I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Mama's little whingey weak boy

Posted on Tue, Mar. 21, 2017 at 04:58 am

Finally I am free of DH!!! It's been 15 months since we moved in together and for all that time he has been completely lazy about moving his stuff out of his parents' place. He says he wants the "security" of having a place available with his parents. He's 30. SMDH. His parents by the way are on benefits and living in a council house. Anyway - because the useless FIL is so broke and financially stupid, he doesn't have the money to provide proper care for the sick, suicidal MIL and still lives in public housing. So anyway - the council have power to up and move them within 4 days to a new flat. Because his father can't manage ANYTHING himself, he had to call in everyone to help. All that weak DH had to do was rent a van and go down and pick up his stuff and bring it to his HOME here. But NOPE - all DH could do was cower in fear from his father's anger, and talk about how he should go back and live with them because he couldn't manage out in the world on his own. Even MIL and FIL have been telling him to pack up his things and sort them out for these whole 15 months! By the way his FIL is also a lying cheater, drug user and benefits fraudster. Anyway. The funny thing is, I shouldn't have really tried too hard to get DH to MAN UP and GROW A PAIR OF BALLS and move out of his damned parents house. Because actually - my life will be SOOOOO much better and burden free without all of them in it!!!!!! Last thing that happened was FIL tried to have a go at me over the phone. I told him "I give back your weak son with pleasure!!!" Hehehhehehehehehhehehehehhehehe.

I'm so glad their gene pool is soon to be completely wiped out. :D

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Eye contact

Posted on Mon, Mar. 20, 2017 at 12:17 pm

You know when you can't stand someone so much that you can't even look at them...that's how I feel about my mil. Like if I lock eyes with her I'll just end up judo chopping her in the throat. She's the absolute worst.

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I'm going crazy

Posted on Mon, Mar. 20, 2017 at 10:56 am

He Is Living With Us OMG, my house isn't my own any longer; He is at my table eating my food, in my living room sitting in my sunshine, in my family watching my big-screen TV (sports-turned up to full volume). Also, he is such a racist. Talks down women, blacks, Hispanics, and anyone else who isn't a white male.
Tried talking to my husband about what to do with his dad...no plans...doesn't want to deal with it...the family won't get together to discuss...no one really wants him living with them..and he is too cheap to get a place of his own...
I am really considering getting my own place

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How About...

Posted on Mon, Mar. 20, 2017 at 08:09 am

You all stick to making each other miserable, just yourselves and each other and leave us out of it!?

Don't care, don't want to get involved, sick of your shit, lies and drama.

You are all f'd up!

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Plan your own damn party

Posted on Mon, Mar. 20, 2017 at 07:30 am

Mil text dh and told him she wants him and his brother to plan a party for fil's 70th. A) your son can barely find his own ass with both hands B) he has never planned, thrown or even gone to many parties. We're not footing the bill for fil on a party and that's what it comes down to. I can't help you had no retirement set in place and are barely scraping by. Im not a f-ing geni here to grant wishes for trips, a free house and parties. You didn't get the trips you hinted to go on, the house you asked dh to buy you and you sure as hell aren't getting a party on our dime. You know how we afford these things for ourselves? By not paying for them for you. You can have the kind of party you gave your son every year. A picnic in the park or better yet we'll celebrate like mine has been celebrated for 22 years. Ignored, not even a crappy card or phone call. Yeah, there you go, party planned.

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I hate I still care

Posted on Sun, Mar. 19, 2017 at 07:27 pm

Sil I hate and love you. I always will. You're a textbook narcissist and a cruel person. You've hurt everyone who's ever cared about you. And I know your tricks. You want me to see your posts and feel something. I don't. I let you go because it's unhealthy to have you in my life anymore. You're toxic. I'm happy you're getting married, let's hope out don't mess it up. But it's all inconsequential to me anymore. You just don't see any flaws in yourself do you? You're incapable of it?

I love you but I hate you. Stay far away.

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Horrible people

Posted on Sun, Mar. 19, 2017 at 06:17 pm

I will never know how my husband is the open minded kind hearted person that he is when his parents are such horrid greedy self serving racist assholes.

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Posted on Sun, Mar. 19, 2017 at 10:33 am

Dear IL's,

I never kept a single thing you gave me as a gift! Not a damn thing! I knew how you guys felt about me and I knew most of them were half-assed thought out gifts. I didn't want that bad energy in my house. I looked at everything from any of you as tainted. You people are evil and a gift from you would be a curse, because I know you had to be cursing me out when you agreed to give it to me! Most of the stuff got thrown away or
donated. MIL spoke of cursing people, what the hell made her think I would keep anything from her?

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Living in misery

Posted on Sun, Mar. 19, 2017 at 08:20 am

In laws live abroad and stay with us for weeks a time, multiple times a year.

Father in law drinks way too much wine when visiting. Always slopping the glass around, spilling on the carpet, all while lecturing me on the right way to treat my husband.

Mother in law is a cow, hyper conservative, moody, over bearing but hidden behind a smile.

Husband is a mama's boy. A grown adult (mid 30's who still lives in fear of their judgment).

Me- I am only half a year into this marriage yet spend my nights looking on Craigslist for places to rent for when I'm on my own again. My in laws are in their early 60's meaning they could be around for another 30 years.

I do love my husband and I thought I loved him unconditionally, but dealing with my in laws has sadly shown me that this isn't the case. They have broken me because without their presence I wouldn't be regularly contemplating divorce. I wish I had realized these things before walking down the aisle.

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