I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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TWO IGNORANT LOSERS

Posted on Tue, Nov. 13, 2018 at 05:33 am

Two ignorant losers. That’s what both of you are. Your made up bigotry, sexism, and racism is in ALL in your head. Maybe try not watching the news media ALL day and get off your ass and think for yourself! Both of you have some serious mental health issues and you should really seek help. Therapy would be a start. I’m so glad I don’t have to see your faces for Thanksgiving. Now if only we can find a way out of Christmas.

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Oh mil

Posted on Mon, Nov. 12, 2018 at 11:41 am

It's funny how you haven't realized that your holidays with my family are over. My dear husband doesn't even try to go because you and your family f*"$ed up so bad. Happy holidays to me and good luck to all suffering dil this season

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Just when I thought this cycle will stop

Posted on Sun, Nov. 11, 2018 at 10:25 pm

Every time we hear from my in-laws, my husband and I get into yet another cycle of arguments. I'm so sick of this! I wish I could leave but with me being 37 weeks pregnant now and a one year old, I don't want to potentially lose my children in a custody battle. I don't have a job because of my babies and he's active duty. Tonight was supposed to be a fucking good night but nope it's ruined again. I hate them so much but I don't know why he gets so upset when he can't talk to them! It's because of their toxicity duh! I thought he saw through it all but no. Luckily, I passed the anniversary of delivering my first born at 33 weeks so now I'm not so worried if I delivered now but his stupid dad was like "I heard baby could be here early again." Wtf we never said that shit and STFU 37 weeks is not that fucking early!! Leave us the hell alone!!!

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Gratitude

Posted on Sun, Nov. 11, 2018 at 01:49 pm

I recently learned that my mother’s relationship with her MIL was strained. All these years my perception was that they were friends and now I’m so diissappointed to hear the truth is so different. We were never close because my family lived so far away... but I’m starting to dislike this women that I feel like I should love.

It does make me thankful for my own MIL who has always been so supportive and kind. She’s so generous - yesterday she and my BIL got phones for us & they help us when there are repairs around our home or we need rides. It spreads to both sides of the family too...We text each other, go to church together, spend holidays together.

Maybe the physical distance kept my mom from having a better relationship with her MIL. I don’t know, it’s just a bad day today and this news made me sad. 😩

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Monster in law pair complete

Posted on Sun, Nov. 11, 2018 at 10:48 am

I could never imagine that my FIL would act like my MIL. The monster in law pair is complete now. The guy has got some badass streak in him that I never knew existed. Such malicious behavior was expected only out of his wife!! I always thought him to be fine man and a victim of his wife's dominating attitude. He seemed to be meek and a man with no voice of his own. Alas! he found one against me. I called him to ask about his well being as I thought bonding with mil is impossible so atleast I can bond with fil. I worry about his health and enquire many times about food or his medical check ups. But he wanted to discuss about me (oh so sweetly like he is my father) so I told him that I am upset as lot of time got wasted in GRE and now DH doesnt want to go abroad. I told him as our marriage is not registered may be he can consult with smone before adding me as DIL in pension forms. These were the things I said without any intention of putting DH or in laws down. But, just doing some meditation and behaving as if you are morally superior does not make you moral(he meditates abd is member of some cult). The facade was exposed and now I know that the husband wife duo does belong with each other..the FIL called my DH and twisted every word and tried to manipulate him against me. As per fil I told him outright that I am not his family member and not to add me as DIL anywhere and I am planning to go to USA and will never come back and intend to leave DH. He told my husband that if I dont like to be in their "oh so wonderful" family then I need not even come and stay with them. I cant believe fil would do that. He had audacity to lie to my husband and when I confronted him he did not accept his negative intention. I couldnt even imagine he woud try to bring any rift between DH and me. I will never trust these ppl and talk to them alone again. I never place my trust in anyone once it is broken. I am done!!! Despite his negativity and toxicity, I am still worried abt his health and want DH to get his med chkup done properly. But the seed of bitterness has been sown deep in me.

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I HATE Nov & Dec

Posted on Sun, Nov. 11, 2018 at 10:31 am

I used to love this time of the year untill I married DH. All his family cares about are the gifts and how many. We end up spending way to much money on crap no one needs. I suggested one year of cutting back and drawing names so each person only has to buy one gift. They all looked at me like I had 3 heads.

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Please Just Stay With Your Parents

Posted on Sun, Nov. 11, 2018 at 10:23 am

MIL and FIL...y'all can have him. Let him permanently move into your upstairs suite that smells like dog piss because.. well, because you're lazy and you've let your dog poop and tinkle up there for the past 5+ years.
MIL, you will be happy to know that now he's not so much of a picky eater. Turns out, he just doesn't like your cooking as much as mine. If you would season your food a bit more, it would help. Honestly, though, now that he stays drunk most of the week, I don't think he'll notice the difference.
FIL...go get your real estate license reinstated. If you want to keep conducting deals and being Mr.Big $*it, then please do it. We all know your son can't make a living without your connections and accumem. And you're not ready to be consigliere....so just keep being the Don.

Now...isn't that better? You can have and coddle your sweet alcoholic son and I don't have to endure his nastiness. I understand that his nastiness is actually self loathing, but as long as y'all keep perpetuating this unhealthy cycle, then recovery is dim. So y'all take him and enjoy. xxx ooo

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Really?!

Posted on Sun, Nov. 11, 2018 at 07:12 am

Really?! The disparity of treatment amongst the grandchildren is astounding. I think the word is, idk, blatant, undeniable, obvious...
Please just stop. Stop tossing my kids crumbs. We all know that is what you are doing, maybe not the youngest but she has recently asked a few questions that lead me to believe she will be there soon.

Stop "liking" my pictures. Friends of my kids parents and former coworkers make more personal comments than your like or heart.

Please save your breath. Maybe you could hold it - for a really long time... like until your heart stops beating. Just kidding, you have no heart.

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I HATE MY MIL

Posted on Thu, Nov. 08, 2018 at 02:38 pm

I have this hatred for this women she is annoying as hell. Funny thing is before our baby was born I didn’t mind the women. I dealt with her. But now...
No I do not want to nurse my baby in front of you no matter how many times you practically ask me to, I don’t care if your daughter pulls her tits out for you. I’m not doing it.
No I do not need to “learn how to put the baby in his own crib to sleep soon” I don’t want to.
No MY FAMILY DOES NOT WANT TO HANG OUT WITH YOURS, stop calling my parents and asking them to have dinner.
I don’t care if you eat dinner at 4pm, I’m not going out of my way to accommodate you when I just had a baby.
No I said I do not want you to buy a recliner to put in the living room, because again I do not want to nurse in front of you or anyone for that matter!!
NO I DO NOT WANT YOU TO HOLD MY THREE WEEK OLD BABY IN THE AIR AND TRY TO MOVE HIM UP AND DOWN AND HIS CRYING MEANS HE DOESN’T WANT YOU TO EITHER.
You are a nurse, not god, no I do not want to let my baby cry himself to sleep sorry.
“Oh he doesn’t like me (I’m reference to the baby)” GEE I WONDER WHY WHEN YOU THROW HIM ON HIS STOMACH OVER YOUR ARM AND “burp” him (sorry burping shouldn’t sound like it hurts).
No just because his shirt says “Mommy loves me” doesn’t mean that his daddy doesn’t love him, thank you for constantly pointing that out.
No he is hungry, that’s why he’s crying and inconsolable, so for the 5th time please give me my baby I need to feed him. He’s not “singing”.
NO YOU CANNOT “HANG OUT” WITH A TWO WEEK OLD, he wants to eat and sleep, he doesn’t even know how to “play yet”.
AND YES WASH YOUR HANDS AFTER YOU JUST HAD THEM IN THE DOGS MOUTH.
And PLEASE brush your teeth or stop getting 5 inches from my face. YUKKKKKK.

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Stalker

Posted on Thu, Nov. 08, 2018 at 12:31 pm

We cut contact with my in-laws a couple years ago due to their generally obnoxious, often toxic, and always narcissistic, behavior. We do not pick up phone calls, we do not respond to emails, and we do not respond to snail mail. We moved without telling them. Unfortunately, my spouse’s profession makes our general location searchable, so they hopped on Google, then mailed something to my spouse’s place of work.

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