I Hate My Inlaws!

A saga that involves a dildo...

Posted on Fri, Jul. 06, 2018 at 12:13 am

As a child, I met my mother-in-law and her best friend. My own mother was a horrendous woman and long story short I looked to my future mother-in-law's friend as my mother-figure. I had years of a great relationship with her and her entire family. We bonded over having suffered inappropriate abuse from our fathers, for instance.

I had a terrible divorce and I lived back and forth between my own place and my "sister's" apartment, the latter especially as I began dating my now husband, my "sister's" distant cousin, the son of mother-figure's best friend.

My now husband sent me a naughty toy in the mail. My "sister" mistakenly opened it and got jealous/feigned indignation and ran off to tell her mother. This woman thereupon decides, on the day of her grandmother's wake, to email my now husband about his choices in life being wrong; he told her to mind her business and other choice words. She then screeches at my face in front of everyone about a dildo that I didn't even know I had received and that I should control my man...

I detach from my mother figure and her entire family save my now husband and my in-laws. My real demented mother somehow got back into mother-figure's good graces and they teamed up to torture me.

My brother died and real demented mother pulled the marionette strings for mother-figure who controlled telling me, (mis)handling the burial, withholding the remains, etc. Instead of just a typical death, the continual intrusion continues even years after his death. Just recently, she has even been telling people that I bought my own brother's ashes.

My in-laws were involved with this first death in my own family. They intervened on my behalf against mother-figure. But I told them the next time that woman imposes herself on me again in this way, I am holding them responsible. They have the ability to change her evil ways by telling her what she did and continues to do is utterly wrong. Cold shoulder, no welcome in the home. Why? In defense of my son and his wife, I will not permit you into my home until you fix the mess you caused because of a dildo...

... Yes... a dildo. My mother-in-law, mother-figure's best friend told me mother-figure's justification for having tortured me over my brother's death... I'm disgusting for having brought a dildo into her daughters home. 1) I did not - I didn't even know I had mail because mother figure's daughter couldn't read my name and then committed federal mail fraud by opening and confiscating my property (across state lines at that...) 2) her daughter could have used it with her married boyfriend so I'm not sure why a dildo is so immoral...

So, my mother dies finally. I am told not immediately, but weeks later. By my in-laws, but of course, I already knew from other people. They did not want to ruin mother's day. I am not a mother and they know I am infertile - thanks, Dad! They did not want to ruin their own day is what that really meant. Again, this mother-figure of mine intervened, screwed up the burial, and used it as an opportunity to hurt me. Remember the abusive father? Mother-figure teams up with my abuser to torture me!

I learned of my mother's death hours before my abusive and estranged for decades father shows up to my business to try to find me. It's actually dangerous. He had not been around in decades and suddenly he had my addresses? I sleep with a gun now.

The in-laws? There they are sitting there meekly saying, "we can't fix stupid (mother-figure)." No, you can tell stupid they are an abomination for what she has done not once but twice now to our daughter-in-law... because of a dildo. You can tell stupid that her behavior literally put our daughter-in-law's life on the line... Because mother-figure's daughter, the one who sleeps with married men, could not handle the sight of a dildo that wasn't hers...

So, I cannot tolerate the complete lack of respect. In one of the most traumatic times - mourning - I got trampled, not just once, but twice, and my in-laws let it happen twice. I hate them for the feelings I was forced to endure. If they had told mother-figure, their friend that her actions were not tolerated, I could have had half the pain I suffered because of it.

My husband, of course, loves his parents. I cannot tolerate the thought of them. I shudder to think of when they will darken my doorstep. My husband thinks this will pass. If I arrive home from work one day and see them in my home, I think I will need to ask for a divorce right then and there and pack my bags and leave.

I almost want to do this now. Because of a dildo...

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