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by jigglypuff
Thu Dec 01, 2011 8:11 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Why it isn't a good to mean to your Dil!
Replies: 7
Views: 969

Re: Why it isn't a good to mean to your Dil!

:lol:

Glad you and your daughter had a nice time. Btw, Harrison Ford always looked like a grump to me.
by jigglypuff
Thu Dec 01, 2011 8:08 pm
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Bullying
Replies: 19
Views: 4438

Re: Bullying

This breaks my heart. I'm so sorry you're daughter had to experience that. But you don't have to wish badly on those mean girls because they're already miserable. And will grow up to be even more miserable. They drain the happiness and life out of anyone who's doing better than they are. I hope your...
by jigglypuff
Thu Dec 01, 2011 6:40 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Help I married into a Cinderella story with an unhappy start
Replies: 9
Views: 1044

Re: Help I married into a Cinderella story with an unhappy s

FIL is always telling DH how he wishes he had a girl instead of a boy, it is hurtful because I am right next to DH and thinking he has a daughter (me) but he doesn't bother to try to get to know me. That is disgusting thing for a parent to tell their child. Ruthie is so right, he's an ass. A huge a...
by jigglypuff
Thu Dec 01, 2011 6:18 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Dealing with Extended IL Family
Replies: 3
Views: 621

Re: Dealing with Extended IL Family

This is interesting because I now am finding myself in the same situation. There has been no reaching out from any of DH's family members since the blow between us, BIL and his wife. I know MIl is not pleased with what's happening but from her reaction to what DH told her, she seems to have sided mo...
by jigglypuff
Wed Nov 30, 2011 12:17 pm
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Meyer Briggs Personality Test
Replies: 21
Views: 4670

Re: Meyer Briggs Personality Test

I got ISFJ. That test was kind of hard because there were some that I wish had a maybe or sometimes option. Me too. I wanted to choose so many 'sometimes' options and there wasn't any lol. I go ISFP Introverted 22 | Sensing 1 | Feeling 38 | Perceiving 22 You are: slightly expressed introvert slight...
by jigglypuff
Wed Nov 30, 2011 11:51 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Christmas plans
Replies: 9
Views: 963

Re: Christmas plans

Haha, ElaineBenes! I'm a huge Seinfeld fan. Lovin' the name :lol: I don't blame you for wanting to stay home with your kids. Travel with children can be a hassle. Stay home, relax and enjoy. Your mother and MIL need to back down because you and your husband now have your own family and can start you...
by jigglypuff
Wed Nov 30, 2011 11:38 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: even during the cut off she meddled
Replies: 4
Views: 827

Re: even during the cut off she meddled

I think you and your DH should tell them how it's gonna be! And you're right, at this point you don't have anything to lose. They've hated you for no reason whatsoever from the very beginning. If they were unwilling to extend an olive branch to you back then, they sure as heck aren't going to care t...
by jigglypuff
Wed Nov 30, 2011 11:26 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Why won't FIL and DH stand up to evil MIL?
Replies: 7
Views: 1018

Re: Why won't FIL and DH stand up to evil MIL?

They don't for many reasons but like OBH said, they find it easier not to rock the boat. Good for you for standing up but don't expect FIL to do the same anytime soon.That's the dynamic of their marriage and only FIL can decide if he wishes to change that and he most likely won't. Doesn't mean he ca...
by jigglypuff
Tue Nov 29, 2011 9:25 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Thanksgiving Contest - whose IL is the worst
Replies: 21
Views: 2457

Re: Thanksgiving Contest - whose IL is the worst

I have the same issues Nolongertolerating and Butter have. My IL's feel I have to go along with everything they decide to do because of family. God forbid DH and I should do our own thing. And since BIL's wife never tells them no and brown noses, I should do the exact same because God forbid anyone ...
by jigglypuff
Tue Nov 29, 2011 8:49 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Need Quick advice...
Replies: 21
Views: 2275

Re: Need Quick advice...

Best thing you can do is not add them to any social site profiles you may have. I learned this the hard way. Just be sure that when you talk and write out your letter you are being non-defensive. Stay calm and collective when confronting MIL. Her outbursts will only help make her look foolish. You d...
by jigglypuff
Tue Nov 29, 2011 8:20 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Tensions and defensive DH
Replies: 3
Views: 569

Re: Tensions and defensive DH

I think the most important thing you can do in your relationship right now, is talk to your DH about what you're feeling. He's not seeing things because you are probably the first person to come along and tell him the truth. I had the same problem with DH in the beginning. He refused to see the trut...
by jigglypuff
Tue Nov 29, 2011 8:06 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: PLEASE I NEED SOMEONES HELP!!!
Replies: 6
Views: 702

Re: PLEASE I NEED SOMEONES HELP!!!

bcarr519 said it all perfectly. I agree 100%
by jigglypuff
Tue Nov 29, 2011 8:02 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Exposing SIL. Need advice please
Replies: 20
Views: 2484

Re: Exposing SIL. Need advice please

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by jigglypuff
Mon Nov 28, 2011 1:48 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Exposing SIL. Need advice please
Replies: 20
Views: 2484

Re: Exposing SIL. Need advice please

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by jigglypuff
Mon Nov 28, 2011 11:11 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Need Quick advice...
Replies: 21
Views: 2275

Re: Need Quick advice...

OrangeBlossomHoney wrote:Don't write them a letter, they'll use it in ways you can't imagine against you.
This is true. I didn't think of how they could possibly manipulate your written words.