I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Sister in Law Bore

Posted on Wed, Apr. 11, 2018 at 06:07 pm

So my SIL has been with my brother 7 years he’s studied a social science degree for 3 years then gone on to do 4 years of dentistry. The week before he does his final exams for the dentistry degree she says ‘this isn’t the life I want’ and says she wants to move to a capital city leaving my brother totally choked up right before his exams. She wants to stay with him though... just doesn’t want him to be a dentist after 7 years of trying to get there...
She is soooo difficult to talk to. She is younger than me and my husband but talks down to me because we have two kids under and we are under 35 and she thinks it’s something we need to be pitied for like ‘poor you getting pregnant young’ and I’m like no, no ‘poor you, waiting... you’re probably going to struggle if you wait much longer’ she is messy, my brother cooks every meal she doesn’t even share out the workload. She works but so does he... she is rude and totally ignores my kids when they talk to her. She clearly doesn’t like me and always seems to be trying to point score with me. The woman has no kids but tells me how to be with mine?! She gets under my skin. Try to be nice and tolerate her but I only have so many fake smiles in me. I am gutted deep down because I hope my brother with bring a lovely, warm, friendly, maternal woman into the family who wanted to be an aunt to our kids and who equally wants to have kids of her own. I feel like even if they did have kids I would have no relationship with them at all because of how she is. Why her? Why not someone with a sense of humour, who is bubbly, funny, easy to talk to, friendly, warm, maternal, non judgemental, less materialistic... why her??
She takes herself too seriously brags about her jobs, salary, makes out men in the office drool over her and I’m not being mean she’s a 5/6 out of 10 at most. If we video call my brother she never comes to speak and it feels like she’s in the background summoning him off FaceTime from his expressions. Would it kill her to say hi. She buys the most passive aggressive presents - like a Christmas present; a £5 mug saying ‘little miss bossy’ on it for me. I bought her some £60 perfume. She’s odd. Apparently earns a lot more than me, no kids so no expenses there, yet offensively tight and thoughtless. God give me strength for all future conversations with this square. I’m still holding out hope that he meets someone new, or that she does. They aren’t married yet but she’s adamant on getting married out of the country when half of the family can’t fly long haul due to illness. Selfish isn’t the word. Bitch, I really don’t like you and if you bite my head off one my time in front of my kids, in my house with your pathetic sarcastic quips I will let you know how me, my mum, my grandma, my husband, my dad and my kids really feel about you... k?
Here’s to tolerating the shit out of you until my brother sees the light 🥂

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Nast NIL

Posted on Wed, Apr. 11, 2018 at 02:02 pm

So what your Grandfather is dying. I know this sounds harsh, but since my nephew met and married you, you have done nothing but tell lies, treat me and mine like absolute shit. Did you bother to pick up the phone and offerany condolences when my mother passed, NO. In fact when I asked my nephew to come and say goodbye to my mother, his grandmother, you deliberately stayed out late, because you did not want him coming over. That shows what type of character you are.

Now you are scrambling to get things in order, but it's too late. Enjoy what time you have left with him. I will not be offering any type of condolences, since you could not bother. Karma is a bitch isn't it.

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SIL is a useless POS

Posted on Tue, Apr. 10, 2018 at 10:35 pm

Your mother is dying, We live in another state and so does your daughter. You live 15 minutes away from Mom yet you are too “busy” to visit. She sees you drive by to wherever you are going and we know it is not work you are headed off too. DH is self employed however he is going to stay with Mom until the end. You realize when he does not work he does get paid. Same with your daughter. She makes the effort. You find every excuse under the sun not to be there and make up stories about other family members to make yourself feel look better. We are all on to you and don’t believe any of the word vomit coming out of your mouth.

It is really embarrassing when your mother’s neighbour is attending all of your mothers appointments. You are disgusting. I know you will be the first one there when it comes down to the will. I hope MIL cuts you out and gives your share to the neighbour. You have done nothing to help and always play the victim. Your own daughter is sick of your S*(@.

Sick of your lies and your stories. I am not happy that DH has to leave but he is doing the right thing and we will deal with it. You on the other hand have no excuse to not be there. No job, live close by... I HATE YOU! Know this..
DH has no intentions of EVER speaking to you again.

So F&*# You. Karma is a bitch.

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Oh My...

Posted on Tue, Apr. 10, 2018 at 09:04 pm

Found out my SIL has been sitting in jail for a month now! She had been driving with a suspended license and got caught. This is her third time being caught within two years, which is a felony in my state! Since she can’t afford paying the bond out - she hasn’t had a job in years, she will be sleeping in her cell for a couple years!
I felt bad for her at first, but honestly I’m going to sleep with a smile on my face tonight. Karma just got served to you, bitch!

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Not Worth The Trip

Posted on Tue, Apr. 10, 2018 at 05:44 pm

My husbands mother could drop dead tomorrow and my only concern would be, “really, gotta make travel plans for this”?

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I hate my in laws

Posted on Tue, Apr. 10, 2018 at 03:00 pm

When my husband and I were dating my in laws sent an email to my husband stating that we were incompatible because we weren’t the right zodiac, that “mixing races” was wrong (even though my husband is mixed race himself), that because I had a daughter from a previous marriage it would never work.

When I was pregnant with our son, my mil was invited to my baby shower and on the day of she told me she’d rather go shopping with her daughter than attend my shower.

When my son was born she demanded to see him every week and I adhered to that until one week I was busy and couldn’t. She then proceeded to tell me that I was the type of person that tears apart families.

I no longer feel the need to be civil with her.

My in laws were watching my kids for a bit because they pestered my husband so much it wasn’t worth the stress. Then one day my son said my mil hit him. When I confronted her she said she would never do such a thing and the very next day my son started denying what he said because he got a new remote control car. I know she lied about it because she also took a knife to her own child’s neck when he was young and threatened him. So she would do that sort of thing.....

I hate my in laws soooo much.

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In laws are toxic, dirty, and I live with them!

Posted on Tue, Apr. 10, 2018 at 02:49 pm

My in laws are driving me crazy! MIL is always has the house dirty and I mean GROSS. I clean all day and nothing lasts until the next day or two days. When she cleans she does disgusting things like wash the bathroom sink including the handles and faucet (even where the water comes out) with the same brush she just scrubbed the toilet with. She will put things that are wet and dirty from the dogs straight in the dryer and now the lint trap even smells like straight shit and I can't get it out. If she wakes up before me in the morning she will have every single inche of the kitchen counter full of her ingredients for whatever she cooked that day and dirty dishes that she's done with and I can't make my own breakfast because I have to clean her mess first. If I kindly ask her to clean her things she will say she will politely but then for the next hour slowly eat her food and when she's done take another 30 or 45 mins to watch her novellas at the table and I just say F it and clean her mess and she will get up in a hurry and say "Ohh I was just about to clean it". For all other meals she will do the same thing and leave her mess all day for me to clean it. She is not old. She had her kids young but she does nothing all day. All of her sisters who are older than her keep their houses super clean and work full time and still find time to baby their older 15 years plus children yet washing her f ING dishes and not taking literally all day to move her laundry from the washer to the dryer is too hard for her. She even competes with me for my husband's attention. No I do not compete back lol. She tries to tell me how to do everything when I clearly do it better than her (not in a brggy or rude way just the truth) and then when company comes over she brags about me and admits that I do things better than her. Smh. She just drives me crazy. And FIL is jus a mean old man who never showers lol he's honestly not that bad tho. I've told SIL about it and she said MIL did the same thing to her and it only got better when she gave her a grandchild. Everything that goes wrong in the house is my fault and it's clearly hers but no one tells her anything because she's narcissistic and will just try to prove her point and raise hell or bring up some fault of whoever confronts her that has nothing to do with the situation. Hubby and I would move out but right now we are not financially set for it and I feel bad leaving her because she clearly cannot take care of herself of her home without me. At one point it got so bad that she hit me for telling her the truth about how bad she treats me and my hubby when we're the ones who help her and would never leave our kids as her burden like the her older son and SIL did but they are the golden children. They also spends all their days doing illegal activities instead of visiting their kids. And when they do come they shower eat and leave and barely talk to their kids. Should I just leave or should I get another house with them but with a Casita or in law home in the back, although hubby said he doesn't know how that will work because they are not humble they will want to be in our house and continue to cause me problems. What do I do? Please help me. Give me your stories and advices. This is effecting my whole life from work and growing my family and just not being stressed out and on edge everyday. When hubby and a I go out I love it but as soon as we come home I immediately get stressed out to the point where my body hurts especially neck and shoulders and I'm only 22! I didn't even mention how negative she is. Literally from the moment she wakes up right after good morning is a complaint either about the house that she dirties or her husband doing nothing (he is sick he had to retire early due to high blood pressure and a heart attack now he's only home all day everyday for her to stress him out). It could be anything. Everything is a reason to complain. I feel like I'm going to have heart problems or die early because of this. Sorry this is everywhere. I'm really frazzled.

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I dont belongs to so called society they live in !

Posted on Tue, Apr. 10, 2018 at 09:50 am

I am from south India and my husband is from north India. My Mother-in-law never accept me for "who I a am" as I was not her choise. But she wants me to follow all her rules. I visit them 1 or 2 times a year still those few days also she will make me feel like to run away somewhere. There is a cultural difference because I dont belongs to society they live in. Dont know why they dont understand that. she use to hurt me by teasing on whatever I do or whatever I wear. Please stop this! I am trying to love you.. Please dont make me hate you totally. Many time I even feel bad that I have married to guy who belongs to that kind of mean, narrow minded family. But he is not like them so I am little happy. But one or the other day I have to go back there. I am really worried how to live with people who dont treat me as their family :(

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Live long enough to be a burden to your children

Posted on Mon, Apr. 09, 2018 at 07:53 pm

My Inlaws have destroyed my life, Met my Wife 6 years ago and within the first 6 months i pretty much had to sell everything up and move closer to there state housing dump of an apartment to make my wife happy which was several moves and sales which was very stressfull whislt trying to hold a job while all they do as have lunch together every day. I ended up losing my job and mind in the process over the past few years as they are from eastern european backround and they just live out of each others pockets its so intrusive. I am on every anti depressant under the sun. Cant see a happy ending here . The only postive is they are in there 70's. If they werent id be long gone. I suggest never marry into an eastern european famikly they are fucking crasy

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