I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Stealing ftom babies

Posted on Tue, Oct. 14, 2014 at 09:26 am

MIL....clearly you don't remember sitting in my kitchen and saying about my DS and DD that "I love those kids, I'd do anything for them." Apparently your definition of doing anything for them includes: kicking them off their most favourite place, forcing them to move 4 times in 13 months and watching as their toys continually get packed up and some put into storage that they haven't seen in months, having them live on a busy road with no fence and DH and I having to tell them their beloved puppy got hit on the road and died because instead of putting up a fence and making a home here you have forced us to move yet again, stealing DH's hard earned money for yourself because you expect DH to put you, FIL, and his siblings ahead of his wife and kids and becoming angry wuth him and resirting to stealing when DH says hus kids and wife are first. So you love these kids eh? Funny way of showing it you selfish bitch. Guess we shouldn't be surprised considering the horrific way you have treated my DH/your son. Looking forward to the day you wake up alone with nothing but your precious garden, pool, and money for company. With all the horrible things you've done you should die of a massive guilt induced heart attack...but that would mean you'd have to have a heart and a conscious. FIL, your just as horrible, if not more so, for allowing the mistreatment and abuse of your son and grandchildren.

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Echooh?!Pathetic fakes ! No more!!!

Posted on Tue, Oct. 14, 2014 at 09:25 am

Old nasty B#%*'s?Can you hear me?! Echoooo! Hear my voice lately? Nope! How come? Geez, it's been 10 long years since We as a whole family haven't visited? Hmm?! Wonder why?! Is our phone call gonna still happen? Or did the invites ( over these long years get lost in the mail? Did you remember Us? Mil, Sil,Nil,Bil,Nil, other Bil, oh & DH other sister? That's right! Oh you wanted us to invite ourselves up to the gossip hickland sh#% lol' town of how many people? Hah! Umm.., last count was? Oh yeah A big 2,500! Wow! That's Big! Try the Real World you losers! Remember when you actually drive to the Big City? You seem to forget to call, sneak in the Really Big City where us city slickers live?.., please! Your all scared to even drive ?! Omg! How pathetic! Didn't think So! See , We live in the Real World where you's would blend in like everyone else !Hickland people like you's Can take All Mil's money & pretend to Kiss her wrinkled up #%*hole Are just that .... A poor bunch of Jealous ,ignorant secretive arrogant idiots !! Just think ( those brains ) What Brains?! Hahah! are so twisted Just look around All your sorry little F'd up lies& secret pretend Nonsense that you all made up in that toxic wasteful so called Big Hicktown pathetic gossip mongers BS!! DH finally figured out your small town Hicksville hate! Oh yeah! Me? Winning!!LOL! I'm Loving our Lives! Yup! Kiss my A#%! You are such Fake , Phony, lowlife losers! I have A MIL from Hell! Burn ASAP B#%*? HahaH! Soon, you'll be where you belong... 6 feet under! Oh thank god! Hurry up & die! Bc I've had it with your sick games & Disrespectful BS! Playing games at ur old age? 80 ish?! You gotta be kidding me?! You deserve Hell old one! Your lies & obsession with your son have started to burn you all ready! Yeah you prune winkles ! Can you hear me?! Oh that's right , selective hearing ?! You make me wanna watch the scariest movie every night bc that's what I'd rather do that ever visit you! Exorcist ? Ring a Bell?! That's you! You talk S#%^! You are using all the money hungry Other in laws to do your dirty work since you are in your nasty old folks home! Hahah! Nice place?! To bad your rich other half( you weren't legal) wonder why??LoL! Anyhow , That dirty old pig finally croaked ! Yes! you got the boot out of that gross house ! Well , you wanted to go into care?! Yeah right! Who wanted you Mil? Let's go there ?! Hmmm ... wondering why your still breathing ?! But not for long! Dh finally sees you for the mess of a disfunctional non mother you really are! Treating My Dh like crap has & is in the works as I write this! Dh finally see's What you really are! A trouble maker! Scheming & luring him up your way bc your always trying to guilt him out?! Not ever once seeing in a decade.., that's right folks 10 years of nothing from this so called Mil, grandmother?! Our kids deserve better! Yeah! The rest of your golden winners are there for you! Your Money is all they really want! They control all of it! Selfish sorry greedy pigs need your money ( more of it) Do When you die ? Soon I hope .., they can have it! I'm sure bc your son has realized how horrible you've treated your 2 grand kids ! I told them to not worry ... It's not nothing they did wrong ! It's you! As a Mil .., your the Devil himself! So is your favorite Dil too! Nasty rotten miserable B! Making up stories way back Whrn about Dh & I ? That was 20 plus years ago ish ?! Why?! Nothing is ever done to any of you to deserve that?! Made up an affair story about me?! That jealous hey?! This hurt me! Hurt Dh too! Mil phones drinkers up on her lah lah pills & cursed me out ! This made you Sil feel proud of your lies with Nil? Your sick! Hope you feel better about yourself! You had me fooled for a long time! I tried to ask myself many times why?! Why you competed with me?! What did I do to deserve all of you to start lam your rumours, fake stories, tell your hick town pathetic idiots I am a druggie?! Omg! How dare you's! Never did drink or drugs ever! I'm a whole lot more educated than you's! You have what Sil ? Grade 9? Bc you were knocked up & married by what 15?! Or was it 16?! Oh right .., you forgot to mention that to me?! Hah! Oh right , you lost that baby& you divorced that guy?! Oh right , you did the same thing to trap dh bother! LoL! Mil also hid that secret too?! Boy , you's are so intelligent! I was snowed for awhile! Had no idea you hated me from day one! Wow! Unbelievable ! Cold hearted calculating evilness! I am on to you's now! Although I'll admit .., you had me fool for years! I'm now more mature & not a young inexperienced wife I once was! I know what you've been talking! Nothing but manipulating liars! Mil, Sil, Nil, Bil, Nil, other Bil, & for the others I forgot to mention .., you'll get yours! One day Karma will be You B#%?!!! & Karma will be just that! What comes around always goes around! Whatever works in your devilish world you all live in... Hope it's working for yah! Dh is learning & has seen & has finally realized your just not worth it anymore! Yip! See.. Me? The so called crazy one has win this round! Soon?! Well what soon? We blew you's off years ago! Nothing's changed! You haven't gotten your way for years! Dh finally sees what your all about. He refused to just go up there to visit on his own! Mil you do not have the upper hand anymore! Yup! My husband took back his life, his Real family is us!! He doesn't call you ungrateful dirty bags anymore! We have moved on years ago! Echoooh! Here that! The silence from us seems to be working! No more fake fsmily! Now Dh sees the Real you's! Suck that up with your garbage truck! You's are gone gone gone! Good bye! See yah at the Mil funeral! Oh yeah..., one more thing... No fake tears here! I'll be smirking & laughing indeed ! ( under my breath) SEE YAHS ) Mil,Sil & the rest of the dirty scum bag Rats that you are.., WOULD'NT WANNA BE YAH!!!!!

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No Guilt

Posted on Tue, Oct. 14, 2014 at 09:08 am

MIL & FIL, how can you steal money from DH and his kids? DH worked damn hard and continues to do so and all you want is to take his money that he earns for his family. Ohhhhhhh right, his wife and kids aren't his family, you and his siblings are supposed to be first. Someday I hope you know what it is like to be truly homeless.

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MIL is a child herself

Posted on Tue, Oct. 14, 2014 at 07:28 am

MIL, I never told you to stay out of our lives or that you were no longer welcome in our home. What I said was "Please do not undermine the rules we have in place in our home and for our children." That was it. You huffed and stomped out of our house. I never told you to leave or don't come back. But that's what you're telling everyone. Luckily DH was there to witness the whole thing, and he's been coming to my defense and telling everyone that you are LYING. Again, MIL, you are still welcome to visit our home, but it's OUR HOME, so it's OUR RULES.

P.S. Giving candy to an unruly child just to shut them up is not good parenting - it's rewarding terrible behavior. Maybe that's why your 50-something yr-old son still huffs and stomps his feet when he doesn't get his way - just like you do, MIL.

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It's amazing I'm still married

Posted on Tue, Oct. 14, 2014 at 06:00 am

With all the in-law toxicity I've dealt with over the past 33 years of marriage it's amazing I'm still married. After my son was born, the in-laws stepped up their game and it was so unbearable I thought I was going to have to leave. I only had one child because I thought my marriage was going to collapse under the stress and strain of FIL's and SIL's interference in my marriage. MIL was intelligent enough to not interfere as there was already one divorce in the family with SIL due to FIL's interference and SIL's lack of balls to stand up to the interfering bastard. Now FIL and MIL are deceased but ESIL still makes attempts to gain access to our life, but DH wants nothing to do with her as she arranged with FIL to control all his assets and get most of his money. BIL was also a leech on the parents like ESIL who was a divorced single mother. NIL has issues and is looking for money handouts because she doesn't want to work and has 2 kids. This family is a case for Dr. Phil and I've chosen to remove myself from them. DH wants nothing to do with them so why should I put myself in the line of fire. I got tired of being in the middle of this grudge match between ESIL and DH all because she is a jealous, selfish bitch. Now, finally in the latter part of our marriage we have peace and tranquility in our lives. ESIL will likely ruin her own daughter's marriage but DH won't give her a bit of help after the way he was treated in the family because of ESIL.

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Finally my in-laws are done for me.

Posted on Mon, Oct. 13, 2014 at 11:21 pm

It has been a while since I realized that my in-laws do their best to make me feel uncomfortable and ignore me in the family gatherings. They rarely even give me a chance to say something in the family reunions. I am a forgiving person so out of my partner's request I ended up attending a gathering after almost 6 months of willingly not hanging out with them. As soon as my partner and I entered the room, one of his sisters would not even turn her head to be polite and reply to our greeting. I could not even take 10 minutes of being surrounded by those bastards unfriendly behavior and their passive -aggressive ways to be "friendly". I finally decided that not even for thanksgiving or Christmas I will ever ever expose myself to those nasty conservatives that are not just racist and entitled but also lack basic social skills. I let my sister in law have it really badly thru a private facebook message. Of course she could not even reflect on her own doing as I am the one who has "issues" according to her. I had even gone out of my way many times to please them and be nice. Never ever again! I hope that those manipulative and cunning women will finally get their life lessons one day. I can not mention publicly why I think is already happening. But am very happy with my decision of never ever allowing them to make me feel bad or snob me ever again.

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A little help would be nice MIL

Posted on Mon, Oct. 13, 2014 at 09:37 pm

MIL- she is the only grandparent in town, and expresses the least interest in helping with babysitting. she doesn't work and lives off of money her siblings send her. dh and I work full time and have daycare for dd, sometimes dd gets sick or daycare closes early, a little sitting help would be appreciated (needed only like once or twice a month when dh or 1 can't miss work). and yes, more often than not she does sit, but it's like pulling teeth to get her to agree to it. we hate asking anyone for anything but in these cases we really do need help, and you would think any other grandmother with only 1 grandchild would be all over it, but not really. every time without fail she brings laundry (in the past has even complained about our soap), and has implied she should be getting paid. too often in these instances I have come home to a toddler with a dirty diaper that hasn't napped or eaten (even with meals and bottles etc all laid out), and grandma is off in a flash. this weekend I saw you in action "watching" dd play in public only for you to zone out while dd ran out of sight and you didn't notice!(dm was there and saw it happen and freaked out). no words, wow, you didn't even acknowledge it or apologize. this makes dh and I wonder what goes on while you watch her at our place. so pretty much there went any little bit of help we ever even had. I guess I have to start missing more work. thanks for everything mil, you can now carry on with your unemployed leisurely lifestyle uninterrupted, but i'm sure you will be by for the holidays for the presents and leftovers.

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The meaning of marriage?

Posted on Mon, Oct. 13, 2014 at 05:23 pm

I don't understand why inlaws are so disrespectful and ruin marriages it's ridiculous. You would think that as adults we do want we want, think about it when we are single we even go and live overseas if we want to. I think that inlaws are made to be so prominent in relationships because their dumbass kids are still attached to umbilical cords. I think if more men and women in marriages set boundaries, stood up to their parents and respected their partners none of these inlaw problems would exist. These terrible inlaws causing havoc in marriages who would otherwise be blissful, simply know that their adult child is a pushover and an idiot. They show no respect for their adult children and treat their marriage and their child's spouse like two children playing houses. It's appalling and I believe these out of control inlaws is an epidemic. It's very sad because so many couples who truly care and love each other have got evil people making their marriage a misery. I truly believe that these terrible people lead so many couples to divorce. I believe that you should be able to sue inlaws who do cause emotional stress and lead couples to divorce. The government should introduce legislation into family law to be able to sue family members who are breaching boundaries and are out of control. This is the only way that terrible inlaws will stay in their place and back off. In Italy the mamas boy situation is causing a dilemma because adult men are tied to their mothers apron strings and those that their mothers back off a bit to allow them to marry eventually due to mama interference end up divorced. The result low fertility rates which basically affects the economy and everything else. So horrible inlaws are a major problem inducing divorce and affecting the economy.

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Give-Away MIL

Posted on Mon, Oct. 13, 2014 at 03:02 pm

I was 15 when I met their son and GOOD LORD I've almost had enough.

FIL is quite sweet, caring and quiet. Mostly TOO quiet. He lets his controlling, critical, judgemental wife to do/say anything and sits quietly listening to her stupid lectures.

I'm in my early 20s, have two children and bought a house with her son and I am still treated as a teenager. She acts like my mother (who is a wonderful woman, nothing like my MIL) and believes in 'constructive criticism': "Wow, you've put on a bit of weight, what does PRECIOUS SON think of this?" "My goodness dear, you look sick and thin, what does PRECIOUS SON think of this?"

She thinks she knows my children better than I do (they try to avoid her and go to FIL), she constantly says I need to go back to work (DH makes $30,000 more than her, we live in a lovely house, have a nice car and I'm lucky to be a SAHM), and nothing in her eyes is clean enough.

If you disagree with her lectures/criticisms/ideology she bursts into tears and hysterics and then says your the one who is "over sensitive".

So, I've decided to give her away. Comes with quiet husband, will re-re-clean your home and will tell you how to live your life. Any takers? Yeah... I thought not.

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Truth

Posted on Mon, Oct. 13, 2014 at 12:55 pm

I am enraged today. I met my ex and some of his family yesterday so they could see my son.

I now no why my ex's family hated me so; my ex sat there and made up a story about me right in front of me. I wanted to walk out, but didn't want to upset my son.

That mo-do won't be seeing me again in a setting like that ever.

Here are some truths that he has never acknowledged:

He is a heroin addict
Stole my son's savings and cashed in his savings bonds for drugs
Abused myself and my son for years
Stole from his parents
Impregnated me while he was high and I was asleep then forced me to have an abortion
Locked me out of my apt when I told him I was pregnant (after we tried for eight months to get pregnant)
Lied to his family about me to cover his own misdeeds
Screamed at me the day of my baby shower that I better hurry up because his family was paying for everything and reminded me that mine did nothing
Ruined my credit
Left my son and I homeless for heroin and a girlfriend who was only 9yrs older than his son

I am catholic and believe in forgiveness but after yesterday I hope that with all that is holy you pay for your sins you evil bastard

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