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by Hiddenjem
Mon Mar 30, 2020 5:40 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Hello and I need your help
Replies: 5
Views: 1781

Re: Hello and I need your help

In a nutshell, your heart is going to break if you leave or stay with him. He isn't going to change. His family is not going to change. The difference in leaving him is that time will heal your heart. Life will improve. If you stay, the heartbreak will be your everyday normal mixed with the flickers...
by Hiddenjem
Thu Mar 26, 2020 2:41 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Hello and I need your help
Replies: 5
Views: 1781

Re: Hello and I need your help

First, you can't change his family or their "song and dance" with Dh. They seem to be a package deal. Do not move back and live with his family. It would be a disaster. Are there children involved? If yes, hide money and also start spending what you and he would of sent them. Then, return the items ...
by Hiddenjem
Mon Mar 23, 2020 9:12 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: What has MIL ridiculed you for?
Replies: 10
Views: 2922

Re: What has MIL ridiculed you for?

First, regarding tampons, I tried tampons one time. I was 18 and bought super sized for a heavy period to match the flow as directed. I used them correctly. I only used them for a short amount of time. I believe it was only two days for a few hours. It was less than the box said to wear them. I didn...
by Hiddenjem
Thu Feb 06, 2020 12:26 am
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Situation
Replies: 15
Views: 7381

Re: Situation

Thanks Phred. She went to a German language meet up in a city half an hour from here. (We live in a small town in the country.) The other people were couples, and elderly widows. She tried a ball room dancing lessons and a event. Everyone but her showed up with a date. ( It turns out those are meant...
by Hiddenjem
Thu Jan 23, 2020 5:21 pm
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Situation
Replies: 15
Views: 7381

Re: Situation

I haven't been around for a while and missed answering the question Mommarama. I am sorry. It was kind of you to ask it. Thank you everyone for the support, kind words and encouragement for her. I appreciate it. She is still single and is no contact "with him." The good..... She works full time in t...
by Hiddenjem
Fri Nov 15, 2019 8:18 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Hi
Replies: 5
Views: 1872

Re: Hi

Thanks Ruby.
by Hiddenjem
Fri Nov 15, 2019 10:48 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Hi
Replies: 5
Views: 1872

Re: Hi

Thanks Melody.
by Hiddenjem
Thu Nov 14, 2019 5:00 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Hi
Replies: 5
Views: 1872

Hi

I shared stories here in the past.
by Hiddenjem
Sun Sep 08, 2019 10:42 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: How long has it been?
Replies: 15
Views: 3273

Re: How long has it been?

We still live in the same country neighborhood as many of his relatives. Dh still helps his mom with everything from yard maintance and house repairs. His twin brother has realized his wife is who is and the problem wasn't with everyone else. They are barely living as roommates. Ironically, they bou...
by Hiddenjem
Thu Apr 11, 2019 1:11 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Deep Thought
Replies: 14
Views: 2775

Re: Deep Thought

I am happy for you. I can't imagine it is a big weight lifted off your shoulders!
by Hiddenjem
Tue Apr 09, 2019 4:38 pm
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Anyone else? (Weight loss)
Replies: 99
Views: 34580

Re: Anyone else? (Weight loss)

Congratulations Mara!

I have ten pounds to go. Ten pounds down.

Update-

Now Five pounds to go

Something "happened" that stressed me out and I lost five pounds fast

Goal is to weigh goal weight by end of this month. Why can't toning up come with weight loss!
by Hiddenjem
Sat Apr 06, 2019 1:35 am
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Anyone else? (Weight loss)
Replies: 99
Views: 34580

Re: Anyone else? (Weight loss)

Thank you Watchingmyback!

I am sorry that I didn't see your message until now.
by Hiddenjem
Thu Apr 04, 2019 8:06 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: To the Poster of "Naughty Bride Episode One"
Replies: 3
Views: 1312

Re: To the Poster of "Naughty Bride Episode One"

I see this from a different angle. I noticed some people seem to ask for advice here and on the home board but they really are just venting. They may not be ready to listen to any advice. Also, it can be tricky to follow the advice of others. The advice can be skipping steps such the confusing detai...
by Hiddenjem
Thu Mar 28, 2019 6:48 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: My Daughter’s MIL
Replies: 11
Views: 2949

Re: My Daughter’s MIL

I am not that fond of my daughter's future inlaws but we do spend every Xmas eve with them and their extended family. It is the one day of the year that we see them. My daughter, myself, my husband and our two sons are all included. I would be upset if we stopped being included after our daughter an...
by Hiddenjem
Tue Mar 26, 2019 9:12 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: What to do with family photos of the evil ILs?
Replies: 11
Views: 2278

Re: What to do with family photos of the evil ILs?

It is horrible having them so close!