I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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hmmmm

Posted on Fri, Sep. 19, 2014 at 06:15 pm

Now she is sick. Hmmmm I know I should feel bad for her but I don't. I feel bad for her son he's worried. Then again that's what she wanted...her son all to herself. By all means keep him.

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awful lady

Posted on Fri, Sep. 19, 2014 at 04:16 pm

We have been together for 14 years. She is a awful lady returns all my xmas gifts gives me last year a big tent of a pj kind of looking like a 90 yrs resident is a nursing home. She is rude, mean and i cannot stand her.


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SIL

Posted on Fri, Sep. 19, 2014 at 12:44 pm

My SIL is such a bitch! I can't stand her! She sleeps around, is dirty, lazy and a sad excuse for a mother. Not that ker kids are any better. Spoiled & lazy just like her. The whole lot makes me sick to my stomach. Some people really should not be allowed to reproduce!

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My sister in law hold this principal in life,

Posted on Fri, Sep. 19, 2014 at 12:30 pm

"I have kids, so everyone should give me free shits!"

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Puddle of Mudd

Posted on Fri, Sep. 19, 2014 at 12:02 pm

I'm sure the thought of the writer of the song "She F*in Hates Me" didn't have MIL in mind, but the words surely fit! La La La La!

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Mother in law ruined my birth experience & more

Posted on Fri, Sep. 19, 2014 at 11:25 am

Sorry a little too long, but...
My DS is almost a yr. I cannot forgive my MIL for what she did & continues to do. What do I do?

I didn't want anyone but DH in the room during my labor. I ended up being induced & my DH called his mom to tell her. She ended up coming to the hospital. She didn't even ask, she just showed up. My DH has trouble saying no to his mom. So did I at the time. To make a long story short, I was in labor for 26 hours. My MIL never left. Even when I asked her, she never left. I asked my DH to tell her to leave. He ignored me. After having my baby many things happened. I wanted time with my baby & DH. ALONE TIME. She complained that I was keeping her from her grandson & that my parents who were in town for 2 days (didn't stay with us) were getting too much time. My MIL lives 1 mile from us. My DH & I fought for days. I had stitches, was exhausted, etc. I wanted time to heal & bond with my baby. So I don't go on too much, I will list my issues.
-She would come & go from our home & grab baby from me.
-She told us she hated our baby's name & wanted us to change it.
-She said I should be pumping milk so she could feed the baby(2 days after he came home)
-She repeated over & over that she needed alone time with the baby.
-She told my parents I was "rude to her".
I finally got the guts to tell her I was hurt by the things she did & I felt like her behavior was selfish & that I felt I deserved alone time with my new family & to rest from the labor.
She told me I was too harsh. She said I owed her an apology & never apologized to me.
My husband & I have been seeing a therapist but I still have so much resentment. My husband has since set some boundaries with his mother but I can't help but feel actual hate for her. She is so pushy. She booked a 2 week vacation for us with her. I ended up refusing. I used to have a good relationship with her because I wouldn't say no. Now I'm regretting letting her take over. My husband still defends her & she relies on him for emotion support & to help her around her house. She is single & lost her only brother last year. Now she is trying to make me feel bad, saying that she "has no one." Its really hard for me to find compassion for her. Am I horrible that I hate being around her? I really don't want to see her. I NEVER keep her from her grandson but don't trust her for many reasons. Do I have to let her see our baby every week? My parents don't see him every week.

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Hate me, hate my kids?

Posted on Fri, Sep. 19, 2014 at 07:56 am

Mil i cut u out of MY life over a year ago. U have my kids cell phone numbers and could call or text them any time. I don't pull the crap u did with ur kids and poison mine against everyone i don't like. It hurts the kids they haven't heard from u in a year. U are the only grandmother they have. U already have the award for worst mother and mil so i guess after a year of not contacting my kids u can add grandmother to that list. Ur getting old u freaking hag and i hope once my kids are grown u look back and feel nothing but regret for turning ur back on two really great kids.

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Entitled MIL

Posted on Fri, Sep. 19, 2014 at 05:08 am

Lady, you are batshit crazy! You bull your way in to everyone's buisness. Scream, fake cry and talk shit about everyone around you. You throw adult temper tantrums when you don't get exactly what you want, when you want it. What is wrong with you?!

I have been extremely generous with keeping you in your grand child's life. Letting you visit when you please, sending you photos upon request. Even though you are extremely rude and inconsiderate to us, but this takes the cake!

The *one* time we told you that it is not a good weekend for you to "visit" (shack up and stay with us as if our house is your vacation home) you throw a total temper tantrum!! Then say you are "coming wether we like it or not".
Wow! Crazy bat!
When asked why it must be this weekend, you replied "because I need a vacation". Not because you want to see your grand child.

I have news for you-
This is OUR (mine and DHs) house. It is NOT your vacation house! You can try to come "wether we like it or not" but you will be met with a locked, empty house with the security system armed!
If you try to break in (which you are crazy enough to do) the security system will go off and call the cops!
You will be arrested. All because you are absolutely insane.
I will not stick up for you when the security company calls my cell phone. You can be hauled off in the patty wagon.
All because we said no to you, once. You crazy bitch!

Oh, I also heard you threaten to gain "grandparent rights". Again, because we said no to you ONCE.
Our state doesn't have grandparent laws but please, continue to flip your lid. You're making yourself look like a complete monster.

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Out of my thoughts

Posted on Fri, Sep. 19, 2014 at 03:23 am

MIL,SIL's, FIL I need to get you out of my thoughts. You treat DH and I like we are not part of the fam, yet you'll befriend every scumbag, crackhead thief. So I'll make this brief and say don't ever ask us for anything or to do anything for you again. DH and I have bent over backwards for all of you and you just throw us away like yesterday's trash! So from now it will be about DH, myself and our little fam.


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MIL from hell ruins wedding

Posted on Thu, Sep. 18, 2014 at 11:33 pm

I met the man of my dreams on facebook and instantly fell in love. At first my MIL was accepting of me, and stood with me when my own mother kicked me out. I soon decided on a date for my wedding and the real side of this woman appeared. the day before my wedding she called me selfish and told me I had not done anything to help my own wedding!!!! total lie obviously. she refused to answer any call two days before the wedding and tell us if there even was one. The day before my wedding she spent the whole day trash talking me and my family.... the day of was even worse! she stated things like the wedding didnt need to happen and I wasnt the one for her son. that we were both ungrateful and didnt deserve it. WHO talks about their soon to be DIL on the day of her sons wedding???????the devil maybe! my SIL who i graciously let be a part of my wedding even trash talked me!!!!!!!! The preacher she hired was on his I phone the whole time and skipped several things including the I DO part. the photographer spent all his time taking photos of her family (again hired by her!) I have three good pics of my mom and me from MY wedding!!!!!. SHe pushed my mother out of the way and greedily took pictures of her putting my tiara on ! that was a job for my mom! she criticized my makeup choices for my bridesmaids! ugh...... the photographer made my cut the cake and toast like 2 min into my wedding because he had a cookout to go to ! after the wedding she took my engagement ring back (even though she handed it to my husband to give to me to keep) took my wedding dress and is trying to make me pay to get it back, same thing with pictures. she tried to turn my own husband against me and it is slowing working. she stole my tax money and put it in her bank account and he still wont step up to the plate for me. I am begining to wonder if I should get out while I still have some of my sanity! Dont get me wrong I love my husband dearly, but when is enough enough?

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