I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Depressing Pregancy

Posted on Mon, May. 22, 2017 at 05:41 pm

I am having the worst pregnancy ever. I just graduated from law school and I'm supposed to be studying for the bar. Oh and I'm also 8 months pregnant and supposed to be on bedrest. From the loud television, to the screaming children (who they call out their names), to the trap music blasting before 8AM I am FED UP. Literally every time I go to the doctor my pressure gets higher and higher. I have to HIDE food because they eat everything like its going out of style. I hate living here so much. I'm not even excited for my pregnancy because I think that these horrible people are going to try to touch my baby. Not to mention his sister, who put her hands on me when I was pregnant and called me every name under the book. I hate it here so much, I'm sad at the thought of even HAVING my first baby. Not to mention his grandma still smokes in the house which has been making my asthma act up for the last3 months (I've been wheezing). I don't eat ANY food they prepared because its all deep fried, covered in fat and not to mention they don't wash their hands before cooking.

Hubby works like 60+ hours and every time I bring up moving he says that I'm ungrateful and I don't appreciate him which is not true. Living here is a nightmare and I feel like I'm in over my head. I love my husband more than anything but I am severely depressed and not to mention stressed.

To avoid them, I usually just stay in our room all day with the lights off (so they think I'm sleeping) and only go get food when they all go to sleep. Which is usually around 11PM. This can't be life. I HATE it.

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I deserve it.

Posted on Mon, May. 22, 2017 at 03:16 pm

After being told I'm too naggy, I'm too bitchy, I need to straighten my hair, I need to clean the house better, I need to cook healthier meals, I need to fold the laundry neater, I need to plant flowers like a real wife, I need to learn how to make homemade bread. After being told my husband should've married someone prettier, thinner, someone who can get pregnant quickly. After being heartbroken from not being able to conceive and getting told "it's just not meant to be, some people aren't meant to reproduce." After never having the confidence to defend myself, never wanting to stir the pot or cause further tension and staying silent while you belitle me and treat me like dirt and never accepting me into your family. After being so submissive to all of your selfish and arrogant suggestions about things I should change about myself just to please you and just to feel like I'm your daughter in law. After crying constantly every time I left your house with my husband because of some comment or remark you made about me. I took every penny of the money we set aside for your birthday party and I blew it all on myself. Every. Last. Penny. We will not contribute this year. Let everyone else do it. I'll admit it was out of haste, but I just couldn't bring myself to fork over $500 to a woman that has caused me so much misery. My husband has no comment on the matter. He knows what you've done to me, and he knew it was only a matter of time before something in me broke. Boy did I enjoy it! I'm STILL enjoying it! I deserved it bitch.

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No extended family support

Posted on Mon, May. 22, 2017 at 02:55 am

We are alone

Three teens to feed

I can't find a job

No loving relatives on either side

Hospital bill is high

Wish someone could tell us that it was going to be okay

Maybe give advice or say they care

Uncertain times

Discouraged

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YOU Made Your Own Bed...

Posted on Mon, May. 22, 2017 at 02:37 am

So lie in it!

And you DO lie. Constantly. So, go ahead! Do what you always do.....

Lie!

I no longer give a fuck. Your son is sick of your shit too.

Bye!

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Trying, but really?

Posted on Mon, May. 22, 2017 at 01:51 am

I have been trying to foster some type of a relationship between husbands family and my kids. They are not the favorite granchildren, sisterinlaws kids are. At least we live far, far away. Our oldest asks why grandma always talks about the favorites.... My child just disconnects and tells grandma she has to go. The younger kids in our family still go for the dollar store trinkets/bribes. Mother-in-law this weekend insulted other grandchildren, talking about how one is always sick (in a snarky way, not out of concern) and that a new grandson cries all the time. Everything said about anyone other than her favorites is always negative. Glad our conversation is limited. Recently, there has been an uptick in the amount of telephone contact, going towards once a month (usually initiated by my husband or if mother-in-law has some juicy news and has shared it with everyone on the West Coast already). She was bragging on her favorite grandchild while talking with my child. Even went on to bragup her own child to my child. Yes. Read that again. It was as if my 10 year old was supposed to go graduate her grandma on her aunts accomplishments. Ummm, no. Putting an end to the experiment. Trying, but really?!

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Sad life of the Tortoise and ex Laws

Posted on Sun, May. 21, 2017 at 09:58 pm

Well to begin! The ex laws are insane to think I can do all their chores while they let there lazy daughter sit in the room and do pretend sleep, pretend homework and pretend everything while my husband and I do everything. Not to forget a crazy farduh ! Who is crazy obsessed with his baby who wouldn't let us ride it to town to do shopping or anything. Its Like he is going to do die if we touch his baby. He is so selfish and absurd with his living arrangement expecting his food to be ready for him on time when clearly we are all humans with legs and arms who can stand on his own. Like Daaaaammmnn Daniel! My head is going to explode with these crazy croods. And my husbands little annoying madur is so jealous if my husbands brothers gf's. If they don't get there attention. They back stab you from the back and say there gf's are ugly and they are so disappointed with the sons. Like come on everyone is human. If they are gonna be Greatful with there gf's well too bad! They will end up with imperfect in laws. It is what it is. When my in laws complain about my husbands behavior. Well let's be honest who else would he inherit them from? From his parents? Its common sense really hahaha..

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Woman with no soul

Posted on Sun, May. 21, 2017 at 06:09 pm

I was diagnosed with breast cancer and when my husband told his mother she didn't ask to speak with me and never called me. After my first round of chemo I called her and instead of asking how I was she scolded me for not having called her in such a while. (I had three surgeries) when she was in town after my hair just started to grow back she came to pick up my son for lunch. She pulled In The drive way, didn't bother to get out of the car, just
rolled down the window and said, Boy u look different! Now that I've stopped all contact with her she complains that I'm a bad person for distancing myself from her and pushing me away. Too bad for her. I will only accept supportive kind people in my life. I've had enough of her and never want to see her again. She is a woman with no soul.

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Self-centered is not helpful

Posted on Sun, May. 21, 2017 at 06:06 pm

No, MIL, guilting us into taking a "fun family vacation" when you know very well that we are trying to get ourselves out of debt is not helpful. It'll be "mo problem" because you have a friend's house we can stay in. That doesn't pay for travel, food or activities when we're there. And then you and the rest of your family tell me how I'm no fun and never want to do anything. I may be nice to your face, but I secretly hate you so much.

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JUST GO HOME!

Posted on Sun, May. 21, 2017 at 12:11 pm

You came for a visit over the Mother's Day weekend. One week later and you're still here! Why do we want you to leave?
BOTH:
-do nothing but complain and have nothing positive to say about anything. You went on a dream vacation to the Caribbean and complained about every part of your trip. The beach was too sandy?!
-are overly rude to the sever when we go out to dinner. Then use the server's reaction as an excuse not to tip. I always over-tip to make up for your bs.
MIL:
-always lies down on the couch so no one else can sit.
-criticizes my house. Just because I don't dust everyday doesn't make me a slob.
-complains about my cooking. I know my healthy meals are not what you're used to, but we don't like deep-fried everything. And no, biscuits and gravy isn't a healthy breakfast. And saying "obviously my son didn't marry you for your cooking" after every meal isn't funny. Never was, never will be.
FIL:
-has to have the tv on super loud ALL THE TIME. I came home one day with the tv blaring and no one home, so I turned it off. You came in an hour later, yelling, because you "were watching that."
-never sleeps. If you can't sleep at 2 am, read a book. Don't turn on the tv extra loud.
-whines and complains like a baby ic he doesn't get his way.

P.S. When you see me drinking coffee on the patio with a faraway look on my face, just know I'm daydreaming about the day I get to bury you.

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SIL

Posted on Sat, May. 20, 2017 at 06:58 pm

You wrote "no one wished me a happy birthday today...where is my friends and family?"

Truth is, Due to your toxicity, we act like you don't exist. No one likes you, not even your kids. No one feels sympathetic for you. Please go away forever, because no one here would care if you were gone.

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