese?

Guess what your son said when my relatives told him what you said? "What the hell?" and "God, she's so stupid." If you're okay with this, then by all means, continue acting like the victim / martyr.

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really?? MORE MIGRAINES?!

Posted on Tue, Jul. 22, 2014 at 12:02 am

SIL...
I am over it. the next time you say ANYTHING about your headaches being so bad that you cant clean your own house or take care of your child, I am going to bring up every time that you've gone out in the past year and got so drunk that you had a massive hangover the next day.... and I'll say it in front of EVERYONE. I'll break it down like this... the shine and luster of marriage and motherhood has worn out for you. YOU SUCK AS A MOTHER AND WIFE. You are just making excuses because you want to be a lazy, pill popping pot head. Every time we have family functions at your house, my husband and I take bets on how deplorable the condition of your home is. I can't believe that you are absolutely okay with raising a child in that filth. When was the last time your floors have been swept and mopped properly? Been a long time. There is dried food, mud, vomit, dog hair, feces, and urine stains all over. How are you comfortable with inviting family and friends over when some are afraid to walk in the door? Your bedroom smells of shit and body odor. when was the last time you changed and washed the sheets on your bed? been a long time, huh? Not to mention that at those said family functions, you dont even attempt to take care of your son. You make my BIL do EVERYTHING. Even after busting his ass at work every day, he picks up your "so very sensitive child" from daycare, and tends to both of you because your headaches rend you useless. you need to be a responsible stay at home wife and take care of your son at home instead of making my BIL fork over almost a grand a month in childcare at that "special private school". Honey, you've been useless from day one and trapped my BIL by getting knocked up. He didn't want to marry you. We can all tell that he regrets saying "I do" to your pathetic ass. I've helped you one too many times and i refuse to do it again. You never try to keep anything clean when i do help, so thats practically a slap in my face when i go back a week later and it's like nothing i did was appreciated. It's time to grow up, clean up your fucking mess, and raise your son in a proper home. seriously. Quit being a lazy, overly demanding, irresponsible, careless, and disgusting human being. The next time we come over and it's just as horrible as always, i'm taking pictures and contacting Child Protective Services.

Oh... and yes.. when our HUGE bad ass house is finally finished, I am going to rub it in your face to no end. I keep my homes incredibly clean so I and the rest of the family are comfortable going to one of our houses. Don't think i don't know all the times you've talked to other family members behind my back saying that i act "high and mighty" just because my houses have been nicer, bigger, and better kept than yours. You HATE being outdone. The only reason we go to yours is because our house is still being built, our MILs house is too small, and so is our other SIL's. You're disgusting. I can't say it enough...

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SIL

Posted on Mon, Jul. 21, 2014 at 08:45 pm

S-I-L:

Selfish
Ignorant
Loser

I hate you!!!!!

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