I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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still waiting for an apology

Posted on Wed, Oct. 12, 2016 at 08:08 am

I have been with my husband for 20 years. We got together young and when we met it was fast and we loved each other hard, immediately . Three months into our courtship , I found out I was pregnant . Yes, it wasn't ideal, but we knew we would be married by the time our baby was born . When my in laws found out, they were livid. Accusing me of being a person of low character, even telling my husband that the baby wasn't his. They did everything they could to make the situation as stressful as possible, making the pregnancy hard. Guess what in laws , your darling son was the one who made the moves first!! Fast forward seven months and our daughter was born, and she's identical to her father, your son!!! Guess I'm not a whore. 20 years later she's in college , still looks like my husband from head to toe and I have never gotten an apology for their actions , slander and shaming for simply falling in love with their son and giving them their first grandchild. We started off the wrong foot and I'm still pissed about it .

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Stop the bag getting

Posted on Wed, Oct. 12, 2016 at 03:48 am

You don't keep on baggering people to get them to do what you want them to do . If you keep and saying but why eighty five times people are going to get annoyed. And you need to put your big girl underwater on !!!!

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Stupid people

Posted on Wed, Oct. 12, 2016 at 03:29 am

Yes my family are very stupid why the hell do they think that if your mean and treat everyone like crap they will get a job faster. And my niece has nerve saying that I'm not trying hard enough.

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Son and law and reality

Posted on Tue, Oct. 11, 2016 at 07:47 pm

He doesn't see his mom for what she is. She is a evil and fake.

His sister is like his mom as well.

Son in law is too trusting He confided in his sister that he planned on leaving the family business.

Surprise (not) now his hours have been cut.

He thinks of his mom and sister as being on his side.

They are on the side of "money."

Now, things need to fall apart for son in law to see reality. He wasn't ready to hear the truth. He heard it from me and other former employees. He thinks his mom and sister are just victims of --------.

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Posted on Tue, Oct. 11, 2016 at 05:40 pm

I hate you. We hate you. Go the fuck away. You don't get to claim your title when you aren't even around, you stupid bitch. Oh and your son, the one I am fuckin married to,.... Gives me all the more reason to doubt you as a mother. You are beyond fucked up.... You are a mistake. Your mother should have swallowed you.

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5 weeks of hell

Posted on Tue, Oct. 11, 2016 at 05:16 pm

For the last 5 weeks I have hosted my in laws from abroad .. This year they have 'visited us' from abroad for over half of the year. I have had no control over this as my husband threatens to make us move back to his home country and tells me I get my way all of the time because he lives in my country after all. My in laws comment on the way I parent and tell me they could never parent the way I do. They constantly complain about my American ways and harass me under my own roof. Of course, my husband is oblivious of all of this and has no idea what I put up with while he is at work all day. It doesn't matter because his family can do no harm and he glorifies them. As if this whole situation isn't bad enough I seem to always get shoved in our only small car for road trips when they come because we have to use my husbands vacation time when they come 'of course' even though he doesn't take time off for his own wife and children. My in laws refuse to drive and demand to be chauffeured around when they come to the USA which makes it challenging since we only have one small car. They also just invite themselves over to the USA and do not even consult me before buying their tickets, last night I heard them talking about coming out next Year for a month! If I disagree my husband holds it against me and verbally harasses me until I agree. Now they all are pressuring us to go to abroad next year so now I have to delay my husband and I's plan on having another baby because of the trip abroad I have not agreed to. I cannot win... His family are ruining our marriage. If I would've known the cross cultural differences were so great I would've seriously reconsidered alot of things.

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MIL...I hate you! Hate you! Hate you!

Posted on Tue, Oct. 11, 2016 at 08:23 am

MIL...you are 1,000% evil.

Do you have any idea what you are doing to my marriage?

I hate you more and more everyday and wish that you would just disappear off the face of the earth.

I was up all night fighting with my husband AGAIN and the topic for tonight's argument was "you" and "you don't feel appreciated" so you say, what are you talking about you self-absorbed old hag. Please tell me, How can I "appreciate you" or how can anyone else "appreciate you" if can't pull your head out of your ass long enough to notice that there are a billion other people on this planet besides you. Your issues, your views, and you you you are not the only thing going on in this world!

You want everyone to cater to you, to hold your hand, and kiss your feet. Do what you want. Never ask any questions, and you want people to follow any decision you make for them. Cause you know how everyone should live their life. Well news flash I'm not your personal little servant or your puppet! And I'm not one of your "so-called friends" (that's a whole other story), that has nothing better to do so they just go along with what you say.

Why should i respect you when you don't acknowledge me and every chance you get you speak a different language in front of me and to me. I don't understand what you are saying. Let me say it again, I don't understand what you are saying! I know you speak and understand English. My husband says you aren't saying anything bad, but im pretty sure he is lying.

Every time you go running to my husband to tell him what i did. Don't forget to tell him that I put the baby in his chair and feed him 3 times today and I took him for a walk and put him in his stroller. BUT no, you want to talk about how I don't clean (I do, i just don't tell the whole world, i clean and i move on)and how i don'the make you apart/include of anything. When I ask you always say no and now that you want to make me look like a fool and I'm up all night fighting with my husband. Well now don't count on me even making an effort.

Do you see me running to him every second telling him about all the back-handed, double-crossed, and just plain idiotic stupid things that you do...NO...I don't, cause I hate you and don't want to spend and waste time talking about you.

So I don't "appreciate you", well, I'm not the only one! If a certain other person appreciated you...your other son! He would come see you and deal with your stupid ways and how you think you know what's best for everyone. The smartest guy ever, he knows better. Stays away from your stupid ass. I hate him too, if your wondering and his wife. She is just as controlling as you are.

I hate you and you hate me. The other day you were badgering me to come out and say that "I hate you", we'll I didn't. And then I get to hear you say stress is the problem in my life...well you are right...cause you are the cause of all the problems and the stress in my life...I hate you...go jump off a cliff!

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Just Go Away and Leave Us Alone.

Posted on Tue, Oct. 11, 2016 at 05:30 am

I thought we were friends MIL but you stabbed me and my parents in the back and have stolen from us. You are parasitic vermin.
DH and I have spent many decades fighting about you. I even chose to leave DH and move to another country to get away from you all. DH decided to follow me but you all tagged along like really sticky dog shit.
You ruined our relationship with DH, my pregnancy, my the time with my newborn, the fun of buying a new home and starting again. I stayed with DH through this. I finally cut the cancer that you are out of my life when I saw you try to hurt my children. The best decision of my life. DH knows that if he tries to bring you into our lives again, he will also be cut out of it. Dealing with you on his own has suddenly made him see how putrid you are inside. He refuses to see you anymore.
DH is on a work trip near you but refuses to go see you or let you know how close he is. It made me smile when he said he wasn't interested in seeing you, he wanted to enjoy his trip.
So stop writing to us. Stop sending packages filled with insults, garbage and uselessness. Stop calling our house. Stop asking to come visit or asking us to come visit. You said you hated our place and you don't like me and hate our children. The only thing left is for DH to visit you on his on but oh wait, never mind. You will get nothing from us and we want absolutely nothing from you. So go away, stay away. Leave us alone. We are so happy without you in our lives. I told you you are dead to me and the children so go. I don't play games or screw people over so believe me. You had your last chance to fix yourselves and apologize. After 20 + years of giving you chances, you used them all up. You have no friends, all your family has turned their back on you. Believe me, the kids and I aren't the problem and have never been.
Good riddance. Please donĀ“t stay in touch!

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These people don't have a life

Posted on Tue, Oct. 11, 2016 at 03:21 am

These lazy ppl came to live with us, they have their own home but some how they have to come stay with my hubby and I, it's a 1 bedroom apartment I sleep in the livingroom area and my hubby don't see how wicked his sister is this little girl has no life she talk crap about me in my own home and infront of him she's nice they do not talk to me in the house only my hubby talks to me he's not seeing what they are trying to do these are the only grown ppl I know that have no jobs no life no nothing my hubby has to wash for them not us! he does everything for them not me! It's like I see a different man in him family say that wicked girl did voodoo to us but I don't know if ppl wil go to that to see a son and brother unhappy

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Cut the cord!!!

Posted on Mon, Oct. 10, 2016 at 08:56 pm

My in laws of 19 years have never understood boundaries . Husband spends many hours with them on one weekend day, then he informs me that he's going to leave tonight with them and won't be home until midnight . His parents wanted to go see a movie with him. Fine, but in between the hours on a weekend , where Our kids and I are not invited to and the many hours they spend on the phone together through the week it's too much!! He's 42!!! Oh and they made him feel bad that he didn't have dinner with them today, if he did have dinner with them tonight , his CHILDREN and WIFE wouldn't had seen him at all today. Husband is equally at fault here and should act like a husband and father first. It was also our 19th wedding anniversary last weekend . ... no joke

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