I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Mil fil

Posted on Thu, Aug. 27, 2015 at 11:46 am

Guys I understand but I feel like mine are the scum of this earth how to put it religious hipocrits racist and on top the cheapest motherfuckers I have ever known.

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hate my sister in law

Posted on Thu, Aug. 27, 2015 at 11:20 am

my sis in law came to my house after 4 mnths of my marriage with a huhe suitcase. she came to stay for a month. the very next thing i see is she sat beside her brother on dinner table leaving me with no option but to sit away frm him. then she served food fr him n herself. bitch dint even pass d food to me. den she somehow convinced her brother to spend time wid her at night. i slept in my bedroom n den wen i finally woke up in the middle of the nite i saw my husband was still not back to bed. den i went to the oder room to find it locked. i hate that bitch.

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inlaws and privacy issues

Posted on Thu, Aug. 27, 2015 at 09:03 am

Today just for example my mother in law comes down stairs in me and my fiances room to change my step daughters clothes .she acts like just because its her house she can c9me in and out of the room they let us live in if she sent my step daughter down i would have did it i really cant stand the fact she just comes in my room its her house but my fucken room i never go in her room wouldnt dare becaus3 i respect peoples privacy allways have thats hw i was brought up on numerous occasions she comes in and out and she allways does laundry wt 5 in morn8ng and could care less if people r sleeping i could have my naked ass out or my junk hanging out we have curtains for doors in the house im gonna leave asap because of major privacy issues in this house do u people agree or disagree i think this family my inlaws have no respect for others privacy and i think theres something wrong with that do Ub

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WANT ALL LINES OF COMMUNICATION TO GO AWAY

Posted on Thu, Aug. 27, 2015 at 08:39 am

I just wish I could deal with my husband interacting with his own family. I have been upset for almost 21 years, of things that were done to me back then. They are also very close to his first wife, which makes me very uncomfortable. SIL tried to break us up the moment we decided to marry. We are very close, he and I, but I struggle with his relationship with them because I feel they need to be punished. Punished by leaving them completely out of our lives, which isn't normal, or going to happen I know. This is why we chose to live in another state. But the moment they text or call, he and I argue. I want this to stop. I want them to not upset me so much. This has been a constant battle.

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Truths that hurt

Posted on Thu, Aug. 27, 2015 at 07:03 am

1. They will never accept me- if after 20 years they don't, they never will now!
2. They will always see me as taking away from them. I deviated too far away from your circle!
3. They will always think that they are superior- their marriage is supreme, they are supreme, they raised their kids better than anyone!
4. No matter what I do, I'll never please them - ever! So I can stop trying!
5. They will never think that they have enough time with their son or grandkids.
6. They will always blame me for that even if I've suggested to their son to see them.
7. I will never get any credit for my good deeds and will only get blamed for my perceived bad deeds.
8. They will blame me for the lack of closeness with their son and grandkids.
9. They will never admit that this lack of closeness is primarily their fault- they couldn't accept our boundaries. They couldn't listen to simple no's. They had to take the warpath route of slinging accusations at me left and right.
10. I can't ask my husband to stop seeing the .
11. I can only control my actions.
12. I have to accept them for probably another 20 years of my life. Ugh!
13. That thought makes me continuously nauseous or feel ulcer or mental breakdown coming on.
14. I have a good husband though who us trying to make amends for his past behavior. I have to forgive him and stop harboring resentment, although every time his mother attacks me again, all of those feelings return. She will lash out at me again because she can't accept that her sin and grandkids aren't all that interested in seeing her- must be the wife's fault!
15. If I can't survive in this marriage any longer, I will undoubtedly remain single or at least find someone with deceased parents!

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my dear sweet mil part 2

Posted on Thu, Aug. 27, 2015 at 03:05 am

Will you ever grow the f**k up???? You had a mini procedure done 2 months ago that you yourself requested to have done just to get attention! You should have been back in work weeks ago,instead you would rather stay at home and torture my poor fil and treat him like a slave! He told me himself the other day that he wants you out of the house a few hours a day because he cant stand to be around you and your whiny,needy and argumentative ways! When will you understand that all you do is push people away and make them dread spending time with you? Your own daughter thinks you are milking it for all its worth and you need to grow up! The only good to come from this situation is that I am not expected to drag my children to your house for dinner once a week and have to sit there pretending to care while you complain and whine about every little injustice you feel has been bestowed upon you! Grow up,wise up and get a f**king life!!!!

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Yes i hate my inlaws that much

Posted on Thu, Aug. 27, 2015 at 02:06 am

I lady came into work recently.Having general chit chat when she told us that her and her husband are only children and both their parents had passed away.Everyone felt sympathy and sorry for her.Except me i was so envious.Wish i had her situation,my life would be fantastic!

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Do you want me to do it, or not?!!!

Posted on Wed, Aug. 26, 2015 at 11:41 pm

Look Sister in law,

You asked me to host the birthday dinner for your elderly father AKA the WORST father in law in the world, EVER.

Out of the goodness of my heart, I said ok. NOW BACK OFF AND LET ME DO IT!

Stop calling me with "suggestions"! If you want it done a certain way, then YOU do it!!!!

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Controlling Fake B*tch n°2

Posted on Wed, Aug. 26, 2015 at 06:08 pm

SO IT HAPPENED! SHE FINALLY SAID EVERYTHING SHE THINKS ABOUT ME.

She's hated me from day one because I can't get a job, she says its "lack of will" from me and lazyness (she wakes up at 3PM everyday even thought she has to take care of her ill husband), so she started hating on me because of that ???

And after everything this b*tch said today, I realized, I want her dead. As I read somewhere on this page, it feels awful to say this about someone, cause hate is a strong and awful word and wishing someone was dead is an awful feeling, but having someone hate on you because you can't get a job or cause they judge you without even knowing you is even worse

Everything MIL has said today, taught me that I dont have to give a sh!t about what anyone thinks about me, no matter how much they think they know me. Clearly she thinks she knows me, but sadly, she will never know the real me or how sweet I can be with her, cause she's never allowed me to.

Oh, if she'd read this she'd say I'm feeling sorry for myself, victimizing myself, I am not,

the truth is, I wish I could said I did things to make her feel that way about me, that hatred she's got towards me, that way I would understand her, and believe she is a sane person that raised her sons well, but no, the thing is, I have always done everything for her, cleaned her whole house every day, helped her parents and her husband, her sons, I have NEVER ever disrespected her, cause I am living in her house, and cause she's my boyfriend's mom,

I've always kept my mouth shut when she disrespected me and my family without even knowing what she was talking about, when I shouldn't have even kept my mouth shut, when I should've slap her in the face for saying all those harmful, mean, untrue things she's said about me, I've kept myself together and always respected her even thought she's NEVER gained my trust or my love, my respect.

I make her son happy even when we have stupid fights, we make up, we were never on the verge of breaking up cause we love each other and see through the fights, his son makes me happier than I've ever been, and I make him happier than he's ever been, but she doesn't care, she still blames me for everything, she calls me a STRANGER even thought we've "known" each other for 2 years.

Her sons hate her cause she keeps trying to control them even though they're all adults, she says even when they're 50 "they're still my babies". She doesn't want to end up alone she says, but tell me exactly how do you think you're gonna end up if you keep treating me like shit after all I've done for you?

I never really thought of myself as a bad or good person cause I never had anyone to tell me so, but seeing how everyone on her family is on my side when she says the things she says about me, it's clear who's the bad person here, and hello, it's NOT me.

I did my best to respect you cause you're my boyfriend's mother, so you did ONE thing right, but you don't deserve sh!t. It's stupid of you to think I'd want to distance my boyfriend from his family, why would I? I didn't even know his family, I am NOT YOU. I didn't know you were this awful, if I did, I would've definitely tried to get him away from your evil claws, but it's stupid to think I ever wanted him away from you if we never had any discomfort around each other, if you never did anything to piss me off, then why would I? The only one who jumps to conclusions and judges people for their actions or even without knowing them, is you.

The only one who always believes is right and the world is wrong, is you. The only one who doesn't have any friends, is you. The only one who not even her own family loves, is you. The only bad person, the only problem with this family, is YOU.

Whenever you're out for the day, the house SHINES with your absent. BF, BIL, FIL and me are LAUGHING and HAPPY all day when you're not home, there is a a peaceful silence that makes us feel warm and at peace. When you come back, the whole house gets this black kind of aura... Everyone's away from you doing their own thing cause they just can't stand your sh!tty vibes.

I am so sorry we had to end this way, now you'll go around pretending everything's ok "cause the truth's gotta come out some way some day". I'll keep my distance as will my boyfriend. You wanted him to be closer to you and your husband? You thought I was keeping him away from you? NO, it was YOU all along, he doesn't want YOU around cause you're a POISONOUS crazy old lady.
For now I am in your house, oh but don't worry cause as soon as I am out of here, you will NEVER have to deal with me again, you will NOT meet your grandkids cause they don't deserve to meet a woman like that, if my husband wants, he'll still keep in touch with you, but FORGET about me, we will NEVER share christmas, new years, birthdays again, you will have to deal with the fact that YOU torn apart a relationship that could've been amazing. Whatever you think is my fault, deep down, very very deep down, you will see, it was you. Your ill husband will go sooner than you, and I am deeply sorry for that, cause despite his defects, he's a smart man, a great guy that never judged me, which you aren't, he doesn't deserve to go before you, but you do deserve to see everyone around you slowly dissapearing.
Your parents will be gone, and I am sorry about that too cause they're amazing people who despite how they've tried, raised an awful excuse of a woman. Not only I believe you are INSANE, but I do believe, as your sons do, that you are IN LOVE with your own children, too bad it's illegal to marry them otherwise I think you'd already done that a long time ago. I am happy you'll end up alone, maybe a couple of calls from your sons every now and then, but they will never visit you or care enough to be around you, cause as you hurt me, you hurt them, and their girlfriends. It will always be YOUR fault if you end up alone, it'll be up to them to still love you after all, but you make it quite impossible. I'd say I'm sorry for you, but the truth is, I am not, you brought this all on yourself, if you would've been a better mother, a better MIL, a better person overall, a SANE one, you would have a different end. It's too bad yours will be a painful one. I'm glad I won't be in it, I don't care for apologizing to you, I NEVER will, cause it's not my place to do so, I was the best DIL you could've asked for, but you never wanted me anyway, so it is NOT MY FAULT BUT YOURS. YOUR LOST, NOT MINE.

You say you don't have to apoogize to me for saying all those untrue harmful things you've said cause according to you "it's the truth and you don't have to apologize for it". Well, this is MY truth:

You're a
LAZY
DIRTY (get a shower every now and then will you?)
UNEDUCATED
IGNORANT
DISGUSTING
MEAN
BAD
INSANE
SH1TTY
DUMB

piece of cr@p, and be sure as soon as I move out of here, I will go with a bang and you will know everything that you needed to be said to you.

CFB.

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Family is very important!

Posted on Wed, Aug. 26, 2015 at 05:10 pm

Really SIL? Is "family very important"?

Your toxicity harmed my marriage and my health. Your destructiveness toward my family is the reason we don't see you, why we leave town when you are in the same state as us. You deliberately, repeatedly, tried to drive a wedge between your brother and me. And it worked! He was so afraid to let you down when you *demanded that he choose between his wife and his sister* that he tried to choose us both.

And then you attacked and attacked and attacked because you weren't the clear winner. You spread vicious lies about me. You set me up. You even tried to triangulate other family members away from us. We have not recovered from that.

I have tried going no contact with you, but here you still are emailing me about how "family is very important." Nice try. I'm sure you felt very self-righteous in writing that. And I'm sure your brother felt a pang of guilt when he read it. When you and your hubby looked it over you must've thought "This is bulletproof." I feel nothing for you but disgust. You are shit that needs to be scraped off a shoe.

Family is very important.

You are not my family.

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