I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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Mil from hell

Posted on Mon, May. 13, 2019 at 02:31 pm

Where do I start. Started seeing boyfriend. Known his mother and father in law for many years as parents next door neighbours. Mil always kept a photo of my boyfriend and an ex on shelf from 15 years previous/ you would of thought she would have taken it down especially when our children came along - anyway we had a child - found out she asked sister in law to try to get me an abortion. Had second child - not much she could do. 8 years on we have decided to get married but she said to a neighbour that she was going to try to wreck the wedding. We all found out as neighbour was upset and told us. She is so hellous and 2 faced. I can’t bear the woman and now she is staying with us for a week. 😬😬😬what is wrong with some people!!!

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thats why she never told you anything

Posted on Mon, May. 13, 2019 at 01:57 pm

My dumb MIL was so proud of herself over the fact that her other adult child opened up to her and shared some very personal problems that she just had to share it with us. When FIL literally said “shut the fuck up! That convo was private!” she was so surprised that we would all be horrified at her violating someone’s confidence. “They didn’t tell me NOT to tell anyone else.” My wife never told her mom anything growing up. She still doesn’t tell her anything. Now I know why!

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Get a clue

Posted on Mon, May. 13, 2019 at 12:57 pm

There's a reason why your oldest child doesn't visit. There's a reason why your second child handles all your affairs.... from a distance and rarely visits. There's a reason why the only person who visits you regularly is your second child's spouse (me), and for less than an hour, and only once a week. You might want to think about why that is.

But I don't think you will. And so when I cut it down even more, you'll still be surprised and wonder why "no one ever visits!"

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Family hierarchy.

Posted on Mon, May. 13, 2019 at 11:54 am

We are earning twice the money of what the golden SIL and her husband are making.

I am not saying that to brag, in fact its the complete opposite. We live modestly because we are paying for everything ourselves. We’re not loaded, but we’re financially independent. It’s a concept thats alien to SIL because she is a total moocher.

My in laws are still paying about 75% of SIL’s living expenses and i could give you a list:
SIL’s kids private education $24k a year.
Super cheap rent at my in laws property. $1500 a month. For a 3 bedroom 2 bathroom property in California with a huge backyard and close to the beach, 😂 it’s amazing bargain! On top of that, FIL was venting to my husband how SIL only pay rent whenever she feels like it. Wow.
MIL is still paying for SIL’s utilities, groceries, clothes, housekeeper, babysitter.
SIL whined about her old car and FIL bought her a $30k new car straight away.
On top of SIL’s $60k first wedding, $20k second wedding, $60k condo downpayment, overseas study, her college, her postgraduate, et cetera, etc.

That’s like two properties my in laws bought for SIL. Two colleges. Two weddings. SIL’s two kids expenses. SIL knows her parents are going to give her the house she’s renting from them anyway, that’s why she barely pay her rent to her parents.

Of course SIL can go on vacation all the time, MIL is paying for that too. In contrary, we have to plan ahead and save money to be able to go on vacation (that we pay ourselves). Our instagram may not be filled with fancy vacation pictures, but we’re fine with it. We’re not going to be in debt for social media whoring.

For some twisted reason, MIL truly want to make SIL looks ‘successful’. She invested sooooooo much money on SIL just to make her looks decent. Which is funny, because SIL still manages to fuck her own life up. It’s like putting lipstick on a turd. It’s still a turd.

Meanwhile, my spouse is the actual successful child in their family, he climbed the ladder, he worked hard to be where he is, yet he never received acknowledgement from his parents. The most he got from them is the same generic gift basket for his birthday every year. Yeah, MIL don’t even bother trying for him.

Their family hierarchy is so weird for me. The shitty child who treats her parents like garbage gets everything, while the good child who treated his parents to gifts and dinners gets nothing.

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How funny.

Posted on Sun, May. 12, 2019 at 03:37 pm

MIL was saying loudly how women should not depend on a man.

How funny.

Is that why her golden daughter is still mooching off her ex husband, now second husband, their family, and MIL and FIL is still paying 75% of SIL’s living cost?

Also MIL’s biggest accomplishment in life is marrying a son of a self made millionaire.

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You Fucking Bitch

Posted on Sun, May. 12, 2019 at 03:05 pm

You just ruined my Mother’s Day. Your son and I had an all out argument over you. You cannot help yourself. You have to turn a phone call from your son
into torture. You cried and complained how you might not ever see him again. You blamed me and how it’s unfair you cannot see your son. You know what lady? You’re the reason he doesn’t see you. Even when I beg him to just suck it up and go see mommy, he declines. The huge argument is the fact that you cannot fucking find it in your heart to be positive and make some bullshit apology to me. If you could just step outside yourself for one second and fake a moment of amends long enough to not kill yourself, you might make headway with your son. He might buy it. I hate you so much for making your delima, my problem here at home. Fuck you forver, it would make life easier if you would drip dead, we’d get over you, I’m already over you. I wish you dead. Fuck you

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You Crack Me Up

Posted on Sun, May. 12, 2019 at 01:26 pm

Oh, what a laugh you often give me in your attempts to insult me. Did you think that by giving only a handful of emotionless words on my Mother's Day card that I would give two sh!t$? All it did was show my husband how petty you are, further bolstering my points. What you don't know is this: he's beyond caring as well. He just goes through the motions. If only you truly knew.

I got several cards and well-wishings from people who I genuinely care about. We all laugh about you often, as we did this morning when we got together for a lovely brunch and I told them about your little well-wishing.

Fortunately, I don't have to see your face. Trust me when I tell you that anything I do, has a purpose, just like your actions do. There is no love lost, Honey. If only you could hear the echoing of laughter at your every stupid-@$$ed action. It gives us endless moments of delight to imagine you over there stewing in your own juices. We raised a glass in tribute to your stupidity this morning. Here's to YOU, dearest MIL.

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Just tired of this

Posted on Sun, May. 12, 2019 at 12:55 pm

It's always the same fight dh picks his family over me because I don't bitch...we talk about things in a constructive. The in-laws play dumb and hurt me even more. It's not worth the fight though. I'm over here getting double bs. I'm going to lose it soon. I'm going to leave if this keeps up. I deserve better. I shouldn't have to fight to be treated with a little bit of respect. I have always treated you with respect...

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Hurt

Posted on Sat, May. 11, 2019 at 06:11 pm

During our last call, you mentioned that fil said we were just using you.

For what, the obligatory $25.00 checks on our birthdays.

You both do more for strangers!

I can’t do this anymore; you are all SICK and TWISTED!

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All mighty virgin MIL

Posted on Fri, May. 10, 2019 at 02:27 pm

MIL was married a virgin to her first husband, and she wont let anyone forget it. Husband and I aren't religious at all, we lived together for a year before we got married. I can handle her comments about me. But she started questioning me about my parents who have been married for almost 30 years and got married when my mom was a couple months pregnant, she gave me the usual "we'll I earned MY white dress" bullshit. Shut her down by reminding her about her SECOND marriage. Her first husband had died about a year after them getting married, three months after his death she got pregnant by another man who was married to another woman at the time. Let that sink in. They lived together for six years before our super virgen MIL actually got married to him. Hopefully wont be hearing that bullshit speech again anytime soon.

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