I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Grow up

Posted on Tue, Feb. 13, 2018 at 08:34 pm

Dear BIL,
Your in your late twentys and don't have a job. The short period when you did have a job you always called out, and that was years ago. All you do is mooch off everyone and get uncontrollably angry and they don't give you something. NEWS FLASH: no one owes you anything. Get a job, get your license and get your life together because the next step is you living on the streets. You always took advantage of your younger brother (my hubby) he worked 80 hours a week to keep a roof over both your heads from the time he 18. And your older then him!!
One of the worst times of my life when you lived here with us. Every time we would say I love you or kiss or even act like a couple you would sigh or mumble something under your breath. All you did was play video games and go to the bar,where you could use your mom to drink for free, and spend hours in the bathroom.
When I was pregnant you made such nasty comments behind my back saying "she's acting like she's so pregnant". I was pregnant.... just cause I wasn't showing yet doesn't mean I wasn't. You would spend more then an hour in the bathroom and would complain if i knocked on the door to pee or throw up. When we were all watching tv you made racist and comments that would drive me crazy because you are so ignorant.
You don't like me because I "took your brother away from you". No, your mad because you finally had to grow up. Which you didn't. You still don't have a job or permit or license, your almost 30 it's time to start being an adult! You are going to go from couch to couch until there isn't anyone left to help you.
You always said how dirty me and your brother were but it's funny how our home is always clean since you moved out. And that the people your living with are about to kick you out because You never clean up after yourself or pay rent but bring up all the bills. You don't need to take three hour long showers a day when your sitting home playing video games all day.
Now your mad about how we have to get rid of your cat. You have never paid or cleaned up after the cat. We have a small child of our own and don't have the time or money to take care the cat the way she deserves.
I have a million more stories that I would love to just tell you and maybe you could hear how pathetic you are. But you would start a war in the family. Your selfish and don't care how it effects your brother but he's my husband and had been through so much because of you already that I always have to keep my mouth shut.
Grow up or don't come

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Selfish selfish selfish

Posted on Tue, Feb. 13, 2018 at 07:51 pm

You never liked me and judged me from the start. You just didn't want your coddled life to change.

My husband always took care of his OLDER brother from the time he was an adult. He worked 80 hour weeks to pay the bills and rent to pay for my BIL who was too lazy to get a job or license and just stayed home all day and played video games. When I got pregnant the first thing my MIL said was that she couldn't take her adult son in and my husband would have to keep taking care of him. All he did was play video games from the time he woke up, around 2 in the afternoon, until he went to the bar where my MIL worked and would drink for free then come home drunk at 4 in the morning and start yelling and throwing things. He always complained and my husband and I kissed or told each other we loved each other. They didn't like me because they knew eventually things would have to change and he would have to get a job and actually be an adult. He is now living with a friend still jobless and no license. He complains about everything all the time but if you say anything he starts a war. We've been taking care of his cat which he had never paid for and now that we have to give her up he's saying we're selfish because we can't afford her now that we have a baby. He has no
Empathy for other people and can onlly see things for how they effect him. He's ignorant and selfish

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The universe believes in me

Posted on Tue, Feb. 13, 2018 at 10:20 am

I wonder if you even know what you did. You probably are waiting for us to make the first attempt at reconciliation. Trust me, there won't be one. The first time could have been a mistake, the subsequent ones are a behavioral choice. I have forgiven you for past behaviors however that doesn't give you a pass to continue with future behaviors. Until you stop with your financial favoritism and ridiculous behaviors we will continue to choose to be happy without you in our lives. I used to get mad but now I get distant.

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Evil Woman

Posted on Tue, Feb. 13, 2018 at 09:39 am

The only reason my MIL calls me so much, is because the evil things in her need a place to feed.

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Leave me alone!!!!

Posted on Tue, Feb. 13, 2018 at 07:08 am

Sorry that your son wants to move out but do not take it out on me because I’m so sick and tired of your shit . You really turned into a nasty person I think your daughter in law is giving you lessons on how to be a bitch !!!!!! Leave me alone please oh and why is it that your husband and mother said the same thing but I can not say anything why is that it you don’t believe them you jerk !!!!!!!

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Just, no.

Posted on Tue, Feb. 13, 2018 at 06:59 am

No more mind games.

No more sad pleas for forgiveness when I’ve done nothing wrong.

No more scapegoating me because you can’t kick your addiction.

No more throwing shade at me or my family.

No more tears, sorrow or giving a shit about people who hate me.

No more standing up for you even when you’re not around only to have you tear me down behind my back.

Ah, the joys of NC.

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Petty SIL

Posted on Tue, Feb. 13, 2018 at 06:32 am

No amount of meanness on your part reflects poorly on me and mine. Your station in life reflects a solitary, lonely, and tortured soul whose existence has amounted to that of crazy cat lady. Your contributions in life have amounted to nothing more than self absorbed vanity marathons in which everyone trying wins a trophy. So sit back like you always do and say whatever you want about whoever you want because it will never change your poor presence. You will never shake how the world views you because your actions prove why exactly why your words mean nothing. It's true. Your words mean nothing to us or anyone else. 💁

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Crazy racist MIL

Posted on Tue, Feb. 13, 2018 at 04:15 am

My MIL used to be rich. Her 2 adult sons got on crack and we watched a few millions dollars disappear in less than 3 years. She is now taking family jewelry to the pawn shops and asked me to help. We go to this place and it's not a pawn but a jewelry and coin place. She sells a few rings and gets a few thousand. As we are leaving, a young black man walked in to BUY a rare coin. He says hello to us and even compliments my MIL. She didn't respond. I spoke to him for a few minutes about the coin and then we left. Outside the shop, she yelled at me for talking to a low life n*gger. I had to pint out to her that SHE is the lowlife selling family heirlooms because she enabled her sons' crack habit and lost all her money. This young man is BUYING a rare coin. Who's the lowlife? You MIL. I am so embarrassed. I wonder what you would say to me if you knew I was part native american?

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You freaking annoy me

Posted on Tue, Feb. 13, 2018 at 04:07 am

Mother inlaw When you come by my house i hide and turn up my music loud so i dont have to see you. When you txt me i never get back to you so why keep txting ? You make my stomach hurt just thinking of you. Go away forever i could not give a damn. My happiest days are when you dont pop by our house . Brush your teeth and your hair you hag.

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You're alone for a REASON!

Posted on Mon, Feb. 12, 2018 at 11:23 pm

Dear toxic narcissist MIL

I am NOT the reason your son doesn't talk to you. This may come as a surprise but he is his OWN person and has thoughts and feelings like everybody else!

So how about this, after recently driving your own husband to SUICIDE, don't do the same with mine!

PS. He's definitly in a better place!

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