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by CantstandmyILs
Mon Jun 13, 2022 6:58 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: SIL Dont Grt The Respond
Replies: 3
Views: 1039

Re: SIL Dont Grt The Respond

Last night BIL send a text of SIL baby announcement. this is her 4th. I'm like wth they giving you the 411 for? Is this going to change anything? I'm like did you call SIL to congratulate her and discussed MIL bday to see if he tells me the invite. He's like no I havent talk to her. So Im assuming h...
by CantstandmyILs
Sun Jun 12, 2022 3:53 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: SIL Dont Grt The Respond
Replies: 3
Views: 1039

Re: SIL Dont Grt The Respond

So I saw a text msg yesterday She send him a text invite. I guess she calling and texting to see if he is going to their mom surprise party and not for money. He hasnt replied at all. I guess she wants the whole family there and that exclude me and our kids since the invite didnt say you and family....
by CantstandmyILs
Fri Jun 10, 2022 1:11 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: SIL Dont Grt The Respond
Replies: 3
Views: 1039

SIL Dont Grt The Respond

So last night SIL called DH twice and he didnt respond so she text him call me we need to talk about moms bday. His moms 60th bday is in a few weeks. I dont get what is there to talk about. I'm like why she needs to talk to you about your moms bday. Hes liek IDK I didnt respond. So before hand I let...
by CantstandmyILs
Thu May 05, 2022 11:42 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: CO SIL Text
Replies: 0
Views: 792

CO SIL Text

A week ago MIL went to FL CO SIL called him but since I was there he didn't pick up the phone so she send a text that MIL landed. Then the Sunday that just passed I saw a text from her sending him a pic of her kids games IDK what kind of games maybe baseball and then said just in case you decide to ...
by CantstandmyILs
Thu Feb 17, 2022 2:59 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: MIL wants to see DC
Replies: 8
Views: 3395

Re: MIL wants to see DC

Oh No PILs or any ILs haven't visit since the CO(2010) I barely even go to their town. My kids doctor is in their town I just go with DF Fridays when they open and leave that's when we ran into FIL 3 times cause he was outside. Not like we were looking for them. We don't hang around there and where ...
by CantstandmyILs
Mon Feb 07, 2022 11:41 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Do You Feel Guilty
Replies: 12
Views: 2439

Re: Do You Feel Guilty

Yes I agree. IDK I sometimes feel bad but then I don't cause then I sit with myself and said well everytime I felt some type of way about his family and I brought it to his attention he never done a thing. So we are in this situation cause of him. He wants to PIL to be involved and I am terrfied of ...
by CantstandmyILs
Mon Jan 24, 2022 2:46 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: MIL wants to see DC
Replies: 8
Views: 3395

Re: MIL wants to see DC

We still haven't seen PILs. Since I caught covid it hasn't happened.

I honestly would prefer them far away from me since it's been peaceful. We don't live close by. We live like 10 MI from each other you could say.
by CantstandmyILs
Sun Jan 09, 2022 12:51 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Do You Feel Guilty
Replies: 12
Views: 2439

Re: Do You Feel Guilty

Thanks all. I don't feel guilty for having NC with none of ILs but I do feel bad for DH to have to choose. He chose me and our kids to stay away. Well with PILs he still talks to from time to time and he wants us 4 to sit and for PILs to have a relationship with DC but I told him I am not setting th...
by CantstandmyILs
Sun Jan 09, 2022 12:42 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Saw FIL
Replies: 6
Views: 1511

Re: Saw FIL

Oh I know beleive me. When it comes to them I always put up a wall and I approach with cautious. Like DH last know told me MIL called him to inform him SIL tested positivve and now she is staying with SIL kids. IDK what she wanted DH to do with that info. I am afraid that if we do this meeting she w...
by CantstandmyILs
Tue Jan 04, 2022 2:04 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Saw FIL
Replies: 6
Views: 1511

Re: Saw FIL

I don'r get oddended by the chunkiness. I say that to my nephew too while grabbing his big thighs. I am leaving it all to DH when to set up the coffee get together. I am so scared of going throgh the same things for the reason we CO PIls. I am feeling like what if a dw months later then problems aga...
by CantstandmyILs
Mon Jan 03, 2022 12:05 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Saw FIL
Replies: 6
Views: 1511

Re: Saw FIL

lol my BP was fine. I just went to see the doctor to check up on my inxision. I had surgery last Monday. DH went today to exchange gifts with PILs and he told them to see if us 4 can meet up and talk and they said sure. FIL told him let him know in advance cause his schedule isn't stable. I told DH ...
by CantstandmyILs
Sun Jan 02, 2022 1:31 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Saw FIL
Replies: 6
Views: 1511

Saw FIL

So yesterday I had an appt for the doctor and on our way DH then mention oh look we outside FIL job we should say hi. He always does that to get my reaction I messing around dsaid OK sure. He then said relly and me laughing said yeah OK. Thinking nothing. He then makes a turn and said good cause FIL...
by CantstandmyILs
Wed Dec 15, 2021 9:26 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Do You Feel Guilty
Replies: 12
Views: 2439

Re: Do You Feel Guilty

Do you aloow the kids to go over and see ils as well?
by CantstandmyILs
Tue Dec 14, 2021 5:01 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Do You Feel Guilty
Replies: 12
Views: 2439

Do You Feel Guilty

Do you feel bad that you told your DH/SO to cut off ILs. Or feel like DH will turn around and blamed it on you. Sometimes I feel DH will resent me at some point or one day turn around and say I want a relationship wheather you like it or not. I don't think he would say the kids but him yes. One day ...
by CantstandmyILs
Mon Dec 13, 2021 8:37 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Mil had a heart attack
Replies: 9
Views: 2063

Re: Mil had a heart attack

Oh good lord

I hope all works out and hopefully a relative can stay with her.