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Good job!

Posted on Tue, Apr. 22, 2014 at 03:07 pm

You are so angry that my son asked you why you spend more time with SILs kid than him. You even blamed directly after and said I put him up to it!!

News flash "grandma ": he is old enough now that he is noticing these things.

You see, when you and FIL declined to see him in the hospital after he was born but rushed to see SIL's kid (also demanded that everyone be there) he was too small to realize that it was only the beginning.

After he saw the fuss that you a and FIL made over SIL's baby, he actually asked DH and I if everyone came to see him when he was born. Lucky for you, we were able to change the subject!

Anyway, you and FIL make it so obvious that we did not need to tell him. He figured it out. You think maybe it is the fact that whenever he calls you, you're out with SILs kid getting ice cream? How you keep promising him that you'll take him to chuck-e-cheese but never do? Or how the few times when you took both him and SILs kid out, you bought her kid a brand new Barbie and told him "boys don't always get presents" and proceeded to buy him nothing. Or if you do buy him something, it is something dirty, boring or gross from a garage sale..

I have truly had it with you people! DH has had it and now my son has had it. We don't want anything to do with you anymore. When your friends ask why your grandson no longer attends holiday's, you can go ahead and tell them what awful grandparents you were to him. I know that won't be the case though, you're going to tell them that this is somehow my fault. Jerks!

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To MY DIL

Posted on Tue, Apr. 22, 2014 at 01:29 pm

I might be the saddest happiest person and the meanest nicest person only describes yourself! Shows how sad you are that you will not celebrate Easter. Get well soon.

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Major League Lolz

Posted on Tue, Apr. 22, 2014 at 12:45 pm

GSIL and I have recently become close.(after almost 25 years of MIL trying to discourage our friendship). She confided in me that her DD (GGD) is a GIANT slut, and her DS(GGS)is gay! IDGAF about the gay part, I've got a lesbian sister. But MIL has desperately clung to the hope that these two kids would be at least HALF as accomplished as any of my & DH's kids! Who are all winners. And on top of it , GGS & GGD are losers in life. Such sweet karma! Guess you picked the wrong ones to be favorites, you vile, bitter old hag. I have to stop being so gleeful over this- karma might bite me and I don't want that! But I've seen all this coming and it's sooooo SWEET to watch it unfold!!

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How did i not see this?!!

Posted on Tue, Apr. 22, 2014 at 12:28 pm

Mil u haven't seen dh or the kids since last august so u text hubby about a get together in may, tell him everyone will be there and for him to bring his best friend. Wth! Here is what a normal human would have text. Hey, ur brother is having a get together in may. We really miss u and the kids. Hope u can be there. Love mom. See how only ur family is mentioned? Besides that his best friend won't go. He has only met a few of u over the years and the ones he has met he doesn't like. It breaks my heart i have been forcing my kids into this one sided relationship their whole lives. They picked up on it years ago and begged not to have to be around the il's. Ur loss u old hag.

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One flew over the cuckoo's nest.

Posted on Mon, Apr. 21, 2014 at 08:43 pm

"Grandma" plays favorites and uses others as weapons. Someday her minions are going to realize how they have been manipulated by the psychotic mind of someone who is severely mentally unhinged. She is storing up her treasures in Hell, not Heaven.

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They won't ever pay for even themselves!!!!

Posted on Mon, Apr. 21, 2014 at 08:26 pm

When my fiance's family comes to visit, they stay with us. My Fiance often picks up the tab for them and us when we go out to eat. Right now, me and my fiance usually take turns paying for our family. When my family comes to visit, we rotate picking up the tab. I find it very confusing that when his family comes, whenever the check comes they sit their expecting one of us to get it. I am fed up with them being so cheap! I do not expect them to pay for our meals, but at least themselves! It stresses me out and makes me not want to go out to eat with them ever, but its hard when they stay with us not to. (I don't really cook, and ya as humans we need to eat). My fiance gets tired of picking up all the tabs and tries to get me to, but I refuse to split everything they eat with him, they should pay! At least for themselves. AHHHHH I hate them hate them hate them!!!! I can't believe the cheapness. How can grown adults come to visit and expect their child and his partner to pay for everything they eat? Selfish horrible people! Agggh there is my rant.

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NO!!!

Posted on Mon, Apr. 21, 2014 at 03:15 pm

The only thing i learned from interaction with my in laws is i learned to say "No". Not just saying it politely, but i learned i have to scream and yell it at them, for them to understand that "No" actually means "NO!", otherwise they won't get it. Their bully mentality won't accept rejection from other people. Their mean girls mentality won't understand that others have different opinion. They are so used to getting everything their way that they don't understand others are fed up being pressured, controlled, pushed by them.

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You have lost In-Laws!

Posted on Mon, Apr. 21, 2014 at 01:01 pm

Dear MIL & FIL from Hell,

You have lost your son, your only child, forever!!

You have permanently damaged your r/ship w/MY husband with your criticism of me, our kids. gossiping, & campaign to get the extended family to banish us.

We do not care! Thank you! Now my DH & our kids don't have to see you for the holidays or ever!

You are correct in your assessment that HE CHOSE ME! Yup!

Take your money, he doesn't want it, he wants me & the kids. We are a package deal. And your sentiment that you don't even know him anymore....yeah, you refuse to accept the truth that even with all your $$$, your only son chooses me over your malevolent, controlling, passive-aggressive, overt, manipulative, abusive ways.

You will die all alone MIL & FIL from Hell. Go see if your country club friends will attend your funeral. Everyone sees right through you!

Happy Mother's Day Beast!

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Time to move on

Posted on Mon, Apr. 21, 2014 at 12:12 pm

Its the first il free holiday. I don't live near them but i didn't make the kids call, i didn't have to see the boo hoo fb post that is posted at every holiday about how not everyone was there and the biggest dream is having everyone there. U should have thought into thhe future how one day i might put my foot down and say i'm not going which means dh doesn't go and kids don't go. Were humans not a pack of dogs with me being at the bottom of the pack and being grateful to be there. Mil i've said before hubby and kids can go whenever they like and u whine how hubby won't go unless i go. He is liked and i'm not. I don't go around people who don't like me or i don't like them but put the word family in it and there is some sort of obligation. Its been 20 years. If u all backstab and gossip about me then one more holiday wouldn't make it better, one more year. U have showed me time and again im on the outside so now i put myself there and everyone is freaking out. Im sure the gossip will die down. What fun is it if there is no more grapevine for me to hear it thru? Im sad i had to cut contact with the good il's but like a rotten limb u can't just cut out one area, u have to cut off the whole thing. I can't have the kids corrupted. I know what u say. They are spoiled, prissy, snobs. Sorry that dh makes enough that we don't have to shop at the yardsales and second hand stores. My dm kept me from my family and i hated her for it so i kept pushing my kids to be close to il's. I told dd i was done with u all but she didn't have to be and she pointed out mil never calls her, she does the calling. Never asks about school or how her life is just immediately launches into who is cheating on who, who is pg, what the cousins are doing. Dd knows this isn't normal since we have a great support system that keeps up on what is going on in her life. U have made up reasons to bitch about me all these years and now u actually have a reason. Telling everyone how i blocked all the il's fb and phone numbers, dh won't return ur texts. Soon it will be summer and there won't be an invite and plane tickets. U didn't like people to know we paid for the plane tickets. That wouldn't make for good gossip. I bet u about pooped ur pants when i posted on ur fb ur very welcome for the tickets and we won't take ur money if u try to pay us back for them. We moved 8 hours away 16 years ago but its been a gradual mental moving away. I didn't see u all for what u are i saw a dream. I see it now and u were never worth the wasted energy and emotions.

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Kids will be raised as I see fit, not you!

Posted on Mon, Apr. 21, 2014 at 11:10 am

DEAR MIL-
As a happy and proud athiest my whole life, I never imagined I would have to deal with inlaws like you all. Religion is your cloak of invisibility so no one will know what is really going on. You are a strange, awful woman and the only reason I let my children go to your church in the first place was to give them a small dose of Christianity. That was all they needed, thank you! I know that for the next 10-15 years you may be interested in taking them to church, you may ask. You may even threaten as you have done in the past and here is the deal:
MY KIDS ARE DONE GOING TO YOUR CHURCH! DONE! No more! They will NEVER go with you again, actually. You are comepletely screwed as your DIL hates your guts and always will. I bet NOW you wish you hadn't been so cruel to me. You know what you did, and so do I. You are a TERRIBLE PERSON!


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