I Hate My Inlaws!

Welcome to I Hate My InLaws!

In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

So what are you waiting for? Tell us why you HATE YOUR IN-LAWS!!! and read why others hate their in-laws.

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Oh you have got to be kidding me

Posted on Tue, Mar. 31, 2015 at 11:01 am

No husband, I will NOT try and "build bridges" with your abusive family.
Give me one good reason WHY I should let these toxic individuals back into my life when they made my life a living hell!
Husband you of all people know exactly what they did!!!
I can't believe you even speak to them, let alone ask me this question.
They have you so wrapped around there little fingers it makes me sick and angry.

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At Last

Posted on Tue, Mar. 31, 2015 at 07:06 am

It has been 3 years since I stopped having a relationship with my in-laws, and longer since I have seen them. During that time I have healed, I have forgiven them and I have moved on. No longer am I controlled by the hurt and hate that had consumed me for so long.

As far as my DH goes, our marriage couldn't be better. When I stopped complaining, threatening and forcing him to see his family for who they are, he had the time to evaluate them and their behavior for himself. He finally came to the conclusion that they were indeed toxic, and other than very brief phone calls to his mom and dad every 3 to 6 months, he has no relationship with the rest of them.

To all of those who are hurting, please read 'Boundaries' by Drs Townsend and Cloud. Work through YOUR issues with your in-laws, and believe God for the rest. Forgive, move on, don't fall into their traps again and go back into toxic relationships, and live this wonderful thing called life to its fullest!!

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Reclaiming Myself

Posted on Tue, Mar. 31, 2015 at 03:56 am

My husband told me his mother is upset that I won't be attending Easter dinner at her house. Tough. I've been upset for the past 34 years, the number of years I've been married to her son. How does it feel, monster-in-law?

PS--My husband needs to grow a pair! Oh, I guess I did it for him.

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She waited until he was gone..

Posted on Mon, Mar. 30, 2015 at 11:37 pm

I really want my husband to want to cut ties with my mother in law. I know it's not the right thing to do, everyone has told me that you can't get in the way of family.. but this woman ruined his childhood by not allowing him to go to school. He had no friends. No table manners. She never taught him to drive. Brainwashed him into being a super christian virgin. Left him alone everyday to be schooled by a computer, which gave him a slight hunchback. I met him through the internet and somehow despite the lack of life skills and experience, he managed to still be a decent person. It has taken him 3 1/2 years to get to the point that he can do things on his own without anxiety. No one calls it like it is. That woman abused my husband by neglecting him and quieting his natural impulses. What kind of life did he have? As soon as I convinced him to leave he realized there was so much more to life. Now he hates her but at the same time it's his mom.. His father is a nice enough guy but obviously spineless because he doesn't stand up for his children or go out of his way to make their lives better. My mother in law decided that while my husband is in bootcamp, she can say how she really feels about me because he is not here to defend me. She thinks I am unsupportive to her son. EXCUSE ME? I taught him everything you never did. I devoted my life to him for the past 3 1/2 years and sacrificed so much for him. What else do you want me to do? She also decided to tell me that I am bad with money. I have only met the woman three times. Small talk. She doesnt have access to my finances as much as I know.. and my husband doesn't talk to her ever.. so She is making assumptions. I'm not in debt and have never borrowed money from her. I live on my own and have a vehicle. I just don't know what to do. I tried everything to make his family like me even though I knew in my heart they weren't the best people. I mean, how do you do that to your own son? So now I'm waiting for my husband to get out of bootcamp and I have to go see the in laws at his graduation. I don't want to start drama there but i'm afraid if i dont let him know then, she will attack me again while he is in tech school. I'm secretly starting my plan to limit contact and hopefully when my husband finds out how she's been treating me he won't want anything to do with her. By the way, my husband and I have only been married for a month. So you can see my concern. If its this bad now, imagine how it will be later? Sigh.

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My brother's mil

Posted on Mon, Mar. 30, 2015 at 02:41 pm

My brother has one of the best mil's I have ever met. She is kind. She never says a bad word about anyone. Even though I am her son in law's sister she treats me like family.

She remembers my birthday, and give dh and I Christmas gifts. She treats my brother and mom and dad very well.

Now for my own mil. She never remembers my birthday with a gift but she will rub it in that she got other people gifts. She is rude and hateful and treats my parents badly.

My brother's mil can come and live with any time, but my own mil can rot for all I care.

Behaviors have consequences.

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Posted on Mon, Mar. 30, 2015 at 10:27 am

I hate hating my in-laws but they leave me with no choice with their behaviour. Really is sad when I think about it.

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Posted on Mon, Mar. 30, 2015 at 10:06 am

Please feel free to call me anytime. I would LOVE to hear the truth. I had to SUFFER for YEARS through the family's petty bullying and picking at me.

You have NO IDEA what it would mean to me to hear the truth.

You have my number. I swear to never repeat a word you say.

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Clean cut my eye.

Posted on Mon, Mar. 30, 2015 at 09:57 am

You think you are so wise, brat-in-law, and yet you are living with an obscene, racist, sexist creep. Twitter don't lie.

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decietful biatch

Posted on Mon, Mar. 30, 2015 at 09:12 am

My mil opened all our wedding cards. Then she paid for the reception with the money. Still trying to figure out how she cashed the checks.The blue dress you wore to out shine me was vile. I will never forgive her. On our tenth anniversary we will have a recommitment ceremony and guess who will never be invited. You are gross mil and take a bath.

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In-Laws, You are Narcissistic A-holes!

Posted on Mon, Mar. 30, 2015 at 09:04 am

I get it. You people are a bunch controlling bastards. You have caused so much pain and hurt by the things you do ans say about me. Unfortunatley, you have made me very unhappy and I am struggling with tahe each day. You have always wanted to make me look bad in my husbands eyes. Everytime you do something to me, my husband expects me to take the high road. Not because he thinks its for the best, but because if he confronted you all hell would break loose. You all have anger management issues and he sees that it's easier to have me feel bad than deal with your anger. I hate all of you!

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