I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Hell Upon Earth

Posted on Fri, Aug. 08, 2014 at 11:08 am

This is going to be a long one! I would like to point out that I do not care if my in-laws read this. So here it goes
I met my husband while visiting my friends trailer park. My friends sister invited him over and we all hung out for the night. Then for 3 months after I turned him down and blew him off until finally I accepted his request to hang out. Well we hung out a few times and each time was a period of over 24 hours. We fell in love with eachother and decided to give a relationship a chance. A few months in I found out I was pregnant. We told his parents and they weren't thrilled but they didn't seem overly upset. His mother went around telling EVERYONE I was having her baby. Which made me feel uncomfortable as it definitely was not her baby but in fact her grandbaby. Things were relatively good for the first year until our daughter was born. Once our daughter was born is when everything blew up. His family started rumours and lies about me, my husband handed the baby over to his mom whenever she cried which made me really mad! Then finally we had a family blow out. My husbands uncle called me a bad mom(he had never been around me and my daughter to have known anything about my mothering skills leading to the fact that my in-laws were the ones feeding the garbage information to everyone) and I got really angry and stormed out of there house. I then told my husband that it was either he moved with me or he could be alone. He decided to move and we moved almost 2 hours away, we only lived there for about a year but it was one of the best years yet because we had minimal contact with his family and I loved that fact. Then he got switched to a new plant to work at through his company and we had to move back which upset me. His family has spread lies about me and called me ugly names for no reason. While we were now engaged and planning our wedding I had my dress bought and my hall booked and his mother took my dress and cancelled my hall. So we ran away and eloped which was one of the happiest days in my life besides my daughters births. I had found out I was pregnant with my second child and his family flew off the handle spreading lies and rumors about my kids not being his and abunch of b*lls*it! I was so angry. We ended up buying the house that my husband had grew up in and it was the worst decision we had ever mad. His family has been constantly in our business and are constantly rude to me blaming me for their son being distant when in reality he is distant because of the way they treat me. we have been married for been married now for 3 years and my husband has been diagnosed with cancer and his family has done absolutely nothing for us. My mother has been there since day one, taking time off work and doing as much as she could for us and his family belittles her and says she isn't a good person and blah blah blah meanwhile she is the only one helping us during this time. His mother has done everything in her power to keep me from seeing my husband while he has been hospitalized. I have never been disrespectful to anyone in his family yet they don't seem to care at all whether they say it to my face or behind my back.

The one thing I have to say is go to hell. I have no respect for you and I am not going to sit back and allow you to treat me or my kids like crap anymore! I am going to fight back and at the end of the day your son is going to choose me and his kids over you. He has wrote you off before for being absolutely retarded people and he will do it again. Get a life and keep your opinions to yourself. If I needed any help raising my kids, you would be the last people I would talk to. Your daughter is a slutty, manipulative, prissy, spoiled, self-conceded brat that no one can stand! Please do me a favor and fall in a grave and stay there!

Love
Your strong willed amazing daughter in law!

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So confused.

Posted on Fri, Aug. 08, 2014 at 04:25 am

BIL's wife is the greatest thing ever to my ILs. In fact everyone loves her. She is a liar, she is totally self absorbed and selfish. But still people think she's great. She talks about people in a really mean, petty way, insulting their haircut, shoes and even their taste in dishes, anything she doesn't see as good enough. And she has this Jekyl and Hyde thing she does where she is really sweet one minute and swearing up an angry storm (literally) seconds later. She can be super rude to me, but when BIL or anyone else from DH's family comes into the room she does a complete turn around and is sweet as pie. She knows that I know about her past and her lies (because I work with someone from her past) so she can be her creepy self around me when we're alone. It's like she knows no one will believe me if I said anything. The truth is, if I did, it would just make me look bad, so I don't. DH knows, I've told him and he can see it, but the rest of the family is bamboozled. It is so infuriating watching her work these people over. They love her so much and she would pee on their graves if she could get some advantage from it. Ugh. Frustrated!

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I need hope

Posted on Fri, Aug. 08, 2014 at 12:13 am

Can I borrow some?

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Can any of you top this?

Posted on Thu, Aug. 07, 2014 at 07:40 pm

My dh is not like the rest of his family. In fact he is the complete opposite. Here is a sample of his family.

One family member shot and killed another family member(it was self defense)

Another family member was given a gun as a child and shot and killed himself.

A relative has been involved in drugs for some time and is a dealer.

No one but dh's parents are married before they have kids.

Then there is the family member who gets knocked up by married men and has their baby and then proceeds to try to break up the baby daddy's family.

Then there's the family that looses their house but before that dh gives them lots of money so they can keep it. Big surprise they lost it anyway.

One of dh's relatives tries to hire a couple guys to kill another family acquaintance.

A family member is in jail for attempted murder.

My mil likes to 'joke' about killing me because I am allergic to bee stings and tells me to stand over by that bush with lots of bees to see what happens. Death happens that's what!

I have a higher education and I am very responsible Funny thing is my ils don't like me and criticize much of what I do. I can't do anything right for the most part. I have never even had as much as a speeding ticket but I'm the bad guy who can't do anything right. And my husband defends his parents when they are rude and hateful to me.


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D-I-V-O-R-C-E

Posted on Thu, Aug. 07, 2014 at 10:23 am

I have never been happier. Finally free from the ex-husband, his troll of a mom and all of his messed up siblings. The past year has been hell but in the end it was all worth it. No longer will I be treated like a third class citizen. No more under cooked meals that even the CDC won't consider. No more "oh the world is out to get me..." bs. I now have a new man in my life who actually respects me and has a decent family who have welcomed me with open arms. The only thing I regret is not doing this sooner :-)

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Note Taking Mil

Posted on Thu, Aug. 07, 2014 at 07:11 am

If you are still taking notes on me then good maybe one day you will learn how to be a decent human being.

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Homer

Posted on Thu, Aug. 07, 2014 at 04:35 am

My father in law is a racist Homer Simpson. I don't hate him - I pity him. There comes a time in every aging man's life when he is no longer a productive member of society and he should do the decent thing and die. For my FIL that time was 1995.

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Bipolar narcissistic two face.

Posted on Thu, Aug. 07, 2014 at 03:14 am

You know how much of a two face you two are, MIL & SIL? Let's see... one moment you talked about certain people and bragged about them like they are God, six months afterward you completely trashed everything about them, acted like you have been victimized by them and make yourself THE martyrs.

I am certain you have been doing the same behind my back too.

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another story from a stron woman who has won

Posted on Wed, Aug. 06, 2014 at 10:28 pm

Hey are you tired of your inlaws being vindictive, lying or manipulating you? Cut them out.. move away. Do anything you can do to go far far away from them.. best thing in the world for you and your marriage.advice from an old trooper.. I won too by the way.1,000 miles away from my outlaws...best therapy ever.

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I win

Posted on Wed, Aug. 06, 2014 at 10:16 pm

20 years now.. together forever and happier than yall said we would ever be. Watching my teen son happy and full of pride just makes me feel I have done something right. You all were wrong from the beginning. We are happy with or without you!!! We are doing it all right without you.. yay for true love that beats the inlaws into their rightful place!!!

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