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by CantstandmyILs
Sun Aug 15, 2021 12:08 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: MIL wants to see DC
Replies: 3
Views: 378

MIL wants to see DC

DH and I welcome our 3rd boy early this month. ILs knew we were expecting a new baby. DH told me earlier MIL asked to see our newest baby. Since SIL has 3 kids and BIL wont have no children our 3rd boy is the last grandbaby. I didn't bother asking what he told her and I don't hear him saying anythin...
by CantstandmyILs
Fri May 28, 2021 8:48 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: DH Told Me
Replies: 0
Views: 829

DH Told Me

today that he talked to MIL. He said his aunt came up to viist. She asked to see him. Its been ages since we don't see them. I just stay quiet. It's crazy cause I don't see them reaching out. IDK how long she hear visiting. I mean he don't tell me he wants to see her. He told his family that we're e...
by CantstandmyILs
Fri Apr 30, 2021 11:39 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Overstaying Mother in Law
Replies: 3
Views: 996

Re: Overstaying Mother in Law

Oh no well I hope her other son tested neg and fast esp being close to given birth. I am only 6 months pregnant so I still have a while to start prepping LO crib. I would havw a discussion with DH like listen it's been 2 weeks baby is almost here. MIL got to go so we can finish setting up. IDK about...
by CantstandmyILs
Fri Apr 30, 2021 11:33 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: DH Told MIL I was expecting
Replies: 0
Views: 512

DH Told MIL I was expecting

I know it might sound childish but I am just 6 months pregnant with my 3rd. With ODS I had a very stress pregnancy due to PILs and esp SIL. So with LO I didn't want any of my ILs to know I was expecting. My pregnancy went so smooth. Now I am pregnant again with our 3rd boy and again I told DH not to...
by CantstandmyILs
Fri Apr 30, 2021 11:18 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: My FIL finally died
Replies: 16
Views: 3195

Re: My FIL finally died

Sorry for your loss.
by CantstandmyILs
Mon Jan 04, 2021 10:42 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: How Is The Holidays
Replies: 3
Views: 965

Re: How Is The Holidays

Thank you. Yes like 15 mins away. DH passed by PILs house yesterday to pick up his gift. FIL was working he only saw MIL. She gave him pj shirts sweater and jeans and gave him flan. MIL told DH that her job perminently closed due to covid and she don't know what to do. SIL and BIL is helping them. I...
by CantstandmyILs
Sun Dec 27, 2020 9:12 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: How Is The Holidays
Replies: 3
Views: 965

How Is The Holidays

Well for me it's been good. Still NC with any for a long time. I saw BIL after Thanksgiven where he works since he works in a supermarket, DH said hi to him with our DC. I just stood on the side(Eye rolling) I didn't even reconsized him since he let his hair grow and got a man bun. It's like that MF...
by CantstandmyILs
Tue Jun 09, 2020 10:41 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Text Msg
Replies: 2
Views: 1675

Re: Text Msg

I just don't get the text msg. Now my DH just told me BIL text him that it's PILs wedding anniversary. I mean I don't get why he needs to inform DH for. My sister have done that with my dad's bday and I tell her Umm ok. Like IDK why tell me for. There's goes DH calling PILs to wish them Happy annive...
by CantstandmyILs
Fri Jun 05, 2020 9:51 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Text Msg
Replies: 2
Views: 1675

Text Msg

Last Sat I saw a text msg on my DH phone from BIL. It said "What you doing? Dad is having a bbq DH never reply back. That day that afternoon we took or kids hiking. I just don't understand why would BIL text DH. They barely even talk. IDK what that text was for. For DH to go. I mean it would be stup...
by CantstandmyILs
Tue Jan 21, 2020 9:25 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Happy New Year
Replies: 4
Views: 3805

Re: Happy New Year

I agree. We don't usually go to that town. My kids doctor is there but I usually do appts by Friday 1pm. We leave as soon as we done. We don't hang around town. That day was my jury duty and I was annoyed that I spend the whole day there so I told my husband to pick me up. I didn't feel like waiting...
by CantstandmyILs
Mon Jan 20, 2020 12:49 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Happy New Year
Replies: 4
Views: 3805

Re: Happy New Year

He usually speak to PILs once a month. When he does he usually does when he's at work. I'm sure after all these yrs they still blame me for it all. My relationship is great but then once the ILs are mention things goes wrong and I really don't want to feel like I did so many yrs ago. I spoke with OD...
by CantstandmyILs
Mon Jan 20, 2020 12:55 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Cut MIL out of my life.
Replies: 8
Views: 5767

Re: Cut MIL out of my life.

That's awesome. I nor my DC haven't step foot in PILs house for 9 yrs and vice versa. I don't plan to either. DH don't visit them but he does talk to them on the phone once a month or so he tells me. I do mind him going just cause I feel like he never took my side. It made me feel like he didn't hav...
by CantstandmyILs
Mon Jan 20, 2020 12:50 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Finally free
Replies: 5
Views: 4162

Re: Finally free

OMFG!! I am so so sorry this is happening to you. I am so happy you are finally detaching yourself from So DH and his family.
by CantstandmyILs
Mon Jan 20, 2020 12:39 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Happy New Year
Replies: 4
Views: 3805

Happy New Year

I hope yous enjoy your holidays and hopefully it was drama free from the Ils. I haven't been on this form for a while. As for me it sure was. it's been 9 yrs 3 months NC with ILs. I only saw PILs the day of my wedding 2 yrs ago. My DH aunt past away pril 2019 he went to the funeral where all ILs wer...
by CantstandmyILs
Tue Jul 23, 2019 3:10 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: CO Father
Replies: 11
Views: 5145

Re: CO Father

Yeah my sister didnt took the kids that weekend. I calles her after the weekend. She said he was bummed the kids didnt went. Blah blah. I told her my decision is final. He wasnt bummed. He doesnt care for my kids.