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by hateThoseNarcs
Wed Jan 03, 2018 1:03 pm
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Not good enough
Replies: 3
Views: 2503

Not good enough

Hello everyone, I haven t been here since February 2017,however I come visit the site and read your stories sometimes. As some of you can remember I m not an English speaker,so sorry for my English.I haven t been practicing and it s getting worse☺ I ve done lots of healing,I m much stronger than I u...
by hateThoseNarcs
Thu Jan 05, 2017 10:46 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: AIL Finally Replied To Me
Replies: 14
Views: 4396

Re: AIL Finally Replied To Me

WatchingMyBack, Wow, you are so right.I don t have a proof but I m sure my MIL twisted my words, text messages ,e mails and used them as a proof that I was the crazy one.I know what I wrote to her and I heard different stuff from some flying monkeys.MIL painted me as an unstable monster.You can neve...
by hateThoseNarcs
Thu Jan 05, 2017 10:20 am
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Dh in hospital
Replies: 27
Views: 10282

Re: Dh in hospital

Great your husband feels better.Look after yourselves.
by hateThoseNarcs
Thu Jan 05, 2017 10:19 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Sad and frustrated:/
Replies: 14
Views: 5102

Re: Sad and frustrated:/

I went through the same stuff as you are experiencing now. Bealive me ,the same thoughts ,similar situation ,my husband in denial and so selfish and me sacrificing myself for his family and letting them abuse me and waiting for my husband to defend me.Finally I confronted them and went no contact. T...
by hateThoseNarcs
Wed Jan 04, 2017 7:37 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Flying monkeys again
Replies: 4
Views: 3265

Re: Flying monkeys again

update My Christmas wasnt as bad as I thought :) In the morning on Christmas Eve DH started to feel lots of guilt.He promised he wouldnt take calls from his family etc but I could see he really wanted to call them.DH started to be nasty to me and I really didnt like that.I told him to call his frien...
by hateThoseNarcs
Wed Jan 04, 2017 6:46 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: AIL Finally Replied To Me
Replies: 14
Views: 4396

Re: AIL Finally Replied To Me

Yacky,

I had a feeling she would show her true colors and she did.I didnt expect anything good from her btw.Good for you,you know who you are dealing with.
by hateThoseNarcs
Fri Dec 23, 2016 5:33 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Flying monkeys again
Replies: 4
Views: 3265

Flying monkeys again

My husbands sisters arrived for Christmas and started to send him text messages (they have been quiet for few months) like -you should bring over your kids so they can play together with our kids , there would be presents etc...We werent invited to the Christmas Eve and they are so bold to invite my...
by hateThoseNarcs
Thu Dec 22, 2016 11:12 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: I met a narc by accident
Replies: 6
Views: 2968

Re: I met a narc by accident

Thanks girls :-) I exactly told him that, thanks for your advice. So granny rang him again and he picked up the phone ,he didnt talk much, just one minute but still he took her call. :( So she rang my husband just to tell him that his really old friend was getting married in January 2017 and that he...
by hateThoseNarcs
Wed Dec 21, 2016 7:58 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: I met a narc by accident
Replies: 6
Views: 2968

I met a narc by accident

So I ve met my husband s granny by accident today. I decided to go to shop for food on the market (a really good place to buy meat before Christmas) Granny lives very close to the market and was doing shopping there at the same time as I was. So I asked for meat when I saw her coming .She was starin...
by hateThoseNarcs
Tue Dec 20, 2016 10:03 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: here we go again
Replies: 8
Views: 3382

Re: here we go again

So my DH didnt go to see his grandmother. But guess who started to call him ? Yes ,granny:-) She called him twice ,first time last Friday and he didnt take the call, the second time on Sunday and he didnt answer as well.WE were having dinner when she called .My DH even asked if he could take the cal...
by hateThoseNarcs
Tue Dec 20, 2016 9:52 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: here we go again
Replies: 8
Views: 3382

Re: here we go again

Thanks girls for your advice .I will use it. Hiddenjem,you are so right my husband is not ready to accept their games.In laws are happy to see my upset and hurt you are right here as well. Yacky, jigglypuff I will try to have your attitude :lol: WatchingMyBack, he s reading a book about toxic people...
by hateThoseNarcs
Tue Dec 20, 2016 9:31 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Why Do We Bother To Try??
Replies: 15
Views: 5568

Re: Why Do We Bother To Try??

Yacky, So, she hasnt replied to you yet. I m not surpriesed.She s got her own agenda and prefers to stick around her toxic family and it seems she is toxic herself as well. I ve been through that with some of my family members (I m no contact with my sister and low contact with my mom).Some of them ...
by hateThoseNarcs
Tue Dec 20, 2016 9:19 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Package Update and advice requested!
Replies: 19
Views: 6533

Re: Package Update and advice requested!

Those narcs are crazy.Why would you buy something for one child and nothing for another ?It s just plain cruel.They know what they are doing. My mom did the same as your MIL.It was my son s birthday and she wanted to give my daugther a small cute bag and had nothing for my son (she explained she did...
by hateThoseNarcs
Wed Dec 14, 2016 5:31 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: here we go again
Replies: 8
Views: 3382

here we go again

My husband s granny was so mean to him on our anniversary day 2 months ago and yesterday my husband asked me if I would mind him visiting her before Christmas (she hasnt been in touch with him since our anniversary, all his family punish him with silent treatment now, even the ones who wouldn t do t...
by hateThoseNarcs
Wed Dec 14, 2016 5:13 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: "Poor Me" (Mil)
Replies: 12
Views: 4138

Re: "Poor Me" (Mil)

I think you are dealing with the situation very well.I mean, I would be very hurt if my husband wanted to do something for his mother on my birthday.I assume he should know better not to even ask if he could help her on my birthday. How do you manage to stay calm and just look at him quietly? I need...