I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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SIL, How Does it Feel?

Posted on Mon, Apr. 06, 2015 at 09:41 am

Looks like you're gonna have to earn your privilege of being able to see my little one back. You'll have to start over from scratch! How do you like them apples? I bet they taste better than that foot you put in your mouth yesterday! If you ever down my parenting ever again, you will NEVER see him ever again! I did not marry your brother because if I do, that would make him the legal custodial parent along with me. I just can't let that happen. You see, SIL, right now I most definitely have the upper hand thanks to the law in this mommy state we live in. I am free to take my child away, not just from you, but your brother too. That's my right! You have no idea what a bitch I can be, but that can change if I want it to. What you did yesterday was wake up a grizzly bear in hibernation and if you really want to see my bad side keep talking bad about me! You're a crazy loon who needs to take medication and yet you refuse! As of right now, your privilege of seeing my son has been revoked! I barely even know you and all you do is put me and your brother down every time you come to town. You almost had me fooled into thinking that you were cool. Glad I found out early. Trust that my son will not remember you if I have it my way. You will be the ex-aunt that will never be talked about! Listen up and listen good you crazy psycho bitch, I don't need you or anyone else to tell me how to raise my son! I carried him in my womb for 40 weeks, not you! Get a life please and stay the hell away from my family! Far far away! We don't need your "I cured myself" mental ass anywhere near my child! Do not text and ask for pictures. You will only be ignored. I am now giving back to you the same type of treatment that you gave to me for the first two years of mine and your brother's relationship which has now turned into a relationshit thanks to you and your family! Fuck you and the high horse you rode in on! Your little sister has been on my shit list from day one, and you see how that works for her. Are you stuck so far up her ass that you decided to join her? I thought you were your own person, but now I see where your little sister gets her holier than thou attitude! She got it from you and you don't even realize it! You are just as socially inept as you can be! Have fun working the job you have while it lasts! You couldn't hack it as a teacher so why should this be any different? You'll wind up going apeshit on one of your bosses just like you have with every last job you had before this one and you'll wind up getting fired from this one too! I wanted to actually have a relationship with you, but you ruined that too! You just don't know how to shut the fuck up! Well, I'm done here SIL! And when it comes to my little one, so are you! Happy day, Bitch!

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Watching others be happy

Posted on Mon, Apr. 06, 2015 at 07:35 am

I wonder what it feels like to have a husband who cherishes, respects, and supports his wife with kindness. I wonder what it's like to live with someone who is not cruel. I wonder if PILs enjoy the results of their cruelty and the way they taught their son to value a wife and the mother of his children. I wonder why he was so different before we were married. I wonder if anything will ever get better.

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Santimonious

Posted on Mon, Apr. 06, 2015 at 06:36 am

Overly preachy, fanatical, crazy, arrogant, arseholes- I really want to enjoy holidays but can't with you cuckoos! God is about love-not judgement! Stop putting my kids on the spot with your stupid games. I don't think God loves someone any less of they get some Bible trivia wrong, almighty , omniscient saint of all saints(mil)!

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Bet You Think I Am Attending...

Posted on Mon, Apr. 06, 2015 at 03:13 am

...your miserable bastard of a husband's birthday bash! Nope!

You have got to be joking! I am not going to spend numerous hours in that arseholes company celebrating the git's birthday when he is such a nasty piece of work, a trouble maker and a vulgar bully.

And I don't care what you think when your son turns up without me. I simply...do not...care.

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Yesterday

Posted on Mon, Apr. 06, 2015 at 01:42 am

I spent the day working out a plan to walk away from dh and his relatives.

I cried and had a challanging time seeing how life could ever improve.

Today, tears are still leaking out.

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Flaked Out Again

Posted on Sun, Apr. 05, 2015 at 08:22 pm

There's so much back story it's not even funny. My MIL left her family and didn't raise my husband..like no consistent visits or birthday calls...nothing. She's been married more times than I can count and has a gazillion kids. On drugs. Off drugs. Moves off until she needs something and then she's back. She's sweet and fun to be around...very nurturing seeming. All that glitters is not gold. She gets that wanderlust and she's gone. Once she settled into a whirlwind marriage to a guy we had never met and ended it within two weeks...just in time for her car to be fixed. She'll use her kids just as fast. My husband is a forgiving man who loves his mom and welcomes her back with open arms. He did so a few months ago. She's completely intertwined in our life since joining our church. I was okay because I guarded myself and reminded him and my kids that we love her while she's here but she won't stay. Now she's separating herself and it's hurting my husband and oldest daughter. I can see when it started. She used my husband to provide moral guidance for his sister who was experimenting with danger. He helped out and she never stuck to any of the guidelines and since then has been aloof. Her kids that are my kids age are being rude to my daughter. MY parents invited her and her children to Easter lunch. She agreed and was to bring dessert. She texted about an hour before that she couldn't come because she'd overdone it (whatever it is). Wish I could cut her out of my husband's life without hurting my husband. Problem is that she goes to my church and her kids are in school with my kids. Surely she'll move soon...right?

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The bought GBIL a house

Posted on Sun, Apr. 05, 2015 at 06:53 pm

So we found out ILs bought GBIL a house and are paying for all the renovations. They also paid $20,000 for his wedding 3 years ago.

My DH and I had to fight for $400 for our wedding, even though we had an agreement that everyone would pay 1/3. Us, my parents, ILs. Our wedding was under $4,000.

Oh and when we were struggling in college, ILs made us postdate a $40 check for groceries.

It's not about the money, it's the favoritism and the absolute crap way they treat my DH compared to GBIL. I forgave and forgot a lot of the crap they've pulled over the years for the sake of my husband but the the shit they pulled today, I will no longer be obliging. You pissed off the wrong wife and mother. So stick it up your ass. I am going to make sure you see us four times a year until you die. And don't think you're going to be living with me when your asses are old and moldy.

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hates me

Posted on Sun, Apr. 05, 2015 at 05:14 pm

My mil makes up reasons to hate me and is always trying to convince my h that he's not happy with me. She says I'm a wedge between the family. I have never done anything bad to my h. I treat him good, love him very much, we really have a great time together. We both work hard, enjoy the same hobbies, and besides little cleaning issues have an amazing relationship. We both don't understand why my mil insists on doing this. I think she believes it will make my h leave me or drive me to leave him, she doesn't realize we talk about it amongst ourselves and we both agree to separate ourselves if she continues. We want to have kids and I don't want her around if she doesn't change. I don't see that happening. I used to think she'd get over it and I'd forgive her when she came around but she dragging it on so long now that the disrespect has reached a new level and I have no desire to try and befriend her.

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SIL

Posted on Sun, Apr. 05, 2015 at 04:51 pm

Looks like you had to learn the hard way who's the boss! You didn't like that did you? Don't ever come near me or my child again! You sick fuck!

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SIL

Posted on Sun, Apr. 05, 2015 at 02:59 pm

I am NOT YOUR SISTER! You already have one! You know, the girl that has to fart so you can come up for air? Yeah, that one! I can't believe you would even call me that after everything I've been through with you for the past four years! You wouldn't even give me the time of day until after your nephew was born! Now you suddenly love me? Get a life, get a clue, and don't ever refer to me as your "own sister" ever the fuck again! Get a different doctor because your so called therapist hasn't helped you at all! Seven different doctors told you that you need medication and you told all of them to fuck off. SMH! You seriously need some help! Stop downing mine and your brother's parenting! Your nephew doesn't even know you! You come around three times out of the year and you think you're an expert on parenting? Bitch, please! I showed your ass today who was boss and don't you ever forget it! You are not my child's mother and let's hope and pray that you never have any of your own either! Yeah, Bitch, that's right, I made damn good and sure that your psychotic ass didn't get pick up my son from the church daycare and with very good reason too! You are not fit to take care of a dog! Why the hell would I let you take care of my son? I wouldn't! No parent in their right mind would! In closing, until I see a prescription bottle of mood-stabilizers in your hand and have proof that you are taking them, then we can talk about supervised visits. Until then, DO NOT come around or you will go to jail! That is all!

P.S. EAT SHIT!

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