I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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MIL revenge

Posted on Tue, Aug. 23, 2016 at 05:38 am

Rope £7.50
Duct Tape £6.80
Shovel £22.85
Never having to see the fucker again priceless

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MIL

Posted on Tue, Aug. 23, 2016 at 05:36 am

Don't underestimate me
I know more than I say
Think more than I Speak
Notice more than you realise
Just for the record MIL you will never have to say sorry because I will go out of my way to make sure you are

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Evil Mother in law

Posted on Tue, Aug. 23, 2016 at 05:32 am

The best revenge
no revenge just forget she exists

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Not worth my attention

Posted on Mon, Aug. 22, 2016 at 11:44 pm

I'm ready to cuss out the ILs if they so much as come near me! DH and I are from different cultures but he told his family that I have zero relatives when I married him. I was so angry he told his mom my story, and now his entire family treats me like a peasant and ignores me and gossips about me and we haven't even had so much as one conversation or ever hung out! No joke! They somehow think they know me and gossip and makeup reasons to hate me. They also use their religion as an excuse to be Aholes and definitely don't live up to their gospel of kindness and good will. MIL is a different story. Iv never disrespected her in any way and she acts like I'm to blame for her mannerless daughters and son who are totally dysfunctional and uninviting! She comes to my apartment, no matter how hard I tried to dodge her, and I'm about ready to give birth to my baby in a couple of days. My DH leaves his mom with me at the apartment. I was so pissed! MIL proceeds to be jealous of my curtains and remodeling I did for the baby. DH and I spent like $6000 on repairs over a course of 9 months to repair our apartment once we recovered it, and every time she comes over tells me what I need to fix! Her apartment looks like crap compared to everything I own is custom and matching and brand new! Plus my apartment smells like roses compared to her garlic curry cooking! My furniture is brand new, the baby decorations are all custom boutique, and she has the nerve to ask me how much my curtains cost after she asked DH if we bought them at JC penny! Omg! MILs daughters don't even have good taste like me! She got so jealous of my decorations and things because her daughter is having a baby too, even though she is like 40 something. And she only wants to see her daughters have nice things, not me, her sons wife. She then accuses me of not paying my rent, I'm like ask your son, he's the one who pays the bills not me I'm pregnant can't work, why don't you ask him if he pays bills.That's how she assumes we had money for new baby items, not paying rent lol. Just trying to jab at me and worry me. She never once compliments, jealous hater that she is.She then brags how her kids all went to the lake and are spending the weekend, just to try to make me upset because they left me out. She even said I don't have a relationship with her daughters. I told her I don't want a relationship with them, they don't make an effort to me and I owe them nothing. I married your son not his family. Then she brags how she cares so much about my DHs estranged daughter, and that her son never gives his own daughter money, so that's an excuse for his adult daughter to not call her dad even after he leaves voice mails with zero returned calls. MIL only cares for DHs daughter, not our new baby. She pretends she cares, but its only to guilt trip my husband into leaving me, as if I'm the one who broke them apart. I told MIL it's not my fault your family is stuck in the past, connected to DHs ex who willingly cheated on your son. He owes you no explanation. If his daughter has jealousy like DHs ex I can't control that. MIL gets flustered and says, I will care about your baby like my grand daughter. I told her no, we are fine alone, we don't want sympathy, we have our own family and we are happy and don't ask you for anything. MIL never once even bought one baby item, so the next time any of them try to turn my husband against Me by coming around, I'm going to tell them I was just leaving. My whimsical DH doesn't see their jealousy, but I won't put up with it. They are obviously cowards who only show up to poop on our party and good moments, so next time they show up I'm going to take my baby for a ride and say I was just on my way out of the house I have to go. I'm also totally blocking MILs number! She had to fckn call right when her son was on his way our the door to work. Just to sit here and critisize me. What a miserable person! I'm done with his stupid family! Zero class!

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It's -------

Posted on Mon, Aug. 22, 2016 at 11:11 pm

Hey SIL, why aren't you 'following' ALL of your nieces/nephews? Evidently equal opportunity meddling isn't your style.

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Manipulative BIL and Greedy MIL

Posted on Mon, Aug. 22, 2016 at 05:23 pm

...and stupid other half. i hope you all suffer like i have..

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Listen up

Posted on Mon, Aug. 22, 2016 at 11:05 am

If I have to hear my MIL say one more time that she's so happy we are having a boy and not a girl I will slap the sh*t out of her. She literally said to me "you have to understand (her only granddaughter) is so special to us, no one else could ever compare" F*ck you. What a shitty thing to say, especially being that my hubby and I plan to have more children. And she's said this to me on multiple occasions. To be fair, my NIL is a pretty amazing kid but it's not like she's walking on water or laying golden eggs. I'm so sick MIL's sh*tty comments and f*cking bizarre way of thinking. I have not hated anyone like I hate this woman.

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I will NOT be the scapegoat!

Posted on Sun, Aug. 21, 2016 at 01:59 pm

No DH. It is not my job to fix what your family broke and make them 'get it' just so that you can have your ideal situation of travelling up to your hometown for family events with me and the kids (or maybe just the kids, since sometimes I wonder if it would really bother you that much if I wasn't there so long as you could show off our kids)?

No DH. It is not my job to mend the relationships with a deadbeat FIL and particularly your 2 clone-like brothers who have frankly followed in your Father's footsteps when it comes to enabling their crappy wives. The initial tensions started decades ago between you, your selfish father and his second wife, and your two brothers when you decided not to just shut up and play the happy family when your father and that viper got hitched only a year after your mother died.

They didn't truly care about your grief, and have always played the victims because you just didn't go along with the program, and they sure did a number brainwashing your dense younger brothers against you. They all made a pat with each other framing you as the problem, which is why they didn't really care about the impact of their behaviours on you, me or our kids. Now that they are living with the consequences of their bad attitudes and behaviour, your brothers want to rekindle some form of relationship (in a manipulative way) so the family image can be maintained and the kids can 'play.' Uh no. It doesn't work that way. You don't get to treat the mother of your niece and nephew that way, with at least one of your wives showing absolutely no remorse, and just expect a phone call is going to make it all better.

And DH, no, I am not responsible to put myself in a compromising situation to 'fix' anything about those relationships when you have copped out so often, along with your brothers and father, and didn't even start from the grassroots to mend your relationship with them--making a joint brotherly effort to meet up over the years and at least make peace with your issues, or at least just spend time together if you cared so much.

So not having a relationship with them is on you and them, not on me, so everybody stop f'in coming to me like I'm the one obligated to fix your stupid family! Even your frick'in weird aunt put pressure on ME not you to fix it, like I owe them or something? I owe your dysfunctional family nothing, especially not after being targeted and vilified by them throughout the years, and continued to be used as the family scapegoat even by you now! Fess up to your problems people! You could never have treated a family member so heartlessly if you were all right in the head yourselves!

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Rude

Posted on Sun, Aug. 21, 2016 at 01:06 pm

DH & I secretly eloped but planed a wedding for a year later since I've always wanted to be a bride and have a big wedding, plus we wanted to be respectful to our families and let them feel involved. In laws canceled the wedding 3 months prior (they were footing half of the bill) due to an extended family member falling ill (ridiculous reason in my book). I was devastated!!! We ended up telling everyone the truth since they never offered to reschedule. My parents were happy for us. My FIL didn't seem to care but my MIL was beyond pissed. To this day neither one of them have acknowledged the fact that we got married in any way aside from introducing me to people as his wife and it's been 5 years!!! No congratulations, no well wishes, nothing at all. Aside from the one time MIL pulled me aside crying, demanding I explain to her how I could do this to her as if it was all my fault! #heartless

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IL's can eat sh*t and die

Posted on Sun, Aug. 21, 2016 at 12:53 pm

My PIL's are insane. 7 years of constant meddling, and I've had it! It keeps getting worse! My MIL called the cops on me. For nothing. CPS was called. They said we're good parents. My FIL said my v*gina is too stretched out for his son to get pleasure.( I have 2 kids from a previous marriage.) He also was sad that I even had them.
MIL is a sanctimonious c*nt that is constantly up our as.ses! Marriage advice, household advice, parenting, you name it! Oh, did I mention they live 60 seconds away?.
They commonly do drive by's( we do NOT live on a main road) and have even sat outside and just stared.
BILis the golden, and lives far away, thankfully. But oh, boy! If they come to town, drop everything!
The IL'S threw them a wedding shower the same weekend I was scheduled to give birth. No one came to the hospital!
I have cut them off forever. DH is such a pacifist. So, of course, I get to be the villain.
Well, guess what? If I'm gonna be the vilian, I'm gonna be the BEST DA.MN VILLIAN THEY EVER SAW!!!!

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