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by PutMILinherplace
Thu Aug 20, 2020 3:12 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: MIL wants to clean our house
Replies: 8
Views: 284

Re: MIL wants to clean our house

$20 says she already knew he was having issues. It would have been on purpose. My MIL STUNK and I do mean STUNK because of her smoking. She was such a heavy smoker when she opened her front door, I am not kidding you could see smoke rolling out. But she was determined to prove she didnt stink nor di...
by PutMILinherplace
Mon Aug 17, 2020 10:15 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: They want DH to be their slave again
Replies: 4
Views: 502

Re: They want DH to be their slave again

After years of being programmed to think he needs to "save" them, and take responsibility for them because they are his parents and thus his duty, he is vulnerable. . You need to share this quote with him. He needs to memorize it and tell himself this on a daily basis. You can not set yourself on f...
by PutMILinherplace
Tue Aug 11, 2020 4:09 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Daughter inlaw
Replies: 3
Views: 258

Re: Daughter inlaw

Ok, first off. It was unbelievably rude to ask if her parents could come. Even more so that no offer was made to split the costs. Seriously, who raised this person? Even Dear Abby would have spit out her coffee while reading that. That being said..the fault for this mess really lies with your husban...
by PutMILinherplace
Mon Aug 03, 2020 1:20 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: FIL's fake birthday
Replies: 6
Views: 275

Re: FIL's fake birthday

Yeah, my duh says I am the queen of comebacks. I tell him it's just the side effect of being raised in a family of grade A smartazzes. My mil didn't stand a chance. :D
by PutMILinherplace
Sat Aug 01, 2020 7:25 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: FIL's fake birthday
Replies: 6
Views: 275

Re: FIL's fake birthday

"Ugh, it looks like you've gained weight." Ugh, it looks like you have gotten older...and uglier (say with a snicker) Some years ago, MIL thought she would start something with me. She was mad about me not closing a gate. I told her to take it up with her son. She said, "well it wouldnt hurt your f...
by PutMILinherplace
Thu Jul 16, 2020 8:37 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: How to get rid of in laws?
Replies: 3
Views: 319

Re: How to get rid of in laws?

Hello Dreamgirl. I can hear the desperation in your post. You need to understand something before you read on. Those of us on here will give you the advice you need to hear based on our experience. We wish we didnt have it. It may be very hard for you hear. If you want some sugar fluff good feeling ...
by PutMILinherplace
Wed Jul 08, 2020 9:00 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Ding Dong...More News
Replies: 10
Views: 620

Re: Ding Dong...More News

While it is a sad end I would imagine it actually comes as a great relief to you.
by PutMILinherplace
Mon Jul 06, 2020 9:58 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Interesting Headline
Replies: 11
Views: 875

Re: Interesting Headline

I thought I remembered reading that he has a son . Whatever happened to Eddie Munster? Do you know? Did he escape? Or perhaps I have you mixed up with someone else.

It's can be so satisfying to be vindicated
by PutMILinherplace
Fri Jun 19, 2020 9:27 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: FIL has the memory of a fruit fly
Replies: 4
Views: 563

Re: FIL has the memory of a fruit fly

It has nothing to do with his memory. In his mind you come when he gives the honor of his calling. I defiantly would NEVER visit no matter what. If you do it once you will regret it. Let hubby know he is on his own. It was made clear to you at the incident you talked about that you were not invited ...
by PutMILinherplace
Fri Jun 19, 2020 9:21 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: MIL asking about pregancy
Replies: 4
Views: 534

Re: MIL asking about pregancy

You can not change someone's behavior, only your reaction to it. From now on, when she does ask, you can say "IF ( empathize this word _ and when it happens I will inform you when I choose to. " As for your monthly cycle: That is not only an inappropriate question its frankly NONE of your business....
by PutMILinherplace
Mon May 18, 2020 7:38 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Relief in Being Ignored
Replies: 8
Views: 1068

Re: Relief in Being Ignored

Mine have tried ignoring and neglecting me as a "punishment" (which I thoroughly enjoyed and appreciated!) and they've tried being overly nice (which I really couldn't care less about). They think that being nice to me has the same effect that my being nice to THEM has (it irritates the hell out of...
by PutMILinherplace
Sat May 16, 2020 8:53 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Relief in Being Ignored
Replies: 8
Views: 1068

Re: Relief in Being Ignored

He probably thinks he is punishing you. No doubt he thought you were at home crying and depressed because his glorious self didn't acknowledge your birthday :lol: :lol: :lol:
by PutMILinherplace
Tue May 12, 2020 1:37 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: I broke no contact to go scorched earth on MIL
Replies: 3
Views: 830

Re: I broke no contact to go scorched earth on MIL

I am sorry. You are in the same position I was. I can never trust my husband and I didnt. I never left the kids alone with him to babysit or even to go out for ice cream. I could never take time to myself. If I needed to go shopping , I took them to my parent's house. I knew he was untrustworthy. Pl...
by PutMILinherplace
Mon May 11, 2020 4:09 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Advice on how to handle in-laws
Replies: 4
Views: 892

Re: Advice on how to handle in-laws

What kind of advice are you looking for? A letter that will magically make them understand? It doesnt exist hon. You are handling them pretty much like you should. I would block them completely especially on FB. It only will backfire on you. Who cares that they think you are hurting your child by no...
by PutMILinherplace
Sun May 10, 2020 9:24 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: unbelievable in-laws
Replies: 1
Views: 583

Re: unbelievable in-laws

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