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by electoquill86
Fri Jan 17, 2020 12:24 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Finally free
Replies: 5
Views: 3785

Re: Finally free

Thankyou I am indeed in a much better place now. I am getting counselling to help me process my emotions as I wasnt dealing with it too well. I'm venting here a little (ok a lot ) because I haven't told my family about even half of what I went through with them. Mostly because I dont want my family ...
by electoquill86
Thu Jan 16, 2020 2:07 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Finally free
Replies: 5
Views: 3785

Finally free

Hi all I haven't been on this forum in years. My not so dh was monitoring my computer usage. Well I am in the process of divorcing not so dh. So much as happend in the past three years I dont really know where to begin. 1) two years after we married dh comes out as transgender. I support him wholehe...
by electoquill86
Fri May 26, 2017 7:53 pm
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Rant about dh
Replies: 1
Views: 1550

Rant about dh

Sorry guys i need to fet this off my chest..Dh and i normally get along great but tonight i am really close to caving in his skull with a very heavy object. This has been building up all week. Dh had a day off on monday, i was working but wednesday we had a day off together (a very rare occurrence.)...
by electoquill86
Sat May 20, 2017 3:49 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Esil should practice what she preaches
Replies: 5
Views: 2460

Esil should practice what she preaches

Hi all I have been having very very limited contact with esil. I mean practically no contact. We are both happy to pretend the other doesnt exist. Every now and then she will post something that annoys me on social media so ive made it so i cannot see her posts unless she specifically tags me in the...
by electoquill86
Fri Mar 17, 2017 10:25 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Knowing That We Aren't Really Drinkers...
Replies: 7
Views: 3102

Re: Knowing That We Aren't Really Drinkers...

Reading this made the toast my gran used to make on special occasions. "Heres to you and heres to me May we never disagree If by chance we disagree F*** you then heres to me" Apparently it was a traditional irish toast, but i think she made it up lol. My gran was awesome lol. I dont know why your po...
by electoquill86
Thu Feb 16, 2017 1:33 pm
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Rumor mill is working overtime!!!
Replies: 9
Views: 5238

Re: Rumor mill is working overtime!!!

The black sheep club lol i love it!

We should get t-shirts made lol.
by electoquill86
Wed Feb 15, 2017 6:33 pm
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Rumor mill is working overtime!!!
Replies: 9
Views: 5238

Re: Rumor mill is working overtime!!!

hi all How is everyone doing? got a bit of an update with the rumour mill situation. My family is all well aware that I have graduated from university (twice) and I thought the matter was settled. I haven't heard from my dad in months. In fact the only reason I even know he is alive is that my siste...
by electoquill86
Thu Dec 08, 2016 9:29 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Mil trying to exclude me from Christmas
Replies: 11
Views: 4123

Re: Mil trying to exclude me from Christmas

Oh she will leave by then probably before 4pm too as her main aim is to spend as little time with her grandchildren as possible while making sure she gets the largest dinner ( he has more peas than me - I am not kidding those words actually came out of a 53 year old womans mouth!)and the most left o...
by electoquill86
Thu Dec 08, 2016 10:50 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Mil trying to exclude me from Christmas
Replies: 11
Views: 4123

Mil trying to exclude me from Christmas

Hi everyone. I found out today from nice sil that mil is trying to exclude me from Christmas this year. This year is our turn to spend with dh food. Nice sil is hosting this year, which is great because when mil hosts the children are expected to behave like mini adults and are not allowed to play w...
by electoquill86
Mon Nov 07, 2016 11:30 am
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Blood is thicker than water?
Replies: 7
Views: 4121

Re: Blood is thicker than water?

Whoops sorry this was supposed to be on the in laws forum. That's what I get for posting on my phone lol
by electoquill86
Mon Nov 07, 2016 10:20 am
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Blood is thicker than water?
Replies: 7
Views: 4121

Blood is thicker than water?

Hi all How is everybody doing? Has anyone's in laws actually used the phrase "blood is thicker than water" to justify trying to turn your spouse against you? Did you know that it isn't the full saying? And that it's supposed to mean completely the opposite? The full saying is "the blood of the coven...
by electoquill86
Tue Jul 05, 2016 12:54 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Future mother in law acting weird
Replies: 31
Views: 12607

Re: Future mother in law acting weird

This really struck a chord with me as the exact same situation happened to me. My mom would flirt with my then fiance, point out all my supposed faults to him and point out how she is superior to me in all ways. Once she even stole a dress that dh gave me and turned up to a party in it and asked dh ...
by electoquill86
Tue Apr 26, 2016 2:40 pm
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Rumor mill is working overtime!!!
Replies: 9
Views: 5238

Rumor mill is working overtime!!!

Hey all things are a bit brighter for me since the last time i posted. I start a new job on friday so i can finally tell the she beast to stick it! Although things have been very quiet with the inlaws (no drama for once) its my foo that has been giving me trouble lately. Well more specifically my ow...
by electoquill86
Mon Apr 11, 2016 1:55 pm
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Work Issues HELP!
Replies: 3
Views: 2832

Re: Work Issues HELP!

i forgot to add i was put on the "improvement plan in august and it was supposed to be for 8 weeks. I was released from the improvement plan at the end of January :shock: because ff kept calling up and saying i was missing parts out of my cleaning routine so they would extend the timeframe. In the e...
by electoquill86
Mon Apr 11, 2016 12:35 pm
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Work Issues HELP!
Replies: 3
Views: 2832

Work Issues HELP!

Hi all I was wondering if anyone here could give me some advice. My Gran died at the beginning of last month and i now no longer get carers allowance, leaving me to struggle on a wage of £72 per week. I have been desperately looking for full time work and have had a couple of interviews in the past ...