I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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I hope it was worth it mil

Posted on Fri, Dec. 30, 2016 at 07:39 am

I hope the crappy way you treated me all those years ago was worth the 20 christmas's you haven't had with your son and 19 and 15 christmas's you have never had with your grand daughters. You got your way three years into my marriage and I left your son and moved away. It didn't go as you planned. I took my daughter and your son followed me. I heard how you clung to him sobbing in the yard begging him to divorce me, get dd and move in with you and you two would raise my girl. It was a gamble and you lost big time. There was nothing wrong with me except I have a little class, goals and a personality that can't be manipulated for long and you had plans for your son to live with you and help out with bills and the younger kids. You still talk crap about me and lie. I hear from other people so I know I made the best decision. You can keep doing what your doing which includes waking up every christmas without your son and grand daughters on christmas morning. You didn't see the first bikes, then the cell phones, the makeup, the scrub tops for dd's veternarian job, the ipad for college and this christmas dd's fiance joining us for the holidays. Unlike you I will have many christmas's with my kids and grandkids. I treat my dd's fiance like gold. Hell, the boy tells me all the time how I am better to him than his own family who tried to break him and my dd up because he was suppose to stay living with his mom, paying bills and helping with the younger kids. So the cycle starts again and there are now two mothers who woke up christmas day without their sons, one probably hating me and one probably hating my dd for stealing their sons. The thoughts that I can guarantee aren't going through their minds are,"Wow, is this worth losing years of special memories over?"Maybe I should apologize and try to salvage the time we have left." That's fine with me. Im looking at many christmas's filled with love,laughter and one day sweet grandbaby kisses, first bikes, first cell phones.....

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Ever wonder why?

Posted on Fri, Dec. 30, 2016 at 06:18 am

Has it ever dawned on you why I get so angry when your mom and sisters name are brought up well you should be ashamed at the way they have treated me ashamed. And this is 39 years of bull crap from them how stupid are you stand up for your wife !

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You Lose!

Posted on Fri, Dec. 30, 2016 at 02:19 am

I have always known you are two poisonous peas in a pod. Lying, gossiping, making assumptions about people who don't give you what you want. From day one of meeting each of you I could sense something wasn't right, that you'd be trouble.

And did my instincts pay off! I was 100% accurate!

You are really making fools of yourself now! It seems as if your family has serious issues, and you have decided to go with it, haven't you.

You constantly gossip about people, you then gossip about us-no surprises there.

So talk shit, like you always have, because it means I don't have to feel awkward about having ZERO to do with you.

It is also obvious that you have no respect for the people who you lie to, who you bring into your little mind games.

You two evil bastards deserve each other. And you are making each other more and more miserable as time goes by.


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Happy Holidays

Posted on Fri, Dec. 30, 2016 at 12:43 am

I'm so thankful that I didn't have to go to my MILs house for the holidays! I can't tell you just how wonderful it feels! I'm sure it was said that I keep my husband away from his family but I don't. He just knows they're full of shit! He's never really felt like he was apart of a family until we started dating. It'll be really great when he see's her for the bitch that she is!

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Wah wah

Posted on Thu, Dec. 29, 2016 at 04:41 pm

One of my husband's cousins wrote yet another downer of a Christmas letter. In it she proceeded to give details about everything going wrong in the lives of her children down to details of health problems, rent increases, mortgage payments, etc. Hey, I don't wish anyone bad health or financial problems but honestly, we've all been there. We never even hear from this woman during the year. Just wish us a Happy Holiday and call it a day for the love of god.

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Who Wants Your Ugly Mug?

Posted on Thu, Dec. 29, 2016 at 04:03 pm

One of the Christmas gifts from mil was a set of mugs. 16 HUGE, OVAL-SHAPED MUGS, which were way too many for my family, so my mother, who came to spend Christmas with us, put 8 of them in a plastic bag and stored them somewhere I didn't pay much attention to.

Then after Christmas, my mother left, and mil noticed that I didn't have all the mugs in my cabinet. I told her my mother stored them somewhere, probably buried under the mountain of Christmas stuff in the garage.

She said: Your mom probably liked them too much and took them back home.

I said: Nah, she wouldn't do that (She didn't even like them).

Then a few days later, mil came again and asked me if I'd found those mugs, and I said no. She said again: Your mom probably liked those mugs a lot and brought them back to her house.

This time, it got my attention. Are you calling my mother a thief? I wanted to respond "in the Asian culture that I was raised from, oval-shaped water containers mean death and coffin, and are considered very unlucky."

However, it was too bad I don't have that kind of personality or courage to throw that at her face. I hate myself like that. I think that's why she feels like she could say all kinds of stupid and offensive things to me.

I've decided to purchase a new set of mugs and give her ugly mugs to goodwill.

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Selfish, Insensitive People

Posted on Thu, Dec. 29, 2016 at 03:27 pm

It was mil's birthday and the second week my mom came to visit us.

Mil texted me: I've been wanting to go to this awesome but expensive Mongolian BBQ restaurant for a long time. Why don't you ask your mom to watch the boys at home (my three sons, the youngest of whom is 8 months) and we can finally go there?

Hello, MIL, are you brain dead? My mom is a vegetarian, that's true, but to even think of asking for such a thing is so selfish.

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Petty in law.

Posted on Thu, Dec. 29, 2016 at 02:43 pm

I hate my in law. She's the worse.

She doesn't tell on me but rants to my husband about every minor thing in the house, like the small towel in the bucket. Like hello? How the fuck does that affect you? She doesn't show respect to my husband and I and expects us to greet her and speak to her. When we bother to let her know where we're going via text, she insist that we have to inform her by telling her.

She doesn't show a good example and expect us to do a good job. Fucking joke.

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Tis the season to pretend

Posted on Thu, Dec. 29, 2016 at 02:40 pm

My ILs hate me, which is the main reason I dislike them. They annoyed me from time to time but it wasn't until we had a fight and the gloves came off that I understood how my MIL really felt. This fight sent my husband into therapy and caused months of drama. Now we're back to pretending to get along. They are selfish people who believe themselves to be kind and generous. Funny really. They believe I'm the problem, but I'm not the one estranged from my siblings - take a look in the mirror MIL. Also, our daughters don't care about the piles of presents you send- you can't buy love. If you love them so much, use that money to actually spend time with them. Instead, every time you have a chance to see them, you choose not to take it. But you repost my photos of the girls on your fb like you were actually a part of their lives. Sad. They WILL see through it. And the rare times you are around the girls, you spend your time correcting them and telling them "no." Wonder why they're always more than ready for you all to go? But we will keep pretending, until you burn your last bridge.

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Crazy Train

Posted on Thu, Dec. 29, 2016 at 10:39 am

Have you lost your mind?
You want my son involved in your wedding? We don't even speak to you! We haven't talked to you in moooonths! We have seen you since I told you I didn't like you & consider you a grandparent to my kids!

And then! You asked that my DH, your son, make sure he is off the day of your wedding. He doesn't want to go!!!!! And the only day he can genuinely ensure he is off is to take a vacation day! You want him to waste one of those on you? After the crap you pulled when we married? Fat chance!!

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