I Hate My Inlaws!

You Are Cold

Posted on Sat, Aug. 01, 2020 at 12:41 pm

Go ahead and continue to act in such a cold, unaffectionate manner. Each time you do, and each time your flying monkeys follow suit, you make it so obvious to my husband just how much bile and bitterness you have for him.

Oh, you like to float the narrative that this is all about ME, but look at all of your actions over his entire life. Also, my dear, if you truly hated ME that much...and if you truly "loved" my husband that much, you would be treating him with as much love and affection as you possibly could in an attempt to win him over.

Don't you realize that this coldness only pushes him further away from you? Do you think that by "punishing" him in this way that he will come begging for your love and affection?

He's tried on so many occasions to get a dialogue going with you, and you have refused (using distraction, denial, and gas-lighting tactics to get the subject changed). He's tried opening up communication with you, which of course you have zero ability to do. He's tried being vulnerable and showing you his emotional side, which you completely ignored (or worse, took advantage of to try to hurt his feelings).

A day is coming when he will want to stop communicating altogether with you if you keep this up. If that's what you're hoping for, then I guess keep on doing what you're doing.

Believe it or not, I have never wished for that. I do, however, wish for an end to this hurt that you and your ilk constantly cause him (and our children). So, when the time comes, I won't be putting up any kind of defense for you if he finally makes that move for a CO. You will have certainly driven him to it.

Your chances to turn this around are running out.

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