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by rubycrownedkinglet
Fri Mar 30, 2012 3:30 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: What "freed" you?
Replies: 12
Views: 1135

Re: What "freed" you?

The main thing was that MIL and FIL passed away within a year of each other. My husband and I both had some issues with them, but they were ok compared to some of the crazies I've read about on this site! The biggest issue with them is that they were uneducated and very gullible. They seemed to care...
by rubycrownedkinglet
Thu Mar 29, 2012 3:27 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Are your IL's ever/NEVER sorry? Assholes.
Replies: 33
Views: 3184

Re: Are your IL's ever/NEVER sorry? Assholes.

Sometimes, like in my case, you are dealing with people who don't feel remorse or empathy. My MIL was good at playing like she was sorry. She said the words, but you could tell something wasn't quite right. She and I actually got along pretty well during her life because we understood each other. I ...
by rubycrownedkinglet
Thu Mar 29, 2012 9:49 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: All advice greatly appreciated! LONG!
Replies: 6
Views: 614

Re: All advice greatly appreciated! LONG!

Then dont say a word about their actions. Back off and say nothing to your dh. Eventually he will be the only one in the firing line, or your kids will, and that will open his eyes. As long as you are putting him on the defensive he will continue to defend them. Once you step away they will only ha...
by rubycrownedkinglet
Tue Mar 27, 2012 10:14 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: What is your idea of revenge against the in-laws?
Replies: 34
Views: 14901

Re: What is your idea of revenge against the in-laws?

Now that MIL and FIL are gone, it is only the ESIL and EBIL that are left. The best revenge DH had was when he reminded them of the taunt they used on him when they were kids. Poor Little Adopted Boy-Poor Little Adopted Boy. However, whenever they needed something like cash, Poor Little Adopted Boy ...
by rubycrownedkinglet
Sat Mar 24, 2012 4:06 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: What to do when they won't give up?
Replies: 8
Views: 698

Re: What to do when they won't give up?

I'm so sorry for your situation. I know how you feel. I am new to No Contact. Shockingly, when DH had the final argument on the phone with ESIL and he told her to never call him again, she didn't. Or she hasn't yet. It has been 3 1/2 months. She has written twice. We both read the first letter becau...
by rubycrownedkinglet
Sat Mar 24, 2012 11:38 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Getting to Know You
Replies: 350
Views: 106123

Re: Getting to Know You

I've been lurking for a while and finally wanted to make it Official: I Hate My Inlaws!! Age: 50 Years w DH: 32 total, 28 married Children: None-more on that in the posts Most hated IL's: ESIL and EBIL-both wastes of airspace. Worst gift ever received from IL's: Photos of ESIL's weird Eddie Munster ...