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by PeanutGallery
Sun Jan 06, 2019 11:12 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: What a hassle!
Replies: 5
Views: 2367

Re: What a hassle!

So, DH did report the firearm to the police department so that's taken care of and he doesn't have to worry about it anymore. It's just the fact that they thought they can try to use it as leverage to try to get DH to give MIL the money/check. Also, MIL didn't pay one cent for that car. I'm not even...
by PeanutGallery
Sun Jan 06, 2019 2:43 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Fakeness Is Thick
Replies: 6
Views: 2811

Re: Fakeness Is Thick

I can't really sugarcoat this but there are no "clever" relatives out there in their particular corner of Redneckia. They believe whatever has been fed to them or that they have been manipulated to believe and the problem is that they want to believe it. People stuck in the mentality that the rest ...
by PeanutGallery
Sun Jan 06, 2019 2:40 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Fakeness Is Thick
Replies: 6
Views: 2811

Re: Fakeness Is Thick

I couldn't agree more. Whenever MIL isn't putting on a mask to fool others and it's just her and DH alone her voice goes from peppy/submissive/Im so innocent and can do no wrong to hostile and deep. Wolf in sheeps clothing really.
by PeanutGallery
Sat Jan 05, 2019 11:41 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: What a hassle!
Replies: 5
Views: 2367

Re: What a hassle!

Also not to mention that MIL mentioned me a few times to DH blaming me for everything and how I've "changed him so much" like as if it's a bad thing and then SIL mentions the same crap in her email. These people are nuts!! It's just like flying monkeys you know. Narcissism and triangulation. If you ...
by PeanutGallery
Sat Jan 05, 2019 11:36 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: What a hassle!
Replies: 5
Views: 2367

What a hassle!

So it's been maybe 3-4 years since me and dh went no contact with his narcissistic family. Then one day out of the blue I get a call from FIL telling me that hes trying to get ahold of dh because MIL crashed DH's car and needs the insurance claim check. FIL and MIL are divorced but it's just like he...
by PeanutGallery
Fri Sep 16, 2016 12:00 am
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: DH's lies and past
Replies: 5
Views: 2999

DH's lies and past

I'm struggling so much right now because I think I'm still struggling to realize that DH is a chronic liar. But, that's the thing, I feel so confused sometimes and I question my own judgment and that's a clear sign that something isn't right, right? If any of you have read my previous post on the in...
by PeanutGallery
Fri Sep 09, 2016 8:42 pm
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: When a New Golden joins the family
Replies: 17
Views: 8089

Re: When a New Golden joins the family

In yesterday's mail, the long awaited Thank You arrived (shower was June 5th). I figure it is because their baby is due in a week. The note, which didn't say "Dear Aunt XX" or even my name at all, said "Bumbed you didn't make the shower. It was great. Thanks for the gifts." Unsigned. Only took 90 d...
by PeanutGallery
Fri Sep 09, 2016 8:14 pm
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: When a New Golden joins the family
Replies: 17
Views: 8089

Re: When a New Golden joins the family

I know that I don't know who you are, I believe I even mentioned something like that in my post. No need to get defensive about this. I probably used the wrong choice of words or something along the lines of that. I wasn't 'twisting' your post either. I was relating your post to something that I wen...
by PeanutGallery
Fri Sep 02, 2016 6:26 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: What if your ILs were out of your life forever?
Replies: 14
Views: 5070

Re: What if your ILs were out of your life forever?

"jigglypuff wrote: It's so nice when you no longer have idiots to deal with or answer to." What would it be like for you if you no longer had to deal with your ILs at all? If you've cut them off already or they have died, what is that like for you? If you are considering cutting them off, are you w...
by PeanutGallery
Mon Aug 29, 2016 7:50 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: BIL's girlfriend and DH's passiveness
Replies: 17
Views: 6434

Re: BIL's girlfriend and DH's passiveness

It's clear your DH is the family scapegoat. I am just now realizing this...I mean I could always sense the dynamics in his family but I never knew what to call it or how to define it. I just did a lot of researching on the internet about scapegoats and a ton of info came up about Narcissistic paren...
by PeanutGallery
Mon Aug 29, 2016 7:20 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: BIL's girlfriend and DH's passiveness
Replies: 17
Views: 6434

Re: BIL's girlfriend and DH's passiveness

Jigglypuff: I completely agree. But, before I had even said a word to anyone, there was a whole shit show going on behind our backs. Everything they had to say about me they said amongst each other LONG before I even knew who they really were. What's even worse is that I talked to FIL once before ab...
by PeanutGallery
Mon Aug 29, 2016 2:18 am
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: When a New Golden joins the family
Replies: 17
Views: 8089

Re: When a New Golden joins the family

That said, just from this one post, I'm not convinced she's a narcissist. Being the victim of Ns makes us start to look for it in others, even if that's not what's happening. I've been accused of being "stuck up" and "distant" when in reality I'm just a poorly socialized introvert, which means I do...
by PeanutGallery
Sat Aug 27, 2016 5:22 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: BIL's girlfriend and DH's passiveness
Replies: 17
Views: 6434

Re: BIL's girlfriend and DH's passiveness

Your ILs are just angry that you are helping to give your DH a backbone to stand up against their BS. Honestly, I would just completely cut them out of your lives. NO contact whatsoever. They are just going to continue to gaslight the situation and keep turning it back on you and your DH. You both ...
by PeanutGallery
Sat Aug 27, 2016 5:16 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: FLYING Monkeys attacking all the time
Replies: 18
Views: 7145

Re: FLYING Monkeys attacking all the time

How does your husband feel about them suddenly having more "interest" in him? Is he falling for their little game of trying to hoover him back in with the hopes of luring him away from you?? I can relate to your statement here. After BIL's narc/sociopath behavior was exposed by me in a way, SIL and...
by PeanutGallery
Wed Aug 24, 2016 9:05 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: The "Rude" post on the homepage
Replies: 12
Views: 4621

Re: The "Rude" post on the homepage

I agree. My husband and I didn't elope but his family lives all the way across the country from us so they couldn't come, they don't have the money for a plane or to stay at a hotel and their trashy lives over there are too entangled to put a pause on. We had a really small wedding, with my family a...