I Hate My Inlaws!

Dear Former Son In Law

Posted on Mon, Mar. 16, 2020 at 10:24 am

It is a odd feeling that we haven't been in touch with you for so long.

I realize many things about what happened as time has passed.

I know that you honestly will never understand why she left you. My goal was to give you some positive closure during our previous conversation. I am glad it helped you.

However, I didn't share the following......

It isn't your fault that at the age of 3 your mom left your dad to be with your step dad for us money.

It isn't your fault that the only good and consistent thing in your life has been money, material things, and seeing people being mistreated on a regular basis.

It isn't your fault that you were told that it was your fault that your mom left your dad because he didn't make enough money.

It isn't your fault that your mom and step dad are narcissistic.

It isn't your fault that you were raised to believe that things matter more than people.

It isn't your fault that you were told you were responsible for your moms happiness.

It isn't your fault that no one before us loved you for who you are, verses what you could buy them.

Former son in law, you did the best you could with my daughter in the relationship based on what you knew. It is the wiring in your head that is incomplete.

Remember, you are worthy of love and happiness.

Remember that I love you and am rooting for you in life.

Love,

Former "other mom"

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