I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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SIL’s Niece

Posted on Wed, Jan. 25, 2023 at 11:36 am

Her own family portrayed her as mentally volatile when they spoke of her off and on over the years.

Felt bad for her when she was a kid because we can’t pick our parents or the circumstances we are raised under but what is her excuse as an adult who should know better.

There was never any communication on my behalf outside of this website and only in response to the abusive trolling and illegal hacking.

I wouldn’t even feel comfortable contacting the in-laws if something happened to DH and would rather reach out to anyone else to give you an idea of the level of discomfort I feel towards them due to the invasive and abusive online harassment they may knowingly be aware of.

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What Goes Around

Posted on Wed, Jan. 25, 2023 at 05:25 am

After so many years of your BS how does it feel to have some of it tossed back into your lap? I've now officially triggered 3 of you all to hell at various times over the years and it tastes DELICIOUS on this end.

The worst part is that each time one of you is triggered your masks slip just a little bit more. I come out smelling (mostly) like a rose while you all look like hot messes.

For the record I learned from YOU all about playing dumb to the slight tossed out.

Did you honestly think your slight towards me was going to hurt my feelings in some way? I couldn't give two shits about you or what you think of me AT ALL. I just stay in my lane most of the time and when you're stupid enough to cross over the center line to attempt to irritate me I find a way to bring it back around. I know that pisses you off to no end and I derive no end of pleasure from that.

I'd go completely NC with you if my husband wasn't so wracked with guilt at the very idea of it and also you have some leverage that must be taken into account. I'm not about to take that chance and so I'll continue to play (sorta) nice.

Just know that it's all for show just like how you are with us. Both sides get optics benefits from it. If you could just stay in your lane and behave we could both ride this out quietly but you never can, can you?

Well, I suppose if you enjoy me triggering the hell out of you after you pull one of your stunts then I guess keep on keepin' on. I've got my dancing shoes on so let's tango, Bitch.

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CIL Story

Posted on Tue, Jan. 24, 2023 at 06:47 pm

The first story DH told me about his cousin’s family is that he never liked going to their house when he was a kid due to behaviors he witnessed and would get in trouble by his mother for feeling that way. After witnessing their online behaviors I understand why he felt that way and why he pretty much distanced himself from them since he was a teenager. Whenever I read a post or comment I believe was written by her or them I cringe and pretend I could I unread it.
Guess they have affect on me too.

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Posted on Mon, Jan. 23, 2023 at 03:34 am

I wont give you the satisfaction of letting you destroy my marriage and family. But what I will say is the recent lengths youve gone to show your pettiness and get your flying monkeys on your side along with the rest of the family is PATHETIC. You dont like when your family likes me and treats me nicely. YOU HATE IT and you saw that they were being nice so what did you do? You talked shit to manipulate them so they would not talk to me and treat me like shit. YOU ARE A PATHETIC FAT UGLY BITCH. YOUR UGLY SOUL SHOWS ON YOUR WRINKLED OLD UGLY FACE. we moved a 20 minutes away and youre acting like we moved out of country. you said you cant come to our house unless we personally escort you because you dont know how to use GPS even though you have used it before. youve made so many stinky excuses for not coming its pathetic. and now your manipulation of your children husband and family is at an all time high. IM ONTO YOU. YOU CANNOT MANIPULATE ME. YES YOU ARE A BITCH. YES YOU TREAT ME AND OTHERS LIKE TRASH. you got mad when i called you an asshole and even madder that in your daughters words my husband your son didnt "put me in my place" GO FUCK YOURSELVES LMAOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! did you think about all the drama, and the way you treated me like trash for years could have contributed to me finally lashing out on you? did you think at all at your behaviour? NO. because your selfish lame and narcissistic. its all good. GLAD I AINT YOU. im so different, my family is so different we are above and beyond. thank god. i will pray for your DARK EVIL SOUL. you have so many insecurities and so many negative things to say/do its PATHETIC. you call yourself positive LMAO which is laughable. you are the most negtive person ive met. listen, getting along is very simple but you dont seem to get that considering all your relationships are torn with bullshit. you talk so much shit about people because you think you have power because of your money. MONEY DONT BUY CLASS BITCH. let me emphasize the BIIIIIITTTTCCCCCCHHHHH because thats what you are. youre ignorant, stupid and a liar. I would love to call you whore but aint nobody tryin to fuck you LMAOOOOOO. so cant be whore when you arent trying to be fuckable or look nice. my advice, buy a nice face wash, exfoliate and get a good cream. PUT LOTS OF OIL ON YOUR FACE you need it. your wrinkles and exhaustion shows abundantly. anywho im going to bed with your son after i fuck him and going to sleep very nicely. how bout you? TOOTLES

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Stale Bday cake from another country for my son

Posted on Fri, Jan. 20, 2023 at 12:11 pm

Mother-in-law, I hate you with the white-hot intensity of a thousand burning sons. I made a birthday cake for my son, as I have done every year so far in his life. When he was turning 2, you insisted on one of your FAR too long visits, staying WEEKS, and my husband 'informed' me that you'd said YOU would be bringing his birthday cake. From Europe across the Atlantic ocean. I told your son, my husband, that he could march right to the phone and 'inform' you that my son would be having his birthday cake made my ME. You truly thought that baking a cake, driving it for hours to the airport, having it stowed in a suitcase in cargo and presenting it to my son when it would be DAYS old would be fine? That would be a hard nope. You arrived looking like a bulldog chewing a wasp. Oh, and my son told me yesterday that my cake was fantastic and tasted wonderful. This is only one of thousands of insulting, entitled, bossy, arrogant things you did to me. Your son still doesn't see it, but I did from the first time and I still do now. Keep trying to hide it behind that calculated, genteel politeness of yours. You don't fool me.

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Straight to Goodwill

Posted on Thu, Jan. 19, 2023 at 05:56 am

MY MIL FIil visited from about 1000miles away for their dreaded bi annual visit. This time they loaded their car with ancient used junk they had cleaned out of their 2 million dollar house. They offered it to us upon their arrival. Who does stuff like this? Gosh I despise these people.

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Posted on Thu, Jan. 19, 2023 at 05:50 am

Now that my FIL died we discovered my 2 BIL had FIL do an addendum to the Will to forgive debt. Each had quote, borrowed a large sum, years ago and never made one payment. His parents never gave us a cent. Once FIL was in his 90s and getting senile they got him To change the Will and do the addendum. Is my husband upset?
Not really. His brothers could run over his foot with their car and he wouldn’t be mad. I am trying not to be mad so these people don’t wreck my marriage with my anger. I’m mad at them but also at my husband for not being upset with them. There are many more eventsre these brothers over my 35 year marriage, and his parents too. I do think if my husband could only save one of us in a disaster, he would save one of them. Amazingly, the rest of my marriage has been pretty good. His family has been the thorn.

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To mother of my husband

Posted on Tue, Jan. 17, 2023 at 03:22 am

I don't care about you. At all.

If you think that I am going to be let my husband be there for you at this stage of life as much as you like...

Then, you have lost your "precious" mind.

Either be okay or not.

You made your bed, lie in it.

Take up thumb sucking. Whatever. Deal with it.

I don't care.

Not fondly,


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Posted on Sun, Jan. 15, 2023 at 11:34 pm

MY MIL and FIL lived to mid 90s. FIL died in December. They were arrogant til their last breaths.
It’s amazing my marriage survived and I do feel I have in law PTSD.
If only I could do a delete button.

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Almost BIL

Posted on Sat, Jan. 14, 2023 at 08:21 pm

Wow, you are so amazingly lucky you got out. The narcissistic tail spin since you broke up with her has been absolutely spectacular. I hope you find someone who treats you well and makes you happy. You didn't deserve this.

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