Gee,where do I start? How about FIL?:You think you know everything and what you think is best,this is far from the truth but everyone plays into it because that's the only way they'll get to use you.Big baby!You order a coke,everyone else orders a coke and I order a lemonade and there's an issue with even that.You've got nothing better to do with your time and nothing else to cling to but your passionate obsession with politics.And God forbid someone doesn't agree with any of that rhetoric!God forbid anyone disagrees with anything!Exuse me?You're not freakin' royalty!And you can shove your money(which isn't very much)up your old *ss.We'll live without it I'm sure.You talk about your stepsons and their wives and try to pit them against eachother.You've admitted repeatedly that you hate all 3 of them and all three of them are worthless and evil.But when it's convenient,you love one of them to death(It's never both of them just whichever one you're not upset with for "disobeying" you).You spread ridiculous lies and gossip about everyone.Then turn around and claim you're the most decent person in the family.And you know what the sad thing is? You probably are....Grandmother IL:You're just a racist,depressed old bag that's getting all her karma right now anyway.You and your bunch are not worth anymore space than what I just typed.SIL:Under some illusion that you're better than your hubby's(myBIL)family and everyone else.Well isn't your hubby apart of his family?He cheats on you and even has your kids around this other woman playing house.My MIL has a picture of the two of them in her posession like you didn't even exist and you look down on my marriage?!You're about as simple as they come and we all can see it.All he's gotta do is buy you something shiny and he can do what he pleases.Gonna tell me there's no way my kid's gonna be able to count to ten by 2yrs old just because yours couldn't.Then when you saw that she was counting to ten and singing her alphabet and drawing shapes,number AND letters at 2.5yrs., you blow it off by saying you weren't home all day with your kid to teach them 'cause you were busy working;A blatant lie.You were at home..locked in your room smoking meth!Wait a minute..That's right, you were working soo hard,that's how you guys ended up losing your home to foreclosure ,cause you were so busy working hard and paying bills ..right.Yeah ,you're REAL classy!He's off with another woman(a crank whore like you) paying her bills,taking care of and spending time with her kids(and sometimes taking yours along with him on these excursions).And you're at home snorting coke/meth and whatever you can get your hands on..no bills are getting paid because all the money from your part time job and his work's getting used up on another woman or spent on drugs(by both of you!). I should look up to you.Whenever I think hubby's interested in another woman,I should dye my hair and do my makeup like her..that'll fix the problem.What a joke! Hey,how does it feel to be a mindless trophy?BIL:Looks down on everyone even though he's no better and even worse.Tries to act black but hates black people.Makes racist remarks and jokes all the time.Then goes on about how he's an amatuer rapper and loves Will Smith and all-black movies.Even named his son after a character on "BOys in Da hood"SO CHEESY.Make up your mind!Flirting with me.I call you and you say little flirtatious things to me while I'm talking you think I can't hear your little sexual remarks? I just ignored them cause I know you'd love to tell your brother we were "talking" and I want you.You go on about how you always wanted a black girl but it never worked out/or your parents wouldn't have liked that.You're so jealous of him the thought of his wife wanting you probably makes you get a big rubbery one.Trying to say little underhanded things to him about how you know me and I played games with your feelings.."Oh no bro..not like that.she just urt my feelings"Trying to **** with his brain and cause him to be paranoid towards me.We never had a "thing" and you know it.All we did was talk on the phone a few times about fiddle-faddle(weather,news).Never even talked for more than 20 minutes at a time.I've only even talkedto you on the phone 5-7 times in 4yrs.We've never been alone together either.Guess what,he knows about everytime we talked or emailed because I either told him right after or he was sitting right there.He's read and witnessed ALL of our correspondence.I don't trust you or any other rotten apple in this family..never did.So go ahead and drop your fake bomb and look like a fool!You're so paranoid and crazy,I bet you thought you'd "beat me to the punch"and tell your wife that you think I want you and she's so messed up and paranoid from all the drugs she's snorted and smoked she bought it.So now you call here acting like you're avoiding me..but for what?Sexual harrassment that you told your wife I was doing? You're crazy!!You're nothing but an emotionally wrought drug addict.You and your wife.A couple of real idiots...The kids were never in school,4and 6 yrs old up til 3and 4 in the morning playing.This went on for over a year and when you relocate and the new school tells you both of your kids are behind,you blame it on the state school system you were in.This was the first time you relocated,I guess keeping your kids in school was too much of a hassle there too(probably got in the way of all your drug use)so you didn't have them in school there either.Then you move again in the same year because your stepdad wasn't paying you enough money at the job he gave you(or was it that he wasn't paying you enough to keep your habit up AND pay your bills? 2 people on smack must be costly).And when that school system tells you the kids are behind you blame it on the second school system they were in(It can't possibly be their truancy causing the problem?NOOO).3states in one year and everyone else is mentally and emotionally unstable..right.LOSERS!!!Then the same 2people try to tell us we need to come to them for advice on how to keep a marriage together and how to be spiritual and how to raise our kids.Hilarious!And last but not least..M.I.L.;You've never liked me or any other woman that has tried to take your two sons from you.You said to my hubby 5 days after we got married"I'm scared I'm gonna lose you.".He was 25 when we got together!His only real relationship that lasted more than 6months.I'm sure you had part in that too.Lose him? He's married!! You're so clingy to your sons its almost incestuous!Wanting to know every little detail about what goes on in our home.Every detail about me..even down to the sex and what I look like naked.You're sick! Calling our home at least once a day.Now4yrs. later you just try to get hubby alone as much as possible so you can try and squeeze info out of him.Coming in from out of town for 1-3weeks at a time every 2-3months.Don't you have your own hubby?.Oh, that's right!You messed that up in all your young years of running out on him to sleep with other men.You were even married to someone else.You were a bigamist for Pete's sake!I don't need to ask you a damm thing about marriage.You were sleeping with your stepfather and my hubby's dad around the same time.then pinned my BIL on him(his supposed dad).BIL looks like you and "someone" else and DH looks almost identical to their father and our daughter looks almost identical to him.How do genes that strong show up in one brother and not the other?You're a lyin' ho that's how.You've admitted twice that you're not sure who BIL's father is(but you don't recall doing that)to two different people that don't even know eachother.So that marriage didn't work and you didn't want to get a job cause you were too busy doing drugs..so you find yourself a young,intelligent sucker who just got out of the military and has potential.You marry him and for the next 15yrs emotionally abuse and emasculate him with all your wh**ing around.Now you're all old and tired and want to spend the rest of your years following your sons and their familys around..trying to mess up their marriages so you can have them to yourselves.Don't try to tell me how to be a wife or mother because you did an atrocious job of both.You were smoking crack with your own children!If you think for a second I'll let you alone with either of my kids When they get around the age your sons were when YOU and your brother introduced them to pot and various other drugs(11 and 13!!!) you've got the wrong number.Even your boys talk about how much of a dumb wh**e you are.You think they're supposed to make their wives play second fiddle to you.You think you're supposed to call the shots even with your grandkids..they're not your kids!You didn't make them..they're OUR kids!I brought your son's children into the world and that kills you!It kills you that another woman had such a big role in your son's life.It kills you that he's actually starting to grow up and say no to you,and tell you to mind your own business and stick up for me.When you saw he was cutting the apron strings you tried to infiltrate our marriage by acting like you wanted to be close with me.Trying to scrape whatever info about me that you could.You didn't care,you just "listened"to make like you cared and try to get me comfy enough to tell you our personal business.The info you did get you've twisted and spread around.I saw thru your game eventually and I've cut the ties.I'm not your"friend" anymore. Now we're a standing union and you know and HATE it! You don't even like speaking to me shortly on the phone(real rude remarks).Well guess what,that's only gonna go so far before it's stopped too.You don't have to like me but you're GONNA respect me,or get lost.My hubby is seeing how manipulative and emotionally abusive you all are and he's putting his foot down too.You guys treated him this way since he was small.He has been damaged from having ti witness your toxic behavior.Led to believe that being used and mistreated was love.Since he was a child,led to believe he was ugly and worthless(compared to his brother)and that the warped affection he got from you guys was the only love he was ever gonna get so he better bow down and accept that.Now he's putting his foot down and demanding respect and REAL love and you guys want me out because of it.Well guess what I'm not going ANYWHERE and you can all go to hell in a handbasket!!!!

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