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by Melody
Fri Nov 22, 2019 11:09 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Hoping DH doesn't fall for the lovebombing - AGAIN
Replies: 8
Views: 545

Re: Hoping DH doesn't fall for the lovebombing - AGAIN

@Keeper - thank you! To be honest, I fortunately/unfortunately haven't been around stepmonster's personality "type" much so it really took me by surprise. So I'll really have to think about some good examples. DH is pretty quick to pick up comparisons - and especially if I can get some humor in it. ...
by Melody
Tue Nov 19, 2019 9:45 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Hello
Replies: 3
Views: 253

Re: Hello

Hi Cindy and Welcome! FYI, I think you wanted to post under the "Getting to Know You" topic. This is a great group, but my condolences that you had to join this club! I look forward to your posts and your somewhat unique perspective as both a DIL and MIL (FYI I'm an older mom of two middle school ki...
by Melody
Mon Nov 18, 2019 10:08 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Hoping DH doesn't fall for the lovebombing - AGAIN
Replies: 8
Views: 545

Hoping DH doesn't fall for the lovebombing - AGAIN

I haven't seen stepmonster since March at a party. (I ignored her). DH has only seen her once and FIL once (separately even though for some forsaken reason they are still together). MIL has been "so sick" and was actually in rehab for a few months. Granted NOT the drug and mental one she should have...
by Melody
Thu Nov 14, 2019 9:01 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Hi
Replies: 5
Views: 718

Re: Daughter update Dodged a bullet?

Hmm the format changed and I haven't had coffee yet. Just wanted to add that her career which she's been working diligently towards would have been stiffled without any good reason - leaving her even more vulerable to a control freak.
by Melody
Thu Nov 14, 2019 8:58 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Hi
Replies: 5
Views: 718

Re: Daughter update Dodged a bullet?

Sorry she's going through this at the moment, but it sounds like (and from all your other posts) she is SO much better in the long run! She DID dodge a bullet and being stuck in a one-sided controlling marriage with an awful MIL! She's young (possibly too young to get married - but I live in an area...
by Melody
Tue Nov 12, 2019 4:26 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: New here
Replies: 4
Views: 376

Re: New here

Welcome Not_a-minion! It sounds like things are going the right way. Is you DH (and any siblings) perfect? No? Well, just maybe your IL's didn't do everything the right way! <Insert GASP! here> They had their chance! You and DH need to discuss this as in what to do when MIL starts in with the pushin...
by Melody
Wed Nov 06, 2019 10:15 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Indian mother in law problems
Replies: 10
Views: 708

Re: Indian mother in law problems

I haven't seen you post before, so hello and welcome Hellowelcome! I've heard enough stories to know that Indian MIL's are a special kind of crazy. I'm sorry you have to deal with this! Could you give a little more info - as in what region do you live in? I'm American and I could make a few suggesti...
by Melody
Mon Nov 04, 2019 8:00 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: BIL Hits One Outta the Park
Replies: 9
Views: 709

Re: BIL Hits One Outta the Park

Wow, what a charmer. Your wife's parents probably are drawn to BIL because he's the one who needs help. You know poor guy keeps meeting these terrible women that exploit him! - NOT! Meanwhile, he's a walking loser. He probably is handicapped more by accepting your IL's version of "help", but I'm sur...
by Melody
Tue Oct 29, 2019 8:31 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: To the Poster of "The Plan Backfired"
Replies: 1
Views: 356

To the Poster of "The Plan Backfired"

Thank you for that fun feel good story! Love! Love! Love! That had everything! - How awesome that you have your own business. - Your MIL commented that you "weren't busy" - because you know, if you work for yourself, you don't work - She stalked you - She sent a would-be flying monkey to harass you ...
by Melody
Wed Oct 23, 2019 11:07 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Of Course MIL is texting me now...
Replies: 7
Views: 485

Re: Of Course MIL is texting me now...

Don't respond. If you do, she has an opportunity to try to shove her foot in the door and keep bothering you. Her own family can't stand her, so why do you have any obligation to talk to her? She's doing this out of total desperation (as if you didn't know). And WOW! Was that ever a NON apology if I...
by Melody
Tue Oct 22, 2019 1:49 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: More updates on Felony-Niece
Replies: 7
Views: 536

Re: More updates on Felony-Niece

Not only do I remember its hard to forget! How disturbing and sad! I agree with Ruby that if Drug Boy has any brains (which even if he used to probably doesn't anymore) he would get a DNA test done. If he can't afford it? I'm sure Maury Povich would be happy to cover the cost of this one. That poor ...
by Melody
Tue Oct 22, 2019 10:27 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: My EFIL liquidated my kids' college funds!
Replies: 2
Views: 304

Re: My EFIL liquidated my kids' college funds!

DESPICABLE! So much of your DH's problems have to stem from him being raised by Lucifer himself. I don't want to get you even more upset (I can't imagine since I'm livid), but I believe since your DH is considered owner, only his reporting your FIL will count. (And we know how likely that will be). ...
by Melody
Mon Oct 21, 2019 2:53 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: It appears FIL is thirsty for some drama
Replies: 5
Views: 391

Re: It appears FIL is thirsty for some drama

Yes hello momjeans! I think your take is accurate too. Is he retired and bored - or jealous? I really hope he isn't implying that your some how "mooching". And let MIL know its a gesture of appreciation. Off tangent a little (when am I not), my background was finance, and "A Random Walk Down Wall St...
by Melody
Sat Oct 12, 2019 12:39 pm
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Time To Chat About Holiday Plans
Replies: 20
Views: 1378

Re: Time To Chat About Holiday Plans

By its very definition, "reach out" means she contacts you and not the other way around. DUH! Since you've already been accused of "playing games" I'd be tempted to call her just enough that it shows up on the caller ID and then hang up. DH's stepmonster played this game and claimed "she THOUGHT she...
by Melody
Thu Oct 10, 2019 8:51 am
Forum: In-Laws Talk
Topic: Time To Chat About Holiday Plans
Replies: 20
Views: 1378

Re: Time To Chat About Holiday Plans

Miwako - I so get that about the DH. Mine wastes money on a particular relative who doesn't deserve anything but a punch in the face. DH also waits until last minute, doesn't bother looking for online coupons, and then wastes a ton of money on express shipping (and he WORKS in shipping!) - DUH! Even...