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by IrishLass
Fri Jun 29, 2018 2:41 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: They plan the dumbest things
Replies: 9
Views: 4096

Re: They plan the dumbest things

I bet he expects you to pay for it all too. Smash, what is wrong with these self centered. All about Mmmmeeeeeeere types?!
by IrishLass
Fri Jun 29, 2018 2:29 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Death in the family: need support to stay disengaged
Replies: 19
Views: 7072

Re: Death in the family: need support to stay disengaged

Simply, you are not going because you and your kids do not need to be punching bags. If your DH really wanted to “come out of the toxic fog” he would walk on out of his own accord. He can subject himself all he wants to his “family” you and your kids are off limits. Just get the Mom/teacher face on ...
by IrishLass
Thu Jun 28, 2018 9:52 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Long overdue update....I escaped them!!!
Replies: 26
Views: 11510

Re: Long overdue update....I escaped them!!!

Angry you really need to bring your lawyer into what your soon to be ex is doing. A cease and desist letter needs to be sent to her and than anything she sends you at all is kept in a file, write down any interaction or altercation in a notebook, but keep your emotions out of the phrase. Example “ex...
by IrishLass
Wed Jun 27, 2018 10:16 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Poster of “I hate my FDIL”.
Replies: 10
Views: 4189

Re: Poster of “I hate my FDIL”.

I gotta wonder who would “love” a post like this crazy lady’s. I mean it is very obvious the writer has “victim syndrome”. Poor, poor DIL. Really is great that DIL’s hubby sticks up for her and his kids though. Imagine growing up in that household. We went and saw incredibles 2 last night, but right...
by IrishLass
Tue Jun 26, 2018 10:09 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Poster of “I hate my FDIL”.
Replies: 10
Views: 4189

Poster of “I hate my FDIL”.

Lady, you are nuts! You are now your DS extended family. You have no right unless you are invited to be a part of their family. You need a hobby and intensive counseling. You raised your children, now it is their turn to raise their’s. Also if they tell you they need bonding time with their new born...
by IrishLass
Thu May 31, 2018 9:41 am
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Six years ago
Replies: 2
Views: 3916

Six years ago

A post on my timeline of the “book of faces” popped up. Six years ago my Dad passed away due to cancer. It was quick, four months from diagnosis, he went through radiation but did not make it to chemo. Six years ago all of us , Mom, Sister and her family me and my family were saying goodbye. My MIL ...
by IrishLass
Thu May 24, 2018 10:47 am
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: I have the best boss ever!
Replies: 5
Views: 4845

Re: I have the best boss ever!

Your boss does rock! Hindsight as they say is 20/20... You and your coworkers learned a great lesson and now know you can count on your boss to have your back.
by IrishLass
Wed May 16, 2018 6:32 pm
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: I out lasted the jerk manager!
Replies: 5
Views: 3713

Re: I out lasted the jerk manager!

Yay karma!! He got his “just desserts “. I hope work will be so much easier for you now.
by IrishLass
Wed May 16, 2018 9:43 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: The Realization
Replies: 17
Views: 6878

Re: The Realization

That my FIL and his “clan” were never, ever going to accept our DS (he has aspergers) or myself. DH actually came to that conclusion first. I tried a couple times after it, but DH and I ultimately went NC. FIL’s clan sends DH a birthday card every year and every year it is unopened and thrown in the...
by IrishLass
Fri May 11, 2018 11:02 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Yes this definitely means no Mothers Day for you!
Replies: 8
Views: 3774

Re: Yes this definitely means no Mothers Day for you!

Narcs have got to narc. Without you and your DH, DD to have as a captive audience, the love bombing will begin. Your inlaws need to control you and your narrative. You and DH are smart for seeing it (no matter how long it took) and for getting out now. Have a great mother’s day with your little fami...
by IrishLass
Wed May 09, 2018 2:35 pm
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Challange, what good things happened to you on a bad day?
Replies: 10
Views: 6928

Re: Challange, what good things happened to you on a bad day

A lot has gone wrong here lately. I just keep telling myself (and to be honest singing) the “I will survive “ song. Or any Stevie Wonder song. Things only look bleak until you take your blinders off, then you have light.
by IrishLass
Wed May 09, 2018 9:44 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Truly Frustrated
Replies: 5
Views: 2678

Re: Truly Frustrated

Hi there! It has been a long time since I posted or commented on anything, but you seem to really need some advice/experiences that some of us here have gone through. If you can the first thing I would do is get some counseling for yourself. It works great once you find the “right fit” with a good c...
by IrishLass
Wed Sep 27, 2017 9:12 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Golden SIL caught spying
Replies: 6
Views: 3159

Re: Golden SIL caught spying

Jesus, Mary and Saint Joesph! Why in the hhhheeelll is your hubby making himself blind to the oblivious facts? Yes we have climate changes, yes the world is round and YES your gcsil is an absolute abomination to the human species!! Facts hold up in court, your gcsil is an absolute disgrace and a thi...
by IrishLass
Fri Sep 22, 2017 9:50 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: No Contact Holidays
Replies: 6
Views: 3003

Re: No Contact Holidays

Just do a small Thanksgiving at your own house for you, your DD and Hubby. If you have friends/coworkers that can't make it to their homes invite them over and tell them to bring a side dish. Do not go to BIL's if they want to know why tell them that life is too short to be caught up in MILs own dra...
by IrishLass
Mon Aug 28, 2017 9:53 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: SIL RANT!
Replies: 11
Views: 4579

Re: SIL RANT!

Wow, I feel for you big time. No advice, just hope you can keep venting here. Your sanity will thank you later.