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by jigglypuff
Tue Mar 05, 2019 7:28 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: To RSVP or to NOT RSVP *Updatex2
Replies: 19
Views: 3019

Re: To RSVP or to NOT RSVP *Updatex2

Yes, I probably should have consulted with my husband BEFORE sending back the RSVP--but in my eyes, him and I have had this convo 100 times, and we are just going in circles. I did what I thought was best, and have no regrets. I agree with you and totally support what you did. Is it seen as "rude"?...
by jigglypuff
Mon Mar 04, 2019 12:05 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Yea! Reformed DUH!
Replies: 6
Views: 1284

Re: Yea! Reformed DUH!

Whoohoo! It's a step in the right direction. Hopefully it remains that way from here on out.
by jigglypuff
Mon Mar 04, 2019 12:02 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: To RSVP or to NOT RSVP *Updatex2
Replies: 19
Views: 3019

Re: To RSVP or to NOT RSVP *Update

I agree with the others, send your regrets and don't go. Happy belated to your LO :) I'd prefer to just cut them off entirely..but I do try to take my husbands feelings on it into consideration. Stop taking your husband's feelings into consideration when he doesn't do the same for you. What you give...
by jigglypuff
Sun Feb 17, 2019 8:02 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: To the Poster of "Mommy Wife"
Replies: 2
Views: 985

Re: To the Poster of "Mommy Wife"

I would leave the blow job cream out on the table. MIL would have a good night's sleep after seeing that :twisted: next time if she’s over, I would put a shiza ton of Old Folks Home brochures and “A Place For Mom” application on my nightstand. Get her outa there, or have her think you’re looking to ...
by jigglypuff
Sun Feb 17, 2019 7:57 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: She's getting older but less even mature
Replies: 13
Views: 2122

Re: She's getting older but less even mature

She's played games like sending me a month late birthday card with my name completely butchered (even though she's able to spell her niece with the same name without an issue). Is there anyway to read into this other than, "Happy Valentine's Day to EVERYONE except Melody? I know SHE'S the reason I ...
by jigglypuff
Wed Feb 06, 2019 1:37 am
Forum: Non-In-Laws Talk
Topic: Overwhelmed with Life
Replies: 13
Views: 4765

Re: Overwhelmed with Life

I'm so sorry Mara. At this point, is it possible for you to get government assistance for yourself and the kids? Hopefully they can help you. Sometimes there are programs to help place recipients in training programs and job placement. I've known several people who have ended up with great jobs beca...
by jigglypuff
Tue Jan 22, 2019 12:56 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Just this close
Replies: 8
Views: 1967

Re: Just this close

This is terrible. I'm sorry you're dealing with all of this WMB. BPD runs on my mom's side of the family so I am all too familiar with it. My mom's dad also suffered with Schizophrenia. Thankfully no one else has inherited the disease so far but my mom and her 2 sisters are all full blown Borderline...
by jigglypuff
Sat Jan 19, 2019 3:07 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Questions About C/O
Replies: 11
Views: 1884

Re: Questions About C/O

You let your DH deal with his own family and don't go to the hospital even if one of the ILs is dying. Don't attend their funerals either. I'm full CO with my ILs and I told DH that I will never go to the hospital for the ILs or attend their funerals. I also don't want them there if DH and I get sic...
by jigglypuff
Sat Jan 19, 2019 2:54 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: MIL and FIL's favorite granddaughter
Replies: 9
Views: 1873

Re: MIL and FIL's favorite granddaughter

Wow, this was like an episode of one of those trashy morning tv shows. Really entertaining stuff. I should have had some popcorn while reading this :D Looks like the ILs have created their own karma and it's come back to bite them, hard! How satisfying. These people were born miserable and will die ...
by jigglypuff
Sat Jan 19, 2019 2:20 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: NieceIL wants to meet up
Replies: 11
Views: 2374

Re: NieceIL wants to meet up

Has she communicated with you other than by texting? Text messages, as well as email, can be copied and sent to her FOO. Have you talked to her on the phone? Maybe call her without notice (to reduce the chance that she might be with another IL) and do some neutral chit chat. Listen to the tone of h...
by jigglypuff
Wed Jan 16, 2019 12:09 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: NieceIL wants to meet up
Replies: 11
Views: 2374

Re: NieceIL wants to meet up

I agree with you Jem. Strangely enough, she hasn't texted since. DH texted her on the holidays and she replied but that was it. As far as I know, there weren't any further conversations after this one. I hate having to keep her out of our lives but I can't risk contact through possible flying monkey...
by jigglypuff
Wed Jan 16, 2019 12:04 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Family Reunion Nagging
Replies: 8
Views: 1652

Re: Family Reunion Nagging

FIL is still at us to come out to his state for the annual family reunion, and my husband is still being non committal and saying that "maybe" we're going. They're going to be staying at FIL's sister's house, and he expressed hope that her cat would die before the event. Who does that? I think your...
by jigglypuff
Tue Jan 15, 2019 11:55 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: In Shock. Not sure how to handle
Replies: 11
Views: 1931

Re: In Shock. Not sure how to handle

Is it just me, or would receiving such huge news in a text be a slap in the face to anyone? It's a huge slap in the face. One big narcissistic tendency is to marry quickly, abandon and divorce and jump into a new relationship as soon as possible. Sounds like this is what interests your dad more tha...
by jigglypuff
Wed Dec 26, 2018 7:51 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Tis The Season
Replies: 12
Views: 2048

Re: Tis The Season

Sadly, I understand this all too well. Your DH has done the same as mine, avoiding the issue over and over again. My DH used to tell me he was going to talk to the ILs and never did. His avoidance would only cause my anger, sadness and resentment to build up. I told PILs we can all meet up and discu...
by jigglypuff
Tue Dec 25, 2018 8:37 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Christmas without the ILs
Replies: 8
Views: 2025

Re: Christmas without the ILs

But as for the rear view mirror, stepmonster is like the liquid metal terminator. This almost made me spit out my water, lmao! :lol: I hope the family Eddie Munster is now with helps him with some stability. Maybe they're a more positive influence on him and he's better adjusted now. We can only ho...