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by moved2maryland
Sun Nov 22, 2020 10:40 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: New Reason to Hate MIL
Replies: 5
Views: 1317

Re: New Reason to Hate MIL

It's not like you need a new reason, it's just that she keeps giving you MORE reasons. It would probably be a waste of air to call her on it but when someone is using slurs against your ethnicity, IMO she is saying them to you. In future, assume that BIL is lying to you and that FIL and MIL will be ...
by moved2maryland
Fri Apr 10, 2020 7:29 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: I am loving this enforced no contact
Replies: 3
Views: 2707

Re: I am loving this enforced no contact

Quote "As far as I’m aware, both FIL and BIL aren’t able to legally drive ATM, so that means she’s doing alllll the running around, which includes keeping the fridge stocked with beer for drunk BIL."

And it couldn't happen to a "nicer" person.

Enjoy the solitude!
by moved2maryland
Tue Apr 02, 2019 7:09 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Do I send a mother's day card and bouquet for my BH
Replies: 10
Views: 4694

Re: Do I send a mother's day card and bouquet for my BH

You only owe flowers to YOUR mother, NOT his. His mother, his problem.

No matter what happens, you'll be blamed no matter what. Drop the rope. Send yourself flowers and candy and the devil take the rest.
by moved2maryland
Thu Jan 24, 2019 8:06 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Please Help Me!
Replies: 8
Views: 4097

Re: Please Help Me!

I do have a suggestion, but I don't think you'll like it much. You need to run. Run like the citizens fleeing both Godzilla and Mothra. Did you count the number of points you listed in your post? Twenty-One!!! You should have stopped at 4 or 5. There are so many red flags flying here it eclipses the...
by moved2maryland
Tue Jan 01, 2019 7:10 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Warning to PILs
Replies: 5
Views: 2777

Re: Warning to PILs

You have to just love the Karma Goddess, she really knows how to enact payback. There is no law saying that you have to let them back in your lives. PIL's showed you the kind of people they are. People like them never change their behavior, they just hide it until you're sucked in and then let loose...
by moved2maryland
Wed Nov 21, 2018 9:17 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Need Helpful Advice! Please and Thank you!
Replies: 11
Views: 4798

Re: Need Helpful Advice! Please and Thank you!

No, you aren't. These people have consistently shown you who THEY are: mean, self-centered low-life scum. Stop trying. Drop the rope on your side. They need to understand that if they treat the mother of the grand baby badly, they do not get a reward by seeing the grand baby. Your husband sounds lik...
by moved2maryland
Sun Nov 04, 2018 6:33 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: She’s Making The Rounds
Replies: 11
Views: 4647

Re: She’s Making The Rounds

How is she finding out about your vacation plans? Is your DH or someone else telling her?

Perhaps it's long time MIL was put on an information starvation diet.

Also, you could set up a "fake" vacation just to mess with her head.
by moved2maryland
Tue Jul 25, 2017 3:22 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: MIL stealing my money!!!
Replies: 6
Views: 3237

Re: MIL stealing my money!!!

You need to file charges against your MIL if you can truly prove that she took the money and not your H. Family member or not. People like your MIL count on people not making them accountable for what they do. I hope that you get everything transferred over quickly and, if you get hit with fees, sue...
by moved2maryland
Thu Jun 29, 2017 6:05 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: They want to make up, I don’t
Replies: 18
Views: 7886

Re: They want to make up, I don’t

Your DuH is using you as a meat shield to protect himself from the toxic because he isn't man enough to do it for himself. It's time to nip that one in the bud. You have the right to decide who YOU want in your life. He has the right to decide who HE wants in his life. You aren't blocking him from s...
by moved2maryland
Thu Apr 13, 2017 5:13 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Have you ever told your mother about your MIL issues?
Replies: 14
Views: 5643

Re: Have you ever told your mother about your MIL issues?

Your husband is a real jackazz and major douchecanoe. He has no right to tell you who you can speak to and what you can say to anyone. The only reason is to spare HIM embarrassment, heaven forbid, make his parents look less than perfect to the outside world. Frankly, I'd go on Facebook and let it al...
by moved2maryland
Wed Feb 15, 2017 6:18 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Two more stupid deliveries
Replies: 9
Views: 4423

Re: Two more stupid deliveries

Blackhole it all, gifts and balloons. Pop each balloon and imagine it's your MIL.

If you are NC, MIL gets no information on your children and you.

I hope your DH is on your side on this because, if he isn't, he needs a really big virtual clue-by-four to bring him in line.
by moved2maryland
Thu Jan 26, 2017 10:12 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: CO FIL?
Replies: 23
Views: 8124

Re: CO FIL?

Tell your family to get stuffed. Why on earth are they telling you to continuing to allow someone into your children's lives who doesn't care about them, breaks promises to them and tells them, in effect, that their cousin is the best grandchild ever?! Just stop. Your kids are watching you and seein...
by moved2maryland
Fri Dec 30, 2016 7:57 am
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Dh in hospital
Replies: 27
Views: 11237

Re: Dh in hospital

Sorry to hear about your DH's hospital visit and I hope he comes home by New Year's. Hate to think in these terms but have you and DH discussed what, if anything, his family is told about illnesses/hospitalizations or, heaven forbid, his passing? It's just that IL's have been known to butt in and tr...
by moved2maryland
Thu Dec 22, 2016 12:31 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: I met a narc by accident
Replies: 6
Views: 3199

Re: I met a narc by accident

She's waiting to use it before Christmas to guilt him into something for the holidays.

Give it time. As long as your DH knows that she did see the kids at the market and chose not to talk to them, you're set.
by moved2maryland
Thu Dec 22, 2016 6:37 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Package Update #2: The Narc Strikes Back
Replies: 2
Views: 1985

Re: Package Update #2: The Narc Strikes Back

I know you've been leaving it to your DH to deal with His Mommy, but you may have to do something yourself. Either you can: cancel the Christmas call or tell MIL that because she is treating one of your children badly, she needs to grow up and be fair to both (pig's chance in heck on this one, I kno...