I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Ever wonder WHY?

Posted on Mon, Oct. 05, 2020 at 07:02 am

Hey MIL and FIL ever wonder WHY the other 2 did not bother to find jobs or relocate to live near you (unlike your son...my DH) and myself? I heard another story which left me puzzled...WHY DID WE EVER DO ANYTHING for you. Call the other 2 "GOLDEN BOYS" apparently they deserved so much more that DH...THE SUCCESSFUL ONE! MIL I know you were the one behind all of this...sit back and wait for the other 2 to show up and "take care of you". Signed "The Good Wife".

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Now, you are old

Posted on Sun, Oct. 04, 2020 at 10:52 am

So, I have put up with your shenanigans and hateful judgment for two decades without being supported by your golden first-born son. You are both arrogant, boarish, and inconsiderate of anyone else's time - but, I have news for you - your time is limited. That's not all - to your surprise and disdain, I am the only one left to help you as you wither before our eyes because none of the other DILs give a flying f*** about the two of you - and actually, neither do your sons (including my DH, your golden). Surprised? You shouldn't be. Keep dishing out that money to everyone else and see where they are when you fall and can't get up. Your life alert will most likely notify me, and I will be there...because my reward is knowing I rose above and took nothing from you (or off you) in life - but that I will, believe it or not, get everything upon your death. It doesn't pay to mistreat the woman you have labeled a "girl from the gutter" - especially when she is smarter than you. #RIP

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Oh, you make me soooo nervous SIL

Posted on Sun, Oct. 04, 2020 at 06:06 am

I honestly think this is the funniest thing I’ve heard during this entire débâcle. You really believe that I get “visibly uncomfortable” @ the mere mention of your name.

Hate to break it to you but you are not THAT important.

You know that I struggle with neuro-diversity- I’m visibly uncomfortable from the moment I wake up until my head hits the pillow and THEN even in some of my dreams.

Do not give yourself more credit than your fake ass deserves, biyatch.

You do not matter to me.

Period.

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Thank You Netflix

Posted on Sat, Oct. 03, 2020 at 03:54 am

Since watching the Social Dilemma my husband isn’t checking into his Facebook account for updates like he used to. The most toxic members for his family are attention whores on Facebook. He was under the impression he was truly connected with his family, no just being manipulated for the benefit of advertising dollars.

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Current Thoughts: October Edition

Posted on Fri, Oct. 02, 2020 at 04:06 pm

This is an oldie, but strangely it gets tons of mileage: Don't you realize how much you have truly alienated your grandchildren? Forget about your son and I (and I'm sure you are happy to do so), but realize your grandchildren do not really even know you (and what they DO know, they don't like).

Your progeny thinks you are horrible people. You've missed their childhood, and that my dears, is all on YOU. You've done nothing to contribute to their futures, even though you certainly have the means to do so.

My family, on the other hand, has set aside a little bit for these children. They also participate regularly in taking active interest in their lives. They have active relationships with my kids and are sources of emotional support, camaraderie, and over all family connection for them.

If something happens to my husband or I, it will be this family who my children will lean upon. These are the people who will enjoy holiday celebrations with them. These are the folks who my kids will introduce their own children to one day, and who will become part of the next generation's lives.

You all are missing out on all of this, and all because you are too miserable to get your heads out of your own asses and attempt to be happy for you own adult son's happiness. You are so bitter that you cannot find a bright spot in the dark pit in your chests to treat my children as they deserve to be treated. You are so Xenophobic and judgmental that you have no concept of unconditional love and support for us.

When you finally dust off your mortal coil, who will remember your life fondly? Very few, I suspect.

There's still time for you to change all of that, you know. Unlike you, I have the capacity for forgiveness and for making a fresh start. Of course, it DOES need to begin with your (many) required apologies.

I won't hold my breath waiting for them, however. We all know you are not capable of (or interested in) self reflection or self betterment. It is your loss, as these children are pure and beautiful souls.

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Mil

Posted on Thu, Oct. 01, 2020 at 12:36 pm

You are soooooo annoying!!!!! Get a fricking life.

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As the crow flys away

Posted on Thu, Oct. 01, 2020 at 06:10 am

MIL you finally did it. Alienated every grandchild you have. My GS isn’t blood so he’s not valuable to you. He don’t need you my Momma is a saint compared to you. I’ve watched your eyes go slack and dead of all feeling. It’s terrifying. As long as you are praised and fussed over you were happy. Well your toxic personality caught up with you. Now you don’t see any grandkid anymore because of the brawl. This is what you brewed for 40 years and this is what you reap. Your dramatic and ugly hearted. All your money and nobody wants your gifts. When you die all your shits going to Goodwill or the trash. All the pictures and anything worthless will be pitched. But i’ll take your jewelry and have it made into something new You should have not let your stinky husband run his mouth. You should have smacked the shit out of him instead of joining in on the brawl. Your grandchildren are scared of you. Your not soft or warm You have a beautiful garden that nobody wants to see. Congrats your toxic personality caught up with you. Your mother must have been a cruel and heartless woman. Not at all feminine. Like you. Good riddance. I only got maybe 10 years left before your dead and we inherit everything. I may be judged harshly for saying that but you don’t act human.

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To former son in law

Posted on Thu, Oct. 01, 2020 at 03:07 am

I realize now that you used the mirroring technique to work your way into our family. We thought we knew you and we trusted you. We treated you very well.

However, keeping up that front must of been draining on your energy and the truth came out.

It is okay. Actually, thank you for showing your true self and the wisdom we gained from you and your family in our lives for five years.

It has been a year since my daughter left you.

Time heals.

Someday we will more relief than grief.

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Ain't Going to See You Anymore

Posted on Wed, Sep. 30, 2020 at 07:46 am

My wife is great, her family is not. They are losers that need to stay out of our business. I can't control them so I took control. I refuse to ever see them again. It's been almost 4-years and I couldn't be happier.

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Shape shifters

Posted on Mon, Sep. 28, 2020 at 07:00 am

so lately I have been getting upset at historical issues with my husbands family. I cant even bring myself to call them MY inlaws. They are not good ppl. fil makes up lies about most ppl... including me and its been tough dealing with this. He's the kinda person that shits all over you then announces he's ill so you can't pull him up on anything. mil... she's a nasty... Her bullying is more subtle. She does little things like not remembering your bday when she's the kinda person who remembers the next door neighbours dog year of birth. She will agree a time for dinner with you when she knows you got other family to see as well but changes last minute with no legitimate reason so you end up not seeing your own family. She will ignore my child but around others play the loving grandma. I thought having two brother is laws would be easier then she's. Wrong. Both are waste of spaces and jealous. Add to the mix a wife of the bil who is no better. Manipulative @#$% springs to mind. why oh why, are ppl like this. I dont actually know. I think ppl convince themselves its ok to be nasty to an outsider. that they are all blood and if an outsider has needs such as having every other Xmas with her family then you're trying to steal their son/brother. or when they want to interfer in every aspect of your life they can't understand why you might not want them to. Its much easier to see the daughter inlaw as a two faced cow. This family cant be fair. Its not just me that says this . Im close with my husbands cousins and they say not to take it personally because they don't get on with anyone. Which is true but how is one meant to be happy when they know their inlaws are shape shifters. One minute they are human... the next they are a pack of dogs!

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