I Hate My Inlaws!

My MIL says thinks I enjoy her misery

Posted on Fri, Jun. 04, 2021 at 09:26 am

Ever since I got married in this family, I only tried to do my best. My DH had to leave his job to get his sisters married and I worked off my ass to contribute to the sister's dowries, run our household, and fulfill all their basic needs we could. We bought sisters cars when we didn't have one. I have got absolutely nothing from the family except one pair of gold earrings which were taken away later. They gifted me cash and stole it away before I left their house. After all sisters got married and we arranged for basic facilities in their house (like a standing kitchen, water pump and tank, and proper wiring), we constructed our house. From that moment on, my mil worked her best to break off my relationship with my DH. He became abusive after four months of staying with us. I endured an ever-increasing abuse for three and a half years and then moved to my mom's house with my daughter when he started becoming violent. My mil had fit of angers by then when she called me all sorts of names. I moved and decided to be on my own. We are not divorced and my husband comes visits us once or twice a week. I go but rarely. MIL clapped her hands and laughed our breakup news to all my SILs. The same thing started happening with my brother-in-law's wife and I intervened. I told my BIL of the true face of my MIL. My mil decided that I am her arch enemy. Still, once or twice a year, when I hear about big fights or her illness or operation, I call her. Yesterday, I heard police came to my in-laws' place and I called her to see if things are alright at home. And then I learned that she says that I call to get the gossip and because I enjoy her misery. It's breaking my heart. I don't know if I hate these people or I am just sad over how they see me.

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