I Hate My Inlaws!

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In-laws, and the quarrels they start, have been the subject of stories for many years. This is your opportunity to sound off about your own in-laws! Tell the world the story, or stories, of your in-laws. We're looking for the funny ones, the sad ones, the crazy ones, and every story in-between.

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I went to a birthday party today

Posted on Sat, May. 12, 2018 at 01:56 pm

I wasn't invited to the last birthday party and I found out about it via FB. This is nothing normal for my NIL. But today had to be the worst behavior she has shown so far. I pull in behind her and she gets out of the car and glares at me. I get the fact that you have never liked me and the feeling is mutual, but I am adult enough not to let the kids see it. It's bad enough that my nephew picked up on it and questioned me about it. I gave him an non committal answer enough to calm him down. He is too young to be subject to your antics and his mother is stupid enough to go along with what ever you do.
I was good and kept my mouth shut and yet people figured out what you were doing and as usual they went along with you. No biggee, because I do not care what you do. You are a fake, phony so called Christian and your behavior is going to come back to haunt you. Were you jealous because your daughter came home and talked about coming over to visit and what a good time she had? I'll bet your were so that means no more visits for me. There loss not mine.

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To my sil

Posted on Sat, May. 12, 2018 at 12:15 pm

What the hell is wrong with you? Get off your fat ass and get a job. You drug him to your home state and he's miserable, I mean he blasts it all over fb. I can tell you this, he's only following you because of the kid he never was supposed to have (miracle baby). I've tried so hard to be friends with you for the sake of my brother and it's obvious you don't want the same. You won't open up. But seriously, get off your ass and get a job. Maybe he wouldn't be so miserable if it wasn't for how lazy selfish and stupid you are. Our family never liked you BUT we have all been kind to you because you made him happy. Made/make- who knows what he's thinking. I'm sorry brother, you must have been shit faced to have seen something in her.

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More fun than any board game I have ever played!

Posted on Fri, May. 11, 2018 at 06:47 pm

I have a favorite new game, MIL. DH and I sit together and enjoy a coffee on weekend mornings and talk. As we reminisce about places we have lived, houses we have owned, things the kids did, I often find a chance to sneak in a story to tell him about something mean-spirited and critical and nasty you said or did to me. But I don't tell him it was you who did it. I tell him the story and that "someone" did such and such or said so and so to me, and I tell the truth exactly as it happened without naming YOU as the nasty person who said or did whatever I am describing to him. He ALWAYS is disgusted and usually says things like "Well that person was just stupid to say that to you, and we all know you can't fix stupid" or he will say "That was an incredibly mean and racist thing to say/do" etc. and I sit with a little smile on my face knowing that he is disgusted with YOUR behavior and the way you treated ME for so many years (until I cut you off). Of course, if I told him it was YOU who said it or did it, he'd get angry with me and defend you, because that's what a momma's boy does. But as long as he does not know it was YOU who wronged me, he is indignant and disgusted that I was treated that way. And I sit and smile, knowing I behaved nicely and you did not. Oh, and your grandchildren know the truth too, and that is why they couldn't care less about keeping in touch with you or having any real relationship with you at all. Karma. It's a thing of beauty, especially when we are lucky enough to see it in action! Your DIL

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Mother's Day

Posted on Fri, May. 11, 2018 at 01:37 pm

My DH wanted to know if I was going with him on Mother's Day to visit his mother. After laughing I said NO!!! First off she's NOT my mother. And second she's no mother to her son. He supports her by paying her rent every month. We have been for years because his losers sister (5 of them) don't chip in or offer to help. BUT they do all take advantage of the place my money pays for by staying there from time to time. The greedy MIL NEVER comes to visit or cook anything for her ONLY son. She does NOTHING for him except have her hand stuck out. She will even blow him off when he tries and visit her. She's a manipulative nasty greedy bitch. So no I will not visit her on mothers day. She may have shit out 6 kids but she's no mother.

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Mean spirited?

Posted on Fri, May. 11, 2018 at 06:26 am

Sil u want to say I’m mean spirited? After ur 3rd degree when I didn’t know u, telling my hubby not to marry me & leaving me out of important events like ur baby showers I’m the one who is mean? U r the most hateful human being I have ever met! This is y I don’t come around u! I have never given my hubby any kind of ultimatum about being around u! I just told him I cannot deal with u! Ur intimidating! As far as other sil’s lying to my face about ur baby shower I wouldn’t have went in the first place so it wasn’t necessary to lie to me about it! & if ur thinking I’m jealous,immature & insecure in any way think again! I’m just not dealing with mean & hateful people who can’t take responsibility for anything they did!

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The Weight of Waste

Posted on Thu, May. 10, 2018 at 09:05 pm

Dear Failure-in-Law and Monster-in-Law,

Please look at your reflections in a mirror and be honest with who you see.

You both are morbidly obese. You have been severely overweight for decades. You are suffering from numerous diseases because you two have led very unhealthy and sedentary lifestyles since I have known you (over 25 years).

I have lost 210 pounds. Yes, I do have 50 pounds more to lose. Your son has shed 100 pounds. Yes, I understand that he has 70 pounds more to go.

However, you still constantly criticize our weights. You just cannot help yourselves.

So, I have this to say. Until you two are the epitome of perfect health and look like Mr. and Mrs. Olympia, keep your fatty mouths shut!

Do you realize that you're wasting away your lives by the harmful physical weight you carry and you're wasting any chance of a meaningful relationship with your son by weighing him down with negativity?

Oh, that's right. You can't shut your mouths because you're always shoveling crappy food in your gullet!

What a waste! Why can't I get rid of a thousand pounds by losing the two of you?!!!!

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Selfish In-Laws

Posted on Thu, May. 10, 2018 at 09:07 am

My in-laws should be called outlaws. When i first met my wife and we seriously dating, I thought they were nice people. My wife came with two loving daughters and I accepted to take care of them as their biological father was not in the picture. When we got married, my father in law told me to sell my house and to purchase a house closure to them. He insisted and requested numerous times. His reasoning is because we lived to far for them (30 minutes drive), despite the area I live is better neighborhood with higher house and property value then where they reside. That was not the end of it, they also refused to visit the girls grade school program saying it was to far for them. My wife does not tell the girls the truth and that bothers me a little. Well my in laws now plan trips with my wife and grand daughters (2x) without my knowledge and then they spring it on me on surprise. They have also done a similar situation on a summer vacation retreat they attended as a family. The only reason why it ceased is because the lodging closed for business.

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SIL Seeking Relationship with a Cupcake

Posted on Thu, May. 10, 2018 at 09:03 am

SIL, it's so sad to see your daughters finally trying to take care of themselves, get fit, eat healthy and my brother trying to encourage them while you passive-aggressively try to sabotage their efforts by digging in your heels, and, rather than trying to join them or encourage them, sabotage them by continuing to make the most unhealthy foods imaginable. You know that your husband is trying to help his daughters be healthier and fit and you can't stand it. Why? Because he doesn't want them to be like you. They don't want to be like you. Nobody wants to be like you. And you honestly thought you were going to be their North Star. A proud mom with a bunch of obese and frumpy girls loyally following in your stead. Were you ever wrong. I knew this day would come when I first met you and you loathed anyone and everyone, myself included, who took good care of themselves. My brother deserved so much better. Now go take care of yourself or be lonely with your resentment-filled cupcakes. That's the only place you'll find love anymore, darling.

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Not Visiting MIL

Posted on Thu, May. 10, 2018 at 08:50 am

Sorry DH, but you’re going to spend time fighting with your family members being with your mother. They won’t let you and make you feel guilty about everything. It’s going to be hard for her this year, as she lost her eldest child (your sister) to drug abuse 6 months ago. She already pulls herself away from everyone as we speak, except for Loser BIL and his daughter. She want nothing to do with us, rather me and our kids in particular. I will drive and spend time with MY mother with our kids! I won’t be overturned by you either.

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Who does this?

Posted on Thu, May. 10, 2018 at 07:49 am

“Your family or your spouse.” Who gives someone this type of ultimatim? Oh yeah, jealous, selfish, mean-spirited, manipulative, and controlling in-laws do. When you take a huge gamble and force a choice like this on someone who doesn’t deserve your craziness, don’t be surprised if you lose every single time.

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