I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Chocolate milk

Posted on Sat, Apr. 23, 2016 at 06:12 pm

I live with my grandmother in law and my father in law, my husband and I fell to hard economic times and are saving our money and are on a waiting list for an apartment. We are 18, or almost 19. Well, I just bought a lot of food for everyone in the house. My father in law is unemployed and is fully capable of getting a job, but is lazy and wants to just smoke pot and be mean to everyone. I am still nice and by him a good amount of food. I bought a thing of chocolate milk for everyone to drink. I look when I wake up the next day, and of course, its gone. I asked my father in law what happened to all the chocolate milk I just bought. Well he says he doesnt know. Then he came inside basically acting like he was going to hit me and was asking if we "have a problem" because he was the one that drank all my milk I bought that came out of my own pocket money. I said I was just asking and did not care if he drank it all. I move on with my day. While I am at work, my husband is in the shower and my father law came in and claimed I was treating him like a "pos" just because I literally asked one question. Well, my husband said because he is one. Then my father in law starts to punch my husband while he is IN THE SHOWER. It missed my husbands face and once that happened my husband gave him the ultimate butt whooping. Naked. My father in law was the one that instigated the fight and had the nerve to call the police. Nothing happened in the end with the police, but this man literally got this upset OVER MILK PEOPLE. Now, my father in law knows my husband can whoop him so he is avoiding us at all times. My father in law is a terrible father and is very mentally unstable, he is not a man and is getting so angry because he thought I was being "mean to him" when he came back around disrespecting me in the first place. He is a hateful person and when my grandma in law passes he will be completely homeless. I hate my father in law, but for now, until we get our own place, I have to endure this and just avoid him at all times. It is literally a mad house with him in it.

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Favorites

Posted on Sat, Apr. 23, 2016 at 07:06 am

The in-laws play favorites, and DH and I lost the game. DH tells me this has been going on his whole life, his brother has always been favored, even tho BIL is generally awful. He curses, is drunk and drugged often, throws tantrums. DH and I always tried to be nice to him but he never treated us civilly. He is also manipulative and told DH and I more than once that he is going to live off his parents as long as he can. He recently married (to a younger woman that is not very bright) and his parents still financially support him directly and the indirectly even tho he has a good career and would have money if he weren't spending it on fancy cars and the latest phone. The in-laws have never supported DH and I in any way. And DH and I worked hard to have a decent relationship with them. However, we went from having a good relationship with DH parents to having none at all, bc MIL was so obsessed with BIL and new wife and ignored us (especially me) for almost a year. We tried to say something about it, but MIL just cried and gave excuses and then tried to turn situation around on us. The family is very into denial (part of the reason why BIL behaves so badly) so we should have known this would happen. Anyway, fast forward and we decided to withdraw from the stupidity and drama and limit contact. DH and I have been much happier generally since, but it is sad that the in-laws do not understand that their own behavior caused this situation, and DH and I will not reinforce the behavior by pretending everything is fine. What is also funny is that DH has never really wanted to interact with his parents, especially his mom (bc he was raised as the less favored, also he does not like them much as people), and I had to force him into a better relationship. Now I do not force him and he is much more comfortable. DH thinks it is ironic bc MIL does not understand that I am the one that forced DH to interact with her more, and so by ignoring us and treating us badly (especially me) she has basically hurt herself. But oh well, you cannot teach an old dog new tricks. Well, maybe dogs, but not closed-minded people. There are solutions to these issues, try them out and find the one that works best for you and your marriage.

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NOBODY LIKES YOUR DAMN DOG!!

Posted on Fri, Apr. 22, 2016 at 09:14 pm

Newsflash!! Your dog is annoying. You will not "finally" get it trained to go in a box. It is 3 years old and still pissing and shitting all over your house. It is not a goddamn cat. Dogs prefer to go outside. Trust me. Mine do. And just because you love your dog doesn't mean everyone else does. Just because you can't bear to be without your dog while at a family function, doesn't mean you can or should bring it with you. And thanks for NOT ASKING my permission and bringing the goddamn yippy asshole to my house. I have brand new carpet for Christ's sake! Do you really think your dog won't piss and shit all over it?!! It isn't like you live far away. You're on the other side of town!! Less than 10 minutes driving time!! You LOVE your "baby". I get it. But no one else likes it. So leave it at home. Like normal people do. And don't just assume your family wants your asshole dog around ruining everything. Because they don't. And since you refuse to leave him at home, you won't be invited back. And you will receive a bill for the mess in the hallway.

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Bad-Mouthing Asshole

Posted on Fri, Apr. 22, 2016 at 04:14 pm

My FIL bad-mouths my husband. What kind of man only has unkind things to say about his own son?

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You will never see my child.

Posted on Fri, Apr. 22, 2016 at 11:30 am

It's your fault my husband was addicted to pills (he isn't anymore) and has horrible self esteem. Your other two daughters are horrible. You have tried to steal money from US, guilt us into doing things... Guess what? Hubby isn't going to see you on Mother's Day either, his choice. :)

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They are ruining my life.

Posted on Fri, Apr. 22, 2016 at 09:14 am

I have a 8 months Old baby girl. For 9 months now my inlaws are living in my house (they have an apartmemt in pour basement), my BIL even lived here for free in the first fews months. He finally moved out because hehe thought WE were asking too much when WE asked to clean after him. Lol

My inlaws dont have much money, lots of debt and they are just pigs! The basement is disgusting, smells bad, there is food everywhere. My FIL is an alcoholic, i count 10 empty wine botles. They dont clean after themselves.
My MIL wants to babysit my daugther but everytime she does, she juste let her on the floor ans keep cooking her disgusting smelly food. When we cleaned her pantry and fridge we foud a lot of food with mold on it. When i get my daugther back after 2 hours, she has her diaper full and she's grumpy. I dont want my daugther to stay with them, or to even see them. It makes a lot of problems between my boyfriend and i. I dont want my daugther to grow up in that environment.

I dont know what to do anymore. I dont like my house anymore because.of them. I feel like they are ruining my life and my house. They are like teenagers, WE have to watch them and to make sure they flush their toilet. Damn thats not the life i want.
I hate my inlaws.

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You will never see my child.

Posted on Fri, Apr. 22, 2016 at 08:31 am

It's your fault my husband was addicted to pills (he isn't anymore) and has horrible self esteem. Your other two daughters are horrible. You have tried to steal money from US, guilt us into doing things... Guess what? Hubby isn't going to see you on Mother's Day either, his choice. :)

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Nutty SIL

Posted on Fri, Apr. 22, 2016 at 08:02 am

Nutty SIL and ex-con stopped by...uninvited.. around dinner time...SIL has the nose of a basset hound. My DH would have asked her to stay for dinner, but doesn't want ex-con in our home. Ex-con was in prison for multiple robberies...his idea of moving up the social ladder. We all stood out in driveway visiting...gag. SIL showed us her engagement ring. (Later my DH told me the diamond was smaller than an ant's tit...almost choked on my mash potatoes.) She is happy...meaning desperate. Ex-con is a greasy mess. Like I said before...can't wait for the wedding!!!

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I hate my in laws

Posted on Thu, Apr. 21, 2016 at 05:39 pm

They are the most annoying, aggravating nerveing people I have ever met.

They constantly nag about wanting grand children, hey it's not my damn fault you only had one.

There my ovaries, it's my womb not yours and you can't make me do something that will change my life forever bc you ppl wanna play grandparent, I hate them both so much

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To the In-Laws

Posted on Thu, Apr. 21, 2016 at 03:28 pm

I married your son, NOT you.
But, you never really had a good relationship with your son.
Your son only likes one of you.
So, do not expect a good relationship with ME.
Your family lacks a sense of warmth and genuine love.
A warmth and love when two people are happy and in-love.
It's NOT my fault your marriage is a failure.
Stop expecting my loving marriage to fill in the cracks of your broken family.

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